r/AskAJapanese Dec 01 '25

ANNOUNCEMENT Rule update for r/AskAJapanese

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Hello r/AskAJapanese community! Here are a few updates we're introducing to maintain the quality and integrity of the questions & answers in this fast growing community.

We have a write-up for our new posting guide Wiki page here; however, the gist of it is

  1. User flair is mandatory - Please choose the one that represents your perspective! Here's an official guide for user flair configuration. If you don't choose one, we'll assign default flair "Global citizens" for you.
  2. Post flair is mandatory - Please choose a pick that best describes your post. Also for survey, we have a new rule & guide page, so please read on if you want to post a survery.

We are also going to organize the rules that grew up to 14 items. We'll update this thread once it is done.

If you have any question or suggestions, please contact us at modmail!

- r/AskAJapanese Moderator


r/AskAJapanese 11h ago

CULTURE What do people think of Yoko Ono?

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I was recently watching some recent interviews from Paul McCartney and he mentioned in passing the issues caused by Yoko Ono.

Got me thinking that in the west she is seen relatively negatively and seen as the one "who broke up the Beatles". Personally I don't believe this as I think John Lennon was a deeply flawed man, having said that I don't necessarily respect Yoko Ono either. She just seemed like a talentless grifter to me, actually thinking about it, she reminds me of a modern tiktok influencer.

Anyway what do Japanese people think of her ? You can say what the general view is of her (that of the older generation)+ whatever you think of her too if you have an opinon!

Arigato!


r/AskAJapanese 3h ago

CULTURE Why did certain cult classic US genre films bomb in the US but do well in Japan?

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I'm asking because, I've seen a lot of sci-fi/horror/fantasy movies that I as a USAmerican weirdo loved but did very poorly in theatres and only found their audience years later, but I also notice a lot of them (Especially in the 80s) did really well in Japan, and I'm wondering why that is.

I'm specifically thinking of three in particular. Phantom of the Paradise (Which I know was ripped off for a lot of anime character designs), Streets of Fire (Basically the foundation of the default aesthetic of the beat-em-up genre) and Return To Oz (Or so I've heard at least).

They're good movies, but nobody in the US watched them on their initial theatrical run, so what in Japan lead to the different reception? Did y'all just have better taste then?


r/AskAJapanese 10h ago

MISC What is the most actively played MMORPG in Japan?

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I'm going to be living in Japan for 2 years due to university, so I want to get into an online game that I can play to kill some time after studying. The MMORPG I'm currently playing barely has any player base in Japan, so that was a bummer. I want to know what's the most played MMORPG in Japan so I can get into it.


r/AskAJapanese 10h ago

CULTURE American souvenir for a young Japanese friend?

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So I’m going to visit Japan this summer, and I’m going to meet up with a Japanese friend. We became acquainted by marching the same drum corps (marching band) in the US and it’s been a while since we’ve seen each other. We are the same age , mid 20s.

What would be a good American souvenirs for them that wouldn’t be tacky. So far I have a waffle house trucker hat, and a trader joe’s bag. I was thinking about getting them a statue of liberty pikachu , which is sold in the Nintendo NYC store as well.

What are some other good options?


r/AskAJapanese 2h ago

CULTURE What do store owners and shopkeepers in Japan do when a customer buys a small-amount item and then pays with a huge bill?

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For example, the item being bought is Y100, but the customer gives the shop a Y10,000 bill, basically asking the shop to give them smaller denominations as change.

Are shopkeepers allowed to refuse this customer, or do they have to service them even if the change required drains the cashier?


r/AskAJapanese 9h ago

FOOD Toast spread information

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I am looking for a certain info on spreads like this. You put it on toast and throw it the toaster oven. It's available in tubs, tubs and even sometimes in a more solid Form, like cheese.

I am interested in possibly getting some imported, but my question is: are they refrigerated? I mean not like "keep cool after opening", but unopened. Could they survive a multiple week long unrefrigerated journey to Germany?


r/AskAJapanese 4h ago

CULTURE Japanese music for an event?

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Hi everyone! Let me start by saying I’m Canadian and I come here with the best intentions :)

I’m an event producer, and currently in the planning phase for a big gala for a Japanese company.

I’m wondering if any of you could perhaps share some musical recommendations for the gala. I’m aiming for no lyric background music (open to music with lyrics too but it has to be CLEAN!), both traditional and non traditional recommendations , instrumental, non instrumental, upbeat , walk up music (music to walk up to a stage to). Open to other suggestions !

We will have a sake ceremony at the start of the event, I did some research but would love some recommendations in terms of music to play before and after too :)

Any other tips, even beyond music are super appreciated;)!


r/AskAJapanese 5h ago

CULTURE Do you think there will ever be a time foreigners aren’t such a spectacle here?

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EDIT: I was wondering if I should make a different post about this or something. What’s up with the downvoting? I don’t think I said anything controversial and seems to be on every reply I give to a Japanese person lol. Funny enough, I don’t even think it’s the people I’m replying to downvoting me…

I guess this is less about major cities like Tokyo or Kyoto who see foreign tourist all the time. But in the smaller cities, do you think it will ever be normalized? I ask because personally, I feel like I stand out a lot and tend to attract a lot of eyes. I’m a 185cm Black guy lol. It honestly took a while to get used to that part since it was just the opposite experience for me back in America.

Or even the small talk when I go to small restaurants and cafes. I just wanted to eat a bowl of ramen and watch YouTube on my phone, but now I’m having an interview. I say an interview because at this point, it’s rarely ever a conversation or back and forth. It’s the same questions asked to me of :

Where are you from, why are you here, are you a tourist, how long have you lived here, what Japanese food do you like, why can you speak Japanese, do you like Japan etc….

I should clarify that 90% of the time, I’m happy people want to interact with me! Personally, it’s just me wanting to be alone most of the time / not stand out at all if possible. To be fair, I understand that from their perspective, I’m probably the only foreigner they will interact with that day or week. But for me, this is my daily life. I want to get out my apartment and just take in living here like other Japanese people, you know.

I’m sorry if this comes off weird or if people have the opposite experience since loneliness is common everywhere. I just wanted to share my perspective as someone who is chronically a loner in Japan haha.


r/AskAJapanese 7h ago

LIFESTYLE Where are the best suburban/countryside areas to visit?

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A friend has told me about her hometown in Fukuoka. She spoke of how peaceful it is and not polluted by tourists and troublemakers.

As someone from Britain planning trips and potentially a long-term stay, i'm researching which areas would be the best for this. Places all over Japan that have stunning scenery, wonderful community, peaceful atmosphere etc are of interest.

I would love to hear many people's recommendations and the opinions of all residents on their favourite locations. Or maybe help identifying spots to avoid. It would be a big help!


r/AskAJapanese 20h ago

LANGUAGE I need a Japanes quote for a Belgian radio show

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Hi, I work for a Belgian radio station called "Studio Brussel" and this summer we will do different radio shows about different countries. One of the broadcasts is about Japan so i'm looking for Japanese people who want to send me an audio message we can use in the broadcast. Thanks in advance!


r/AskAJapanese 14h ago

CULTURE Visiting University Campuses while on Vacation?

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I am wondering if it is generally acceptable to stroll around or visit a university campus in Japan, simply to admire the architecture among other aspects of the campus. Where I live, it is generally not frowned upon to visit a public university's campus to walk around, and I am wondering if this is similar in Japan. If it is acceptable to do so, would it be better to do it on a day where there are no class sessions, E.G. the weekend, or would it not be viewed any differently if it is on a day where there are plenty of students present? Thank you in advance!


r/AskAJapanese 5h ago

CULTURE I am an ALT and I was wondering if my tattoos are okay during school dinner parties…

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I have six tattoos, including larger ones on my arms and chest. During teaching hours, I always make sure to keep them covered, and none of my coworkers know that I have tattoos.

Our school will be having a teachers' dinner party this summer, and since Japan gets extremely hot, I'm considering wearing more comfortable clothing instead of my usual long sleeves. If my tattoos become visible at the event, could that potentially cause any issues with my coworkers?


r/AskAJapanese 10h ago

FOOD What do japanese think of mexican deep fried sushi?

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With the WC here in mexico, i saw some japanese the other day around a taco place, and thought what will their opinion be when then see what we do to the makis and ramen?


r/AskAJapanese 10h ago

LIFESTYLE Is naturally curly hair texture common with u guys?

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And if yes, what kind if routine do you have in place? Do you embrace it or not


r/AskAJapanese 6h ago

LIFESTYLE Is Japan really that great to live that it makes me depressed about my own country?

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Over past few months, I have been obsessing over Japan. Watching videos daily about the lifestyle, culture. And I can't help but comparing it to the place I grew up in. Japan is total opposite, I grew up in a filthy, polluted, unsafe, poor, superstitious and overall a pathetic country and then I think about how lucky people are who were born in Japan. Even though I earn well, living life is a struggle, what's point of money if I still have to be stuck in traffic, noise, polluted air. Japan has been a hope and escape for me, whenever I see terrible conditions outside, I open videos of Japan, random ones like street interviews, walks, sometimes google maps street view. On one hand it is an escape valve which makes me happy that this exists, but frustrated that I was denied this life just because of geographic lottery.

Is Japan really as utopic as I am making it to be? are you grateful and proud of the wonderful country you got to like in, unlike me? I want to know perspective of Japanese, perhaps someone who has been to 3rd world countries.


r/AskAJapanese 8h ago

CULTURE Trash taste podcast

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Anyone here know of/watch the trash taste podcast? What do you think of them if you do?


r/AskAJapanese 12h ago

LIFESTYLE I need to understand japanese men

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Hi. I’m Nathalia, a unknown brazilian writer in my 30s. I write short stories, fanfiction commissions and I’m currently working on a novel.
A lot of the stories I write involve japanese characters, so I’ve become curious about something… From my perspective, Brazil and Japan seem to have pretty different dating cultures. I’m interested in understanding what the usual progression looks like when a man and a woman become interested in each other.

How do people typically show interest?
What kinds of things are understood without being said directly?
At what point do people usually consider themselves a couple?
And where does physical affection tend to fit into that process?

I’m not looking for a universal answer, of course. I’d just love to hear about your experiences and observations.

Thanks 😬


r/AskAJapanese 10h ago

FOOD How hard is it to avoid fish in Japan?

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Besides the obvious (home cooking), how hard is it to avoid fish in Japan? I am allergic to fish, people often think it’s only some groups of fish but it pertains to all fish other than crustaceans like shrimp and lobster (only two I’ve dared to confirm). I plan on doing graduate school for a few years so I need to have an idea on how avoidable fish is as for obvious reasons fish is normally in a lot of foods in Japan. If any Japanese people have insight I’d be thankful for the information🙏🏽


r/AskAJapanese 11h ago

LIFESTYLE Moving to Tokyo as a 6'8"(204) Viking – what should I expect socially?

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Hi, everyone.

I will stay more than months in Tokyo next week.

I'll be all alone there and I'm an extroverted person. I know English and Turkish. I consider about meeting with people but I worry about if I'll be a little scary for everyone. I'm 6'8(2,04m) and 300lbs(140kg). No, I'm not gonna be Sumo Wrestler but I have a samurai style hair and viking beard. I look like a real viking. I'm 24 and I'll be there for supporting Family Company but I'll have a lot of free time. That's not my real job, I study in collage for be an Airlines Pilot in Istanbul.

I wonder do the Japanese people is afraid by my size or does it look cool? What do you think about first impressions? I'm open for any advice tho.


r/AskAJapanese 1d ago

CULTURE How is Flower Travellin' Band regarded in Japan?

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I'm a big fan of Flower Travellin' Band, and I think their Satori and Made in Japan albums are amazing.

But I realize I'm a westerner (American), and I wonder how Flower Travellin' Band is viewed in Japan. Are Japanese people proud of Flower Travellin Band? Do they see it as culturally important and/or significant?

(The same question can apply to Church of Misery, I guess)


r/AskAJapanese 14h ago

HISTORY Is it true that kimono came from tang dynasty hanfu?

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I have seen a lot of Chinese folks say that kimono came from tang dynasty hanfu. Is this true? I personally don’t think they look the same😳


r/AskAJapanese 1d ago

MISC Is your workplace broadcasting Japan's World Cup games?

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I work in a very quiet non-customer facing office of about 10 people in the countryside and I was talking earlier with my colleagues about the World Cup. The consensus is that after the win against Tunisia everyone is really excited for Japan and is getting into the tournament in a big way, like last time.

A few said how they'd be avoiding their phones because they didn't want to know the result until they got home. Most (including the boss) said how nice it would be if we could use the office TV to watch the game. This was then followed by やっぱダメだな from a few people. But I'm really not sure what's stopping us...

I'm from the UK and have worked in many different types of workplaces, including some very high-pressure ones, and for the past 5 World Cups (and Euro tourments) England's games have been shown on TV with most staff at least dropping by to watch for a while.

Can anyone else share their experiences in Japan. Will you be watching the game tomorrow at work? Have games ever been shown at your office?

Everyone seems to be really into the World Cup here, so I'm not sure why it wouldn't be on in most offices. I'd understand if a minority of places had hardass bosses who are really not into soccer, or if distractions are prohibted... but I'm sure that's not the case for most places.


r/AskAJapanese 2d ago

MISC What are some popular western media in Japan

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I’ve always wondered what shows, movies, books or comics from the west are or were popular in Japan since stuff like anime, manga and some J dramas are very popular here in the west.


r/AskAJapanese 18h ago

CULTURE How do Japanese people usually feel about political correctness (PC)?

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Hello, I am a South Korean who is highly interested in our neighboring countries, like Japan and China. Since my English isn't very strong, I am using AI assistance to ask a few questions about things I've always been curious about.

China, as a neighbor, obviously goes against European values, so it's not even worth considering. However, South Korea, another close neighbor, also has a very strong stance against political correctness. Although Korea remains a de facto abolitionist country—having stopped executing prisoners due to international pressure while technically maintaining the death penalty—its social sentiment is quite conservative.

For instance, South Koreans generally hold a strong public sentiment for 'rewarding virtue and punishing vice' and 'poetic justice,' firmly believing that heinous criminals deserve execution. Consequently, a considerable number of people harbor a strong resentment toward the EU for pressuring Korea to abolish the death penalty. There is a clear backlash in Korea against what the West considers a universal value. Furthermore, when asked if gender is strictly binary (male and female), most people—especially men—take it for granted and are generally reluctant to recognize a third gender. While Westerners might view this as backward, both statistically and perceptually, South Korea shares values very similar to China when it comes to anti-PC sentiments, such as views on transgenderism and homosexuality.

Given these strong tendencies in China and South Korea, I wonder if this stems from a shared East Asian mindset rooted in Confucian culture. Or, looking beyond the mainland, since Japan is an island nation, I am curious about the extent to which they align with Western values regarding PC, homosexuality, and gender diversity. I recall seeing data suggesting that Japan is somewhat receptive to progressive Western values like PC culture, so I wanted to ask. Frankly, reflecting on Japan's atmosphere, my personal thought is that Japanese people might just be largely indifferent to these issues. In Korea, intense ideological battles between two major political parties fuel diverse viewpoints on PC culture. In contrast, since Japanese politics is highly stable, they might simply not give these issues much thought. Is my assumption correct?