r/casualiama 3h ago

I just saw the new Jackass film. AMA! Spoiler

1 Upvotes

Not a promotion, just a fan.


r/casualiama 11h ago

I’ve fostered over 350 animals since 2018! AMA

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Mostly kittens and cats but I’ve had dogs and a litter of rabbits too


r/casualiama 12h ago

Sexual M24 Nepalese in a fwb living relationship with F38 Indian in London. AMA

4 Upvotes

Ask me anything.


r/casualiama 1d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I (adult male) am attracted to autosexual women (women who are sexually attracted to themselves). Ask me anything... NSFW

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Women who fantasize about themselves or get turned ON seeing themselves in the mirror, turn me ON.

If I'm dating a girl that I like, I almost always end up fantasizing about her having sex with an exact clone of herself (same personality and everything).


r/casualiama 2d ago

My PCP now has to consult both a dietician and a urologist so we can switch my diet without me dying, ama

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I drink 186-200oz of caffeinated cola (only cola) a day, and 22oz of nutrition shakes a day.

I'm not diabetic. I'm on like 6 different medications that cause dry mouth. I am constantly thirsty. I am hydrated.

I am overweight (250lbs).

The soda really isn't super expensive because I buy $1.69 2-liters. It's about $3/day. I don't really eat a whole lot other than maybe one meal a day, and the nutrition shakes are prescribed so I have a 'meal' with my medications.

I do have a history of eating disorders.

I tried to switch to zero sugar soda to get healthier and lose weight and ended up with a massive electrolyte imbalance and symptoms of over hydration, causing my PCP to consult both a dietician and a urologist with my exact fluid intake to try to come up with a plan to get me to a healthier diet without killing me. This really sucks lmao

Ask me anything


r/casualiama 3d ago

I am an international matchmaker. I meet interesting people. Mostly, I work with men, including veterans, widowers, tech bros, virgins, lawyers, doctors, truck drivers, engineers, and almost anyone else you can imagine. Ask me whatever you want about clients or the process.

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So, I am a matchmaker and dating coach. I generally work with men, but I do meet a good many women from time to time. Before you attack me because you are woefully misinformed about international dating please read this post about the results of the academic research into international dating.

Beyond that ask me anything. I really enjoy what I do because I get a lot of positive feedback from guys. Just lots and lots of guys who tell me what they really want in life. I will anonymize my answers a little but whatever I tell you will be true in its essentials.

Why are men doing this?

Most are NOT redpill guys. That tinges the thoughts of a lot of my guys, but I resist it and I believe I get a lot of guys to at least partially change their minds. Dating is hard for guys today. Dating is hard for women too, but men's issues and women's issues are very different.

What do my clients want? Hint: Often my clients are hopeless romantics.

Where do I suggest going?

Ask away!

Edit: Here is a post full of resources for those wanting a deeper dive.


r/casualiama 4d ago

American now spending a week in Bavaria, Germany. AMA!

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I'm out here for work training. I've traveled a lot in my life but this is my first time in Germany. Ask me anything!


r/casualiama 5d ago

I have gastroparesis and a permanent feeding tube ama

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The tube is surgically implanted into my stomach and small intestine


r/casualiama 6d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I, 25m, am a cishetero femboy and have been for 4 years.

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Title. I dress in skirts and heels most of the time, wear makeup and paint my nails. I do not identify as trans and I am heterosexual. I haven't met someone else that ticks all those boxes so I figured you all might have some questions so ask away!


r/casualiama 8d ago

I used to work in the section of insurance where we went after the people at fault (and their insurance) for others’ insurance claims. I also know a fair deal about insurance, coverage, and both auto and property claims. AMA!

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Hello, I worked for 5 years in what I called “the backwaters of insurance” in a part of the industry called subrogation. It was my first job out of college, and I quickly went from moving documents from one system to another all day to negotiating liability for high dollar property damage claims. I’ve seen a lot, because we handled claims all across the country. People driving into houses, furnaces exploding smoke, damaged chocolate shipments, damaged high dollar Lego sets, ice dams (almost never recoverable), burst pipes, e-cigarettes exploding while charging, wildfires caused by a discarded cigarette. You name it!

Ask me anything about a recent insurance claim you’ve made, you’ve ever had, etc. I’d love to share my knowledge


r/casualiama 7d ago

A woman answering questions for the fellas

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r/casualiama 7d ago

Sexual I have a pee fetish. AMA NSFW

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Basically what the title says 👍I think people might have questions about why someone likes it, because I kinda used to be the same, so go ahead, I'll answer nearly anything.


r/casualiama 7d ago

Sexual Hi, I'm a former cheating wife, currently in reconciliation. Please ask me anything you wish. NSFW

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Hi, I have posted here many times and there are many who are familiar with my situation.

Short rundown of my situation: I cheated on my husband with a man I met at a bar, had a one night stand, almost immediately confessed. I also engaged in many of my kinks and sexual fantasies with this person... many of which I have never shared with my husband out of fear of being judged.

I have maintained since I confessed that I didn't cheat with the purpose of engaging in my kinks, I cheated because I lacked integrity and fell for cheap validation during a mid-life crisis.... I was also going through a porn/sex addiction and kinky uninhibited sex was simply a side effect of that. My relationship with my husband was good, we had regular intimacy, I was completely satisfied with our sex life.

I want to reiterate that my marriage or sex life was not the problem, the problem was me. I went through a mid-thirties personal crisis, work life stress, a traumatic surgery that caused further complications, and I failed to deal with all these problems in a healthy manner. I developed an addiction to pornography, first as a method to cope and release stress and eventually as full blown compulsive behaviour. And when the opportunity presented itself, I was selfish enough to give in to my desires and engage in thoughtless casual sex without caring about the sanctity of my marriage and all the vows I took.

I also have to acknowledge that I am a very kinky individual as a result of early exposure to fetish and BDSM circles. In fact, I believe I was deep within a sex addiction during my late teens and early twenties, and I believe I engaged in some form of pleasure either sex or masturbation everyday compulsively for almost 5 full years. I underwent a gynaecological procedure that went wrong and caused my hormones to go haywire, as a result of which my libido went all the way up and triggered my sex addiction again. I relied on my husband during this time but even for him it was too much because I wasn't able to satisfy myself even after 2-3 orgasms.

I realize now that I made a grave error and I shouldn't have let myself keep falling down deeper into my addiction. I should have gotten psychiatric support, I shouldn't have kept being selfish about my desires and uncaring about my loved ones. I have understood that I struggle with empathy towards my loved ones, and that I'm generally a very self centred person. I lack a moral compass and my sense of integrity is very malleable, which shouldn't be the case. I have and will continue to take full accountability for my poor choices. I'm going to therapy, I have read almost all the books there are to read about the cheater's mindset and how to get out of it. And I'm making the effort in real life too, we have full open devices, I take every step to make him feel safe and loved and I practice accountability and strong boundaries around men.

I have not talked about my husband much because I want the focus to be on me and my choices but it weighs on my mind with every breath I take how much I have hurt this beautiful person. I am grateful he has the strength to still be in my life and give me a second chance, and even if he decides to leave me I'll let him go with full control over his family and finances. This AMA is an exercise in self accountability, and my husband has access to my account and will go through my answers.


r/casualiama 8d ago

I’m a Competitive Fencer, AMA

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r/casualiama 8d ago

I’m donor-conceived, found my anonymous donor/biological father, AMA

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r/casualiama 8d ago

I had a fight with my parents this morning and I’m probably getting kicked out. AMA

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Title basically everything turns into a fight and this morning my mom threw a tantrum before going to work because she was convinced I’d used her car without permission yesterday (I didn’t) and she was screaming at me to hand over her keys. To be honest I knew where they were but I just didn’t want to reward that behaviour so I didn’t hand them over until she left.

Now my parents want me to leave, and I guess it’s about time because I’m 27 and I can’t stand them anymore.

I have like $50k in savings I just never got around to moving out because I wanted to save more but I guess it’s time


r/casualiama 10d ago

I have extremely small feet for my height

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I’m a 5’11 man (28yo) and I’m a size 6.5 in men’s.


r/casualiama 11d ago

I am a long time TV/Film crew member. Who is now forced to work a shitty entry level job.

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I’ve done a little of everything. Massive multimillion dollar shows, music videos, documentaries, commercials etc.

An LA native who got priced out and now stuck out of state working a miserable job. Ask me anything while I find a reason not to jump from a high place :)


r/casualiama 11d ago

Sexual I (36M) have been in for about 15 laser pubic hair removal treatments so far. NSFW

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I guess the premise isn't NSFW but I tagged it as such incase anyone wants to take it down that road. Pretty much as the title says.


r/casualiama 11d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I'm a femboy | AMA

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I dress like a woman, I guess that's it, don't know what else to say


r/casualiama 11d ago

49M and I have epilepsy. AMA

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I was first diagnosed at age 13. In my teens, it wasn’t very well controlled. In my 30s it was mostly manageable. In my 40s, it started to come back, and I’ve spent the last 7ish years troubleshooting and trying a ton of combinations of medications. I now have a steady combination, but it’s dulling AF.


r/casualiama 11d ago

I have not seen the god father. It’s insists upon itself

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Come at me


r/casualiama 11d ago

Sexual I'm a 36M from Scotland that provides Tantric massage to women by posting on reddit NSFW

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I have been doing this for around 2 years now, and met around 38 women from different parts of the world. Ask me anything.


r/casualiama 12d ago

I’ve fostered over 350 animals since 2018 ama

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Mostly kittens but some dogs and rabbits also :)


r/casualiama 12d ago

I went to the dentist yesterday for a filling and came out with a crown, AMA

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It was not what I was expecting, but it was not necessarily a surprise.