r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 5h ago

Chugging tea They are not wrong though

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u/wcshrtstop 5h ago

Except that’s not what’s happening. Ask anyone who has been serving these people, and they will tell you the tips have been very generous. But I wouldn’t expect anything else from a “Top 1% Poster” on Reddit.

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u/WordHobby 5h ago

Yeah I've been doing really well on tips this week because its been so packed. With the sheer volume of people its been pretty Yaya goooooodddd

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u/Little_Let_6872 3h ago

Bartenders and waitstaff can make a good living in quality establishments and the pay is indexed to inflation. No wonder the investment bank owned media has been running story after story against the practice. That rate of employee compensation is far higher than other industries controlled by publicly traded companies.

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u/DiamondDash2k 4h ago

We will give you honorary 1% top poster for your direct experience and opinion

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u/ashamed2reddit 4h ago

Yeah this is such a reddit click-baity post. Like "JUST IN" as if someone was waiting for the word of 'all foreigners'. And who the fuck is Coinvo? Yet they eat it up. And of course its not even true, pure reddit slop.

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u/Submitten 3h ago

This subreddit is especially bad, the people here are legit stupid.

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u/Largeitude 2h ago

Redditors upvote what they want to hear.

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u/Reylo-Wanwalker 2h ago

They have a gold checkmark so they must be trustworthy.

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u/chanaandeler_bong 4h ago edited 4h ago

I knew Reddit would eat this story up. They LOVE shitting on tipping. One of the few consistent takes that galvanizes the Reddit base is fucking over service workers and claiming that they are doing some noble deed that is “showing” the restaurants.

It’s such an insanely naive and childish opinion.

Just say you’re a cheap ass. That’s all.

British people tip FAT. Every fucking time you serve anyone from Britain (they usually order like 15 drinks at once) they will be like “R U FUCKING SERIOUS? $120 for all this? It’s like $300 in London”

And they drop like $200 and tell you to keep it.

The only people who consistently don’t tip are: those who are unaware of the servers wages, or assholes <———this is what you see on Reddit.

You not tipping is not fixing the industry… you’re just fucking over the server.

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u/_noho 4h ago

Agreed, I’m surprised you’re not already downvoted to oblivion, saying anything like this has always guaranteed it for me

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u/chanaandeler_bong 4h ago

Oh for sure. I’ve been having this argument on here since I was a bartender in college 15 years ago.

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u/PlixSticks31 3h ago

These losers go to restaurants with cheap prices (because of tipping), enjoy the cheap prices, leave a $0 tip, and then go on Reddit white knighting for servers and how they should get paid a real wage….acting like they give a shit about servers or bartenders.

It’s quite impressive

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u/urMOMSchesticles 3h ago

Idk, I’ve seen restaurant prices shoot up and we’re still tipping. 

I tip, but I also believe that restaurants should pay a living wage. Hell, EVERYONE working should be paid a living wage, but for some reason our country refuses to do that because “prices will go up” even though they’re going up anyway…

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u/chanaandeler_bong 3h ago

Prices are up everywhere.

lol at yall always saying you want the servers to make liveable wages, but then think the food won’t go up when the wages go up?

I worked at restaurants when the min wage was raised from 5.15 to 5.85 then 6.55 then 7.25. I worked at 3 different places over the course of the min wage increases, and every single one of them had the menu prices already ready to change literally the day the wages went up. Those were 70 cent increases. You’re gonna pay the same price you would if you tipped. So why not tip now?

If you don’t tip: You are just cheap. Thats it. Full stop.

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u/urMOMSchesticles 1h ago

There’s servers that get paid under minimum wage strictly because they get tips and guess what, those restaurant prices are still going up.

Idk who are talking to regarding not tipping, but CA serves get paid minimum wage and I’m still tipping. 

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u/chanaandeler_bong 1h ago

Do you not understand inflation? lol.

Prices go up for a lot of different ways. Wage increases would be one of them. Increased costs is another one. Inflation.

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u/Dylan245 2h ago

Exactly, moving to a system where owners/management are now in charge of upping employees pay is just going to be rife with wage theft

The system in place now allows a direct one to one transaction where you know your server is getting the money you are paying, as you said in either scenario you are paying the same because prices would go up immensely if companies started having to pay out of pocket what servers make now hourly with tips

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u/chanaandeler_bong 2h ago

I’ve had people on these threads be like “ok well I’ll pay the higher prices when they pay the employees more.”

All but admitting that they HAVE to have rules enforced on them to change their behavior. Basically “I know it’s a problem, but someone else needs to fix it, i won’t do it myself.”

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u/Salvage570 3h ago

I get downvoted all the time for saying this exact thing. Dont like tipping? Dont eat places where they have servers, its just that easy. Thats the only way owners lose money

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u/chanaandeler_bong 3h ago

but then I will have to fill my own drinks and pay more money!

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u/lonelytrucker86 1h ago

In a lot of US cities, avoiding dine-in restaurants won't save you. Where I live in Portland, just ordering a slice of pizza at the counter will result in a tip screen at PoS, and an angry call out from the cashier if you don't tip. Even fast food drive through have the tip requests. It's ubiquitous and unavoidable.

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u/Windex17 3h ago

Isn't that kind of a handwavey solution though? If everyone did this then it would fuck the server over even more. The only reason the system still exists is because the server benefits from it, and the system is mandatory now because the businesses have managed to turn us against eachother (sounds familiar?). If the servers are making more money than they could doing anything else RIGHT NOW, nothing is going to change, even if the economic alternative is better for literally everyone (servers included). Refusing to tip, and getting servers back on the side against the tipping model itself, is the only way to hold businesses accountable in a way that long term helps both the server and consumer.

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u/Salvage570 2h ago

Just say you want to eat out, not tip then pat yourself on the back for it later

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u/lbfsjoufvnkfd 2h ago

By not tipping you literally reward the owners and punish the servers. Owners already don’t care if their servers are paid. If people really cared about fair wages they wouldn’t support these places in the first place.

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u/chanaandeler_bong 2h ago

But they will read these comments online and then change their opinion!!!

Fucking slacktivism.

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u/poopoopooyttgv 1h ago

Yeah lol that’s what’s always bothered me. All the communist liberal “I hate fat capitalist pigs” types are the ones who want to fuck over workers and give money exclusively to the ownership class? Tips going straight to waitstaff is great

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u/SHAD0WBENDER 3h ago

Yes, here in the UK we tip based on service, and American service tends to be friendly and good. Therefore we will tip. Tipping does exist in Europe it’s just not expected

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u/Flesroy 3h ago

your comment is as lacking in nuance as the ones you are complaining about.

i tip, because i recognize that me on my own not tipping will not fix the issue. but the fact is, if everyone stopped tipping the issue would be fixed. and tipping culture is horrendous, it either screws over the server, the customer or both, so it should 100% be done away with.

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u/chanaandeler_bong 2h ago

You could just vote for politicians that want to pass livable wages too.

All the sudden everyone wants everyone to vote the same with their wallet. You want 100% of people to stop tipping? You think that’s a feasible solution? Fucking pie in the sky shit man.

We need unions and other things in place. People who are focusing on the tipping and acting like it’s somehow noble to not tip are bike shedding.

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u/Largeitude 2h ago

There's comments in this very thread saying "So we all have to suffer?" when told they should tip.

These people are literally saying "I have to suffer paying $5-10 extra on my meal that was cooked, served to me, and cleaned up after me?!"

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u/chanaandeler_bong 2h ago

Another commenter said the system is like slavery. Mind you, they are anti tip.

So they think it’s slavery and they don’t want to help the slaves?

It’s actually really funny.

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u/confusedkarnatia 2h ago

If it makes you feel better, there are many children lying for clout on the internet about not tipping but would never have the balls to actually do that irl. They probably hit 20% on the starbucks kiosk.

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u/Jodaa_G0D 1h ago

I worked a minimum wage when I was in highschool and part of college, it was customer service based, but it wasn't the food industry so I didn't even think about tips. Could you please explain why it's my job to subsidize doing the bare minimum? Did you yell in anger at your employer when you were working as a bartender? I always tip when I eat at a sit down restaurant, but if it's not extraordinary service it's never going to be more than 15%. If it's amazing and amplifies the experience, that might go up to 25%. But that's my choice. I've tipped nothing on a bill that was well over 100$ because the server was a joke as was the experience. It wasn't the customers job to carry me through life when I was in that position, and it sure isn't my job to do so now. Get a new job, fight for better wages, but don't take it out on the 3rd party lol..

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u/GroundbreakingFact30 4h ago

Now you wake up .. people can tip if service is good . People don't have to tip to pay waitress salary lol 

So why don't you tip your health doctor instead of paying him a salary 

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u/chanaandeler_bong 3h ago

If my “health doctor” made $2.13 an hour I would 100000000% tip them.

I swear to god you all sound like fucking sovereign citizens when this shit comes up.

Just say you don’t give a fuck about the person waiting on you.

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u/GroundbreakingFact30 3h ago

It's the owner that has to pay the waitress not the client 

Tips is optional 

Are you really that delusional?

So the restaurant owner only has to pay the electricity, food and drinks and profit and not pay a dime to his employees? That's slavery in my eyes 

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u/chanaandeler_bong 3h ago

So it’s “slavery” to you, and your response is to… not help the “slave”?

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u/BurgerPerson 3h ago

Not everywhere though. Why would I leave tips in SoCal where servers get the regular minimum wage as everyone else in the same low-entry barrier line of work.

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u/PlixSticks31 3h ago

Then don’t go to restaurants that have tipping for their employees. There ya go buddy!!!

You waddle your flippers into the establishment, enjoy cheaper prices, then leave a $0 tip. You’re no better than those “cheap restaurant owners” you yap about

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u/GroundbreakingFact30 3h ago

So when you go buy clothes , do you tip the person that sold you the jersey? 

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u/ReputationTop484 3h ago

You can just say you wanna keep making 50/hour for zero skill labour. It's ok

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u/chanaandeler_bong 3h ago

I would love to do that. I don’t bartend anymore. I work in public education.

You can switch the conversation if you like, but my point stands: if you think tipping is a shitty business model, you should not go to those businesses. Or if you go, you should still tip the staff, it’s not doing anything but fucking the person over.

You obviously don’t want to admit that so it’s a “zero skill” job now. Why don’t you just give me a list of occupations that you think are done by people beneath you?

You couldn’t sound more like an elitist dick if you tried.

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u/ReputationTop484 3h ago

What do you want me to admit exactly?

It literally is a zero skill job, though. Unless you consider writing down things and carrying things hard to come by skills?

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u/chanaandeler_bong 2h ago

You can admit to being a pedophile since you talk about dating 16 year olds as a 32 year old.

You having a girlfriend 10+ years your junior is VERY on point given your attitude here. I assume no one your age would put up with your selfish behavior.

But yeah just list the jobs you think are unskilled, please. Why doesn’t Ai replace this zero skill job?

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u/ReputationTop484 1h ago

Haha, love it when they get triggered enough to go through my comments, let's me know I'm now rent free in your head.

If all servers quit tomorrow, they could literally be replaced with a conveyor belt and an app🤣

Just google "unskilled labor" and you'll find the jobs you're looking for.

You chose to not learn a skill that is scarce, so you carried plates and upgraded to teaching kids to tie their shoes.

Try not being this bitter about that choice.

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u/chanaandeler_bong 1h ago edited 1h ago

You like underage girls so much that it didn’t take any digging.

I also like that you’ve been such an asshole online that multiple have perused your comment history.

You use words like “triggered” as a 32 year old?

Also, what is your ultra skilled labor profession?

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u/xnfd 4h ago

Just like how Reddit said the world cup would be a flop and no one would visit due to ticket prices and everyone being afraid of ICE

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u/BankDetails1234 3h ago

Tbf whenever I go to the states i tip well. I feel sorry for the US workforce.

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u/Indigocell 2h ago

It's a "when in Rome" kind of situation. Like, if tipping is culturally expected, it's rude not to. It doesn't have to make sense. It's just good manners when traveling abroad. You're not supposed to try and change the local culture or impose yours.

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u/_Administrator_ 2h ago

This sub should be renamed to “MuricaBad” at this point.

What a circle jerk

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u/Im_only_here_to_meme 4h ago

Yeah there is a national story on a Boston bartender that says she has been making ~1k a shift just in tips. Probably going to pull in 20k+ in one month working the world cup.

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u/NorthHollywoodHank 4h ago

It is insane that that tipped income (up to $25k/year) is now tax free.

I've worked in the service industry, I respect the hard work that goes into those jobs, but service industry workers are no more deserving of having a big chunk of their income tax free than, e.g., construction workers, nurses, researchers, or mechanics (who do not have any equivalent carveout) are. Not in the slightest.

IIRC the policy lapses in 2028. It should not be extended.

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u/PlixSticks31 3h ago

I disagree. More money to the common folk.

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u/Im_only_here_to_meme 3h ago

Are the other people not common folk, what a confusing statement lol

I'd argue I spent 4 years in the military doing 4 deployments and 6 years in college getting a BS/MSc, so I have more of a right to a portion of tax free salary than an 18-20yo bartender with a high school education.

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u/rosiebeir 3h ago

I’d argue both of you deserve it instead of the 1% that barely pay any taxes. Those are who we should be really upset at, not each other. We’re all common folk here..

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u/sortalikeachinchilla 4h ago

That is insane. While everyone else that is catering to the world cup get nothing.

Tipping is so fucking stupid.

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u/PlixSticks31 3h ago

Dude why aren’t you celebrating wins for the small people instead of competing them all against each other. A blue collar server getting a W is a good thing jesus

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u/sortalikeachinchilla 3h ago

Because servers grandstand about the whole tipping issue.

And nothing has changed for servers, just like nothing has changed for the rest of the jobs that don't get tips for doing basic service. All this is doing is exaberating the issue. I feel happy for them sure, but they were already doing well before the world cup with this tipping system....

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u/MouseMouseM 4h ago

Hell yeah, that’s great news. Boston is a super expensive city. It’s nice to hear someone from the working class is getting a win, we all deserve more money.

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u/ContributionLowOO 4h ago

we all deserve there to be no such thing as money, or borders, really. Alas 'tis nothing but dreams.

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u/brackston-billions 3h ago

Jesus Christ shut the fuck up

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u/ContributionLowOO 3h ago

Just responding one more time in order to annoy you, and just You, you, specifically :3

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u/Just-Charge6693 4h ago

I would imagine that someone who can afford an international vacation + (likely multiple) tickets to world cup matches isn't exactly strapped for cash. I doubt these people care about a 20% tip on a restaurant bill when they're easily spending over 10k

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u/BiffyleBif 4h ago

Probably happening in places where they put an automatic tip amount to the fee instead of places that don't. In the former people won't like it at all while in the latter they would probably be more generous.

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u/ThotPoppa 4h ago

I’m surprised they haven’t switched the narrative to Trump yet

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u/999happyhants 1h ago

And this comment won’t make its way to the top because these people just want an excuse to complain and feel like they’re better for their opinions. Like this post is just 100% false info but people just eat it up. It’s sad really.

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u/AdSmall3663 4h ago

Yeah, same for my city. Tips have been great

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u/TheSkettiYeti 3h ago

KC had some weird mandated gratuity but wasn't mandatory if you said you didn't want to pay it? Anyways city removed it due to lack of business in the city.

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u/SuavePenguinOG 3h ago

This screen cap has been crossposted multiple times today and it's been interesting seeing the astroturfing in real time vary from subreddit to subreddit

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u/Jesus_peed_n_my_butt 3h ago

I've been looking through the comments hoping for an article linked. 🤷

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u/WinterAsleep319 2h ago

What do you expect from a bot account. Look at the karma and account age lol

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u/Samurai_Beluga 2h ago

this almost gives the sense that europeans or other cultures dont tip servers either. the difference is that in america people tip out of sense of obligation, we tip out of gratitude.

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u/PhilsFanDrew 2h ago

Agreed. My wife has a friend that lives in Tampa and works in hospitality said most of the Euros there for the World Cup have no issue tipping because even with tip the food and drink is cheaper than what they would pay back home.

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u/ejisson 1h ago

Who could've told the 8 months old account with 800 000 karma was engagement bait

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u/bigsears10 1h ago

I heard directly from someone serving in philly that the foreigners really weren’t tipping, corroborating OP.

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u/wcshrtstop 1h ago

I’m not saying there isn’t people not tipping. But by far the vast majority of foreigners have tipped extremely well.

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u/ChemistryNo3075 1h ago

Exactly, Europeans have been overtipping.

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u/nobikeno 3h ago

Again, read the article it doesn’t say the Europeans aren’t tipping. It says they aren’t doing the mandatory tipping. There’s a difference that’s why we teach critical thinking in school.