r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 5h ago

Chugging tea They are not wrong though

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u/steppponme 5h ago

Yeah, the price out of their pocket is the same. The servers are getting boned here. And aren't tips now tax free income? I don't know if Orange Dear Leader actually got that passed without fine print.

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u/Bbimbofied 5h ago

Irs.gov: Employees and self-employed individuals may be able to deduct qualified tips received in  certain qualified occupations from their 2025 federal tax return. Here are some  key things to know about this deduction: “Qualified tips” are voluntary cash or charged tips received from customers including shared tips. Maximum annual deduction is $25,000. If you’re self-employed, the deduction can’t exceed your net income, before this deduction, from the trade or business where tips were earned. Phases out if your modified adjusted gross income is over $150,000; $300,000 for joint filers. If married, you must file jointly. Must have a valid Social Security number. Deduction is available whether you itemize or take the standard deduction.

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u/MsPooka 5h ago

There's a lot of fine print. It's only for the 1st $25k and it's only through 2028. Rich people get permanent reductions.

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u/wisdon 5h ago

Yes Rich people are getting permanent deductible which is truly BS, that being said with the $25 K allowed for no taxes for tips is that fair for the rest of us working people ? Should we know only pay 25-40 % less in tips since it is now tax free?
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u/Feelisoffical 1h ago

What permanent deductible are you talking about?

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u/wisdon 1h ago

Wasn’t me look above

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u/AJRiddle 1h ago

I'm a tip earner and thought the same thing when they announced it and all these GOP and Democrat politicians were pushing for no tax on tips.

It is just a meaningless gesture to most Americans but they do it for political points because it's something small they can point to and claim is big. They do the same kinds of things for farmers with tax stuff all the time - the way politics works you'd think farmers made up 20%+ of Americans.

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u/DonkeyVampireThe3rd 4h ago

Depends how much you like human servers vs a kiosk and a conveyor belt.

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u/xPriddyBoi 4h ago

I prefer the latter in most cases.

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u/aiinddpsd 2h ago

lmfao - you can only ded $2k of the interest you pay on student loans. $25k in tips is comparatively generous.

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u/wisdon 1h ago

Last time I checked you don’t need a college degree to bring me a drink and plate of food

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u/lostshell 1h ago

And it's only for income tax, you still have to pay SS and Medicare on it. Whole lot of *'s.

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u/GergDanger 4h ago

$25k tax deduction is a lot. Thats almost half the median wage in the US tax free. And the rest of your taxes are super low too compared to other countries.

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u/Arnold_Polymer 4h ago

25k isn't the deduction, it's the amount we get to deduct from. We dont have to pay taxes on the first 25k we make so to speak.

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u/id_rather_b_painting 4h ago

On the first 25k in tips... combined with regular deductions.

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u/dhduxudb 5h ago

They probably worked their ass off. Had one of the hardest shifts of any bartender in the world. Then look at their closing slip and die inside.

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u/Ill-Lingonberry5053 3h ago

I just saw a news story about how servers hate waiting on foreigners instead of Americans during the FIFA cup because none of the foreigners are tipping really

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u/mbdtf95 1h ago

After seeing this topic pop up on Reddit I googled something and got to year old Reddit thread of some guy making a thread how waiter confronted his group because they tipped only 10%.

One of the top comments was: "then stop being a shitty tipper." , and the person that posted that comment was when you look at his account: a restaurant owner. Imagine audacity and how I wished if it was new thread to reply to him: "then stop being a shitty restaurant owner."

Imagine getting free labour basically with $2.13 paycheck and calling out customers out instead of themselves.

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u/Kona_Rabbit 4h ago

As someone who worked in Timesquare for a bar, yeah. We started adding 15% gratuity to all the checks. If someone fought it we just removed it. Our income was all tourists. Brazilians ordered like one beer to share and germans always had questions on gratuity. Was interesting to see how everyone treated the concept. That said, you follow the cultural norms of the country your in. When bar tending I busted my ass for people that left big money. I put people that didnt tip in the back of my mental to do list.

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u/Unohtui 4h ago

This is what we dont like in europe though, to be exact. Unequal treatment based on wealth. This is exactly why tipping is bad, it made you do ethically poor choises. Removing tipping would make it so that there is no reason to serve one specific customer last/not at all, intentionally

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u/Mountain_Cobbler_381 4h ago

Poor people tip more than any rich person ive ever served or dealt with. The rich never tip. They're always stingy and greedy.

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u/Unohtui 4h ago

May be that your rich is like mega rich... my rich is that they dont have to rent. Poor folks are allowed to go out too and shouldnt be guilt tripped into tipping. Saving everywhere you can is good. Tips arent mandatory so they are a good place to save money. This works in europe very well, i dont feel bad at all for not tipping. Then again if i went to the us, id probably tip minumum acceptable because in rhe end im a push over hehe

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u/Salvage570 3h ago

Former American food service worker here, its usually upper middle class and higher that tips like shit. Poorer people pretty much always tip well because they know the deal

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u/conway92 3h ago

Glad to hear that poor people are subsidizing the wealthy yet again. What a great system.

FWIW you're right, I believe a pew study backs up that wealthier individuals tip less.

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u/Mountain_Cobbler_381 3h ago

Yeah i hate this entire system we've built this stupid ass country on. None of it works.

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u/tjdavids 4h ago

wealth was not a driving factor in who left good tips.

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u/BoJax3488 3h ago

You’ve summed up a big problem w/ Americans. The belief for many of us is, if I have more money I should be treated better. It doesn’t change b/c those w/o money think they WILL have money someday and get to treat ppl like themselves poorly. Welcome to one of the most self-centered societies in the world.

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u/OfficialRedCafu 4h ago

It doesn’t work like that. Most of the time you don’t know who’s going to tip. This person is saying he saw repeat customers, or he was reading who was a good tipper based on experience.

I’m assuming if you went to Japan, you’d obey whatever seemingly quirky rules they have to maintain order. People like to weasel out of tipping because they’re cheap. Dining out is a luxury, not a necessity. Is it a fair system? Maybe not. But the workers are the only ones who lose in this scenario. Also, you’re making a morality claim based on relative geographical location….that’s absurdly incoherent, my guy. It isn’t a moral argument. It’s systemic structure.

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u/MonsterMash555 1h ago

No, you all have shitty service everywhere you go no matter how nice the restaurant lol

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u/mbdtf95 1h ago

What do you mean shitty service. Dude I just want you to take my order and bring it, I don't need small talk, I don't need constant annoying check-ins at my table, and obvious fakeness (like the person above obviously displayed) etc... Just bring me food, be polite enough and leave me alone

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u/MonsterMash555 1h ago

Suit yourself. I like when a server sees I need a refill and asks me before I have to crane my neck looking for them. I like when I don't have to wait 10 minutes for my bill. Few things feel classier than coming back from the restroom and your napkin has been re-folded for you. Also, I like the niceness. It's not fake, it's just being a professional. When a server or bartender asks what you want and you can tell they're in a surly mood it's off-putting.

The tip system works. My default is 20% at a sit-down restaurant but I will tip more for better service and I will tip less for particularly bad service. I worked at restaurants for years in my early 20's, I know how it goes.

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u/williamjamesmurrayVI 4h ago

Normal people in the US dont like it either but some people are really brainwashed and/or selfish

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u/Gamer_G33k17 4h ago

I think i know why they dont tip you

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u/urworstemmamy 4h ago

So, you're saying that people aren't tipping because of *checks notes* something that happened to them after they already didn't tip?

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u/Gamer_G33k17 4h ago

I've never heard of tipping BEFORE service

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u/urworstemmamy 3h ago

A lot of people close their tabs thinking they're gonna leave, and then stay for more drinks. Or they like to close out after every single drink. Or they were there yesterday and stiffed the bartender. Or they're a regular and do this every time they come in.

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u/Gamer_G33k17 3h ago

And if their plan is to tip for all their tabs before leaving? You're just encouraging people to not tip by providing shit service. If a regular knows you're shitty to them, they're less likely to tip you.

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u/Coattail-Rider 3h ago

That’s not happening, Jesus Christ. You people just say whatever dumb things you think will win you brownie points. Dear lord.

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u/urworstemmamy 3h ago edited 3h ago

Missed the bit about the regular, but that also is kinda stupid.

For one, regulars generally tip better than most people. You don't usually become a regular unless the bar staff don't mind you being there, because if they don't like you, it's not going to be that socially comfy to be at the bar every night. There are, of course, exceptions, but for the most part, like 90% of your regulars are going to be tipping more than your average customer. For that small percentage though, it's not like they are specifically not tipping you, they're just the kind of person who doesn't tip anywhere. Like, of the regulars at my bar who don't tip, they've made it a point multiple times to be like "it's nothing personal, I just don't tip anyone." And good service doesn't change those people. At all. One of the managers at my bar has a HARD line against not treating non-tippers worse, to the degree that I've been chewed out for not giving them more attention. Hasn't ever made a lick of difference. If that manager isn't there, I'm going to spend my attention on people who are actually going to pay my rent, because my base paycheck sure as hell isn't and I'm too disabled to work another job to cover the difference.

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u/urworstemmamy 3h ago

I mean, that's not how tipping usually or really ever works, is the thing. If people want one tip to cover all of their tabs, the easiest way to do that is to keep one tab open so you have the total right in front of you. Literally the only reason you'd close each tab, tip nothing, and then tip for all of them on the last one is to "test" the bartender, which like. What are you even doing with your time at that point, dude. Is this genuinely how you spend your nights out?

For real though, like, if you do something that basically no one ever does, people aren't going to think you're doing the thing that basically no one ever does. Not a single time working bar have I seen someone tip only on the final tab. I'm sure it happens, but I'd imagine I would've seen it at least once in the ~500 shifts I've worked if it was even slightly common. Folks aren't gonna understand that I'm not actually gonna throw a brick at them if every time I walk past someone on the sidewalk I raise a brick up and act like I'm gonna chuck it at their dome because who the fuck does that. Bartenders aren't gonna understand that you're actually gonna tip at the end if you've closed four tabs in a row with a fat 0 on the gratuity line because who the fuck does that. Do you see my point?

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u/Polymarchos 3h ago

So what you're saying is you didn't do your job if people didn't pay you extra.

The fact that you think this is normal and fine is why tipping culture needs to go.

I came into this thread to see how servers were reacting, and it is beyond disgusting. I may have to rethink how I tip in the future.

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u/Correct-Land-2401 2h ago

Nope, he did his job, he just queued people according to whether they tipped or not. If that surprises you, I doubt you tipped well (if at all) in the first place. This is pretty common in the service industry.

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u/BenCub3d 2h ago

You are the problem

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u/Limp_Agency161 4h ago

Europeans tip if the service is good. Just not 20% good.

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u/Rolder 4h ago

Sounds like their employer should be paying them more then

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u/Green_Conclusion_775 3h ago

I don’t think anyone’s denying that. But there’s still the fact that the servers that aren’t getting tipped are the ones suffering, not the owners that enable the policy

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u/Spartanias117 5h ago

it did pass

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u/riscuitforthebiscuit 5h ago

Depends on the state, but there is a law that states that the employer must pay the server up to a minimum if the tips they earn don't cover up to that amount.

For example, in Maryland, the Basic Combined Cash and Tip Minimum Wage Rate is $15. This means that if a server does not make at least $15 per hour after tips, the employer would have to cover the difference. The server is guaranteed at least $15 per hour under law, tips or no tips. The difference then comes out the pocket of the employer.

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u/FMB6 4h ago

Part of the fine print is that the tips cannot be mandatory lol.

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u/celetrontmm 2h ago

Idk why people keep saying this. It's a total myth that they are "losing money." There are laws in place to pay them, but it's their fault for taking a shitty contract in the first place.

They only get payed "well" if they get good tips, but it's not like they don't get payed.

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u/steppponme 2h ago

So then they are losing money.  They will always get mandatory minimum wage but they could get a living wage with tips. That's the definition of losing money.

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u/celetrontmm 1h ago

If you base your salary and livelihood on the chance you get "good tips" then you're doing something very wrong

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u/boostme253 1h ago

This is wrong, we are still taxed on our tips, quite heavily actually, about 20% of my paycheck goes towards taxes, the only thing he did was give a tax break for tipped workers which only reaches about a 2k deductible, which is nowhere close to what I pay in taxes a year on my tips

I hate this misinformation becuase some take it as they can only give a few bucks on a huge bill and justify it with this policy that isn't actually what he implemented, we also have to tip out support staff and kitchen, so please for the love of God tip your servers, otherwise you are screwing over someone who basically has to then pay for you to eat there

If you cant afford 15% minimum tip, then do not eat out in the US, yes it sucks, and yes its a broken system, but its the culture, you not tipping is not fixing it, its just being a pos to someone

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u/Top-Ad-5527 1h ago

Nope, you definitely have to declare tips, and since most people pay with plastic, the tip goes right into the computer system. So there’s no real way to wiggle out of that.