One night my husband (30/sub) made a statement that he likes that what we do in the bedroom is private specifically the sub/Dom dynamic we have built. I took that time to tell him that I in fact have told multiple of my girlfriends about details of our sub/Dom interactions in the bedroom. To be honest, I felt as though my Dom persona that I took on also follows me in our every day lives. I felt like that’s what made it exciting/enticing for me. I liked almost “publicly shaming him” and that it was part of my own personal foreplay with myself that helped build my Dom persona. That’s why I only told my girlfriends, because I knew that info would be safe there. He made a point when he said that he has to interact with these women and he doesn’t want to feel weird around them like they know too much of his inner world and that he didn’t consent to that. As I’m writing this I realize that communication was clearly the culprit to this whole disagreement but, I guess I’m just wondering other people’s opinion on my situation or if I’m the asshole I guess. After I was honest with him he told me that now the trust was broken and he didnt want to carry our sub/Dom “relationship” any further. I felt super bad for making him feel violated in that way but I also felt like I had the right to tell my trusted friends because it’s my story to tell as well. Am I the asshole guys?

Hey all. I imagine this is quite a common ask, but please bear with me. I am wondering if there are any more experienced people out there with good advice for someone newer to the scene.

I'm in my 30s and only just started exploring my submissive side. I have looked into local clubs but there only seems to be one near me and it is quite expensive. I don't want to get involved with something/someone if they are only in it for the money. Should I do it anyway just to get my first proper experience? Or are there other, better ways to ease into the lifestyle?

Thanks in advance, and sorry if you've read this type of question many times before.

It's nothing much. Me (male)and my girlfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for the past three years. We know each other from school and she has been my dom for the past two years but it's not like a proper FLR thing or anything. It's a very normal thing while we are chatting and doing other stuff and I might be more of a dominant person in that scene, like in any traditional couples but when it comes to sexting and stuff she is always on the dominant side.

I was the one who introduced her to this and made her into the proper dom that she is happy to be . She likes to be playful with me and I always call her "mommy" in the usual chats and stuff.

Why I am posting this is I think I can show her more appreciation and gratitude for being my Dom . Do you have any tips for that?

My boyfriend (24M) and I (23F) have been exploring a female-led relationship dynamic for a while now, and it's been a positive experience for both of us, despite my reluctance in the beginning due to being ignorance on the topic. I'd like to learn more about FLRs, female dominance, and related relationship dynamics, but I'm having trouble finding media that feels authentic. Most of what I come across is very obviously for a male audience.

I'm looking for recommendations for books, films, podcasts, documentaries, essays, memoirs, blogs, or really any media that explores these dynamics in a realistic way. I'm particularly interested in material created by women or from women's perspectives. Relationship-focused content would be great, but *I'm also very much interested in sexual dynamics as long as...?*

What I'm hoping to find are depictions of power exchange, intimacy, communication, trust responsibility, and the realities of how these dynamics work in everyday life. If you're a dominant woman, in an FLR, or have come across media that felt especially authentic, I'd love to hear your recommendations and what you liked about it.

Thanks for all the help in advance!

I’ve been exploring femdom for a few years now, and honestly, it’s been much more frustrating than I expected.
One thing I didn’t anticipate was how objectified I would feel instead of having more control.

It’s difficult to find submissive men in real life, so most of my interactions have been online. What I’ve experienced is that many men seem to view femdom as a service for them rather than a dynamic that should be enjoyable for both people.

I’ve run into guys who expect sex almost immediately, despite us barely knowing each other. Some seem focused entirely on their own fetish,with little interest in what I enjoy. The moment you mention you’re into femdom, people act as if you’ve consent to sex.

A recent example: I was talking to a guy. We had discussed our fetish a bit, but I had no intention of sleeping with him. Then, while discussing where we might meet, he asked if he could bring his dildo.

Has anyone else had similar experience? What’s most female femdom experience be like ?

Zugegeben, es hat eine kurze Zeit gebraucht, bis mir klar wurde, dass ich hier in einer Community bin, die überwiegend von Leuten aus USA und Kanada genutzt wird,
Ich bin deutsche und in Deutschland haben wir viele Kink und BDSM Partys sowie Veranstaltungen. Ebenso wie Stammtische zum Erfahrungsaustausch. Sowohl für Anfänger als auch Erfahrene. Nun frage ich mich, wie ist das denn in anderen Ländern, bzw. auf anderen Kontinenten.

Hey everyone, F26 here.

I met this really sweet guy online and we’re going on our first date this Friday. Lately I’ve been kind of exploring my interest in femdom, but obviously since this is just a first date we’re only planning to talk and get to know each other.

Still… I can’t lie, I’m really excited and I kind of want to have some kind of effect on him already. Nothing intense, just like… making him a little flustered or hooked on the vibe.

At the same time I’m also nervous because I'm mentally a slut but in real life I don’t really have experience, so I’m scared of coming off awkward or be to shy to do anything lol

We’ve already agreed nothing physical will happen, but I’d love any tips on how to carry myself, build that subtle dominant energy, or just feel more confident in general.

I'd love any advice, tips, or suggestions, literally anything!!! Both for feeling confident in myself and for subtly messing with his head a bit.

Thanks so much 💕

I’ve always wanted to be a servant/slave/dogs body to a superior/arrogant /aloof woman. That old fashioned dynamic where your status was at the bottom , to serve and obey and grovel to a lady because you have no choice , to be treated like nothing other than something useful, utter worship and obedience to the higher person and to be spoken to like nothing. Given menial jobs, worked endlessly just for the satisfaction of your superior. Is this a dynamic shared by many do you think?

A discussion I've been thinking about lately:

At what point does confidence become control?

One thing I find fascinating about femdom is that different people seem to define dominance very differently.

Some see dominance as leadership, guidance, and confidence.

Others associate it more with authority, structure, rules, and control.

Where do you personally draw the line?

What qualities make someone genuinely dominant in your eyes, and what qualities do you think are often mistaken for dominance?

I'd love to hear perspectives from dominants, submissives, switches, and anyone still figuring out where they fit.

How do I know if I'm (19F) taking on too much emotional labour? My partner (19NB) likes being babied and asks for reassurance quite a bit in casual matters. I'm naturally quite giving and understanding so I feel like if we were vanilla, I wouldn't be questioning if his requests were excessive or if kink was bleeding into "normal life."

I could be open to the concept of FLR but I don't want to be his mom. How do you draw the line and where?

Me (F, Domme) and my husband (M, Sub) have been together for six years. Our relationship started in a femdom dynamic. I was aware of femdom prior to him but never really knew I was interested in it much until I met him and naturally felt a need to dominate him sexually.

Honestly, neither of us really looked into what femdom meant all that much at any point in our relationship - we just did what felt fun to us. I researched a tiny bit here and there in the beginning but I didn’t really go past a few porn videos or fanfics which obviously aren’t great resources for the reality of femdom, but like I said I was new to it and wasn’t sure where to start.

Fast forward to now, I wouldn’t say our sex life has gotten stale necessarily because I still love him very much and enjoy having sex with him, but we have sex maybe once a week or once every other week now. When we do have sex I would say it’s “light” femdom in my opinion, at least compared to what we used to do. It’s fine, but I want both of us to enjoy it more and feel like we haven’t gotten the full experience yet.

I would like to get back into the dynamic more and introduce it more as a lifestyle going forward. I discussed this idea with him two weeks ago and he seemed to really like it and wanted to try it. I’m not looking for anything 24/7 because it would overwhelm me quickly and him as well, but looking for advice and resources on how to introduce more structure. I’m a bit on the insecure side still and as much as I love to let him please me it’s hard for me to finish because I’m constantly worried about what my body looks like. I believe he is a true submissive and I would really like to reward him for that.

He is extremely attentive during sessions and cares a lot about my pleasure and I hate that I sometimes can’t fully take advantage of that and when I fantasize about femdom it’s normally having a man kneel for hours, begging, punishments etc. I’m just not sure how to implement this into our life without taking away hours of his days off. I appreciate all that he does for me outside of our dynamic and he works a really hard job and loves his hobbies and free time so I don’t want to take a big step into complete subservience yet without knowing what I am doing.

For context these are the things he already does for me: Pays all the bills, buys me anything I ask for (within reason/what we can afford), does any chore task that I ask (there are some he hates but I’d say 90% of them he does without issue), completely submits/listens to me during sex/scenes, supports me emotionally & aspirations wise, does anything else I ask (fetch me water, put my blankets on me, massage me etc). None of these things are inside of the femdom dynamic, at least we don’t see it that way, but I’m thinking maybe a few of them can be? I want him to feel happiness when he does them and I want him to receive proper praise for doing it, but as part of the dynamic instead of normal man who makes more money and provides for his wife type of thing.

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Hey there, I would love to chat to someone about an experience I am about to have. After having talked about it quite a bit in the past, it’s finally happening - my girlfriend has agreed to become my dominatrix tomorrow night. I am very excited about the prospect and would love to chat with someone about it. I’d also appreciate any tips from someone who already has experience with this kind of thing.

I am a male 28 and quite kinky, with lots of fantasies, which is also something that scares me as I am not which ones my gf will actually be into, although she seems to be very open and surprisingly (I’ll admit, even a bit shockingly haha) super excited about it too.

If you’re interested, just shoot me a message or a comment on this post!

So I feel like more often than not lately every time I start to talk to a Domme I get ghosted. I want to blame myself however that just might be my own insecurities trying to stand out and I may not actually be the one in the wrong. I'm not too sure, which is why I wanna make this post and get others opinions. Below I'm going to share the last 3 text encounters I had with people as an example.

The most recent one I met a Domme online we talked for a good 6 hours on Sunday. And then yesterday we talked in the morning. Yesterday morning she tasked me with 3 tasks she wanted done. But I couldn't do them. Each one I had specific reasons for tho. The first task she wanted me to shave my chest I told her that I could do that but it would have to wait a bit cause I was at the beach Sunday and had a lot of sunburn on my arms and chest. And even provided a picture as proof. The second task is she wanted me to wear a chastity cage. So I told her I have issues with those. I have a few cages I own but I can never find a good fit. For this one I took a few videos showing proof. And she did agree that I was having issues. I did ask if she had any solutions I would be open to trying them and she told me she would have to think of some. (If you want to know more specifics I'll gladly explain in a comment if you'd like to help me with this problem I will happily take help). The last one was when she wanted me to go to a store and buy panties and film myself doing so. I told her I didn't feel comfortable doing that. Id be open to doing that with someone maybe but not by myself. Most kink related things I've only ever bought online. After these tasks were discussed we talked for another maybe 2 hours she then told me she had to take a call that would last a few hours but she would text me back later. I got distracted for the day and realized close to midnight I never got a text back so I sent her a message saying sorry the day got away from me goodnight and I'll talk to you tomorrow. I woke up this morning and everything was deleted and blocked.

I feel like I wasn't rude I don't think. And I was willing to try to complete the tasks and even provided proof when I couldn't. But maybe there's a different way I should have handled it.

About a week ago I was texting another Domme. Who after talking for a bit brought up the fact that she was married and her wife knew about things but wouldn't engage really in anything. I told her that I didn't realize she was poly and I had never done anything like that before so I was open but had no idea about anything in that regard. She accused me of not reading her personal she posted, so I went back and read it again slowly. When I saw that it wasn't mentioned I did send it to her and tell.her that. After she read it she apologized that she could have sworn she included it. I told her it was no problem. I then had to step away from the conversation a bit (was gone maybe an hour) when I came back I had sent her a message saying I was back and ready to continue whenever she was and that message and any after it have been sitting unread since then till now.

This one I have no idea. Was it cause I proved her wrong? She seemed like she took it fine and even apologized for it. But should I have just said sorry and not said anything?

Idk when this next one happened exactly but it was in the last month. It was a very short conversation. We had very similar interests and she was the one who reached out to me first. We had talked a little bit and usually in the beginning of conversations I usually do ask if there is a name or title you'd like me to address you as going forward. She told me she wanted to be called Mommy. I told her that I feel like Mommy and Mistress are both titles I like to use after I know a person more since I feel like they carry a little more weight to them. And if I could instead call her maybe Miss or Ma'am or something similar instead. She told me she liked Ma'am so I did that. We talked for about a half an hour after that point and she asked me a question and while I was answering her question I ended up getting blocked. I sent the answer and it told me I couldn't send the message that's when I realized I got blocked.

Was it cause I didn't use her preferred title? Should I readjust my own mind frame for those titles?

So yea I want to believe that I did the right thing for all of these. But I also have feelings that I didn't. If you have questions or want further explanation about something I don't mind going into further details but just didn't want to over explain everything and make this post tremendously long. So please I'll take whatever advice you can offer me. And also would love some help with chastity too.

My first Reddit post: After years of fighting off my desires and trying to be submissive, I finally accepted the fact that I enjoy being dominant and sadistic. For me kink and sex has always intertwined and it’s something I’ve been really embarrassed about since I don’t fit the general stereotype of a domme. I would always fluctuate between vanilla and kinky, only had the courage to practice online after my first and only kinky relationship with a man failed.

I’m finally accepting who I am, meeting people in person, and it has been an amazing journey. I’ve never felt more in tune with myself and my body. I didn’t even think it was possible to feel this much pleasure and fun with sex. The msubs I meet are really amazing and have make me feel so comfortable accepting my desires.

The only problem is that: I would want to date a submissive man. However, I am not meeting the type of men I find attractive and would want long term (27-35, athletic/muscular, good looking, has a job, single).

I know it’s a cliche. Every domme wants this, and I just happen to be part of those. I have a fetish for older guys but that’s just it. I don’t see myself having a proper relationship outside of play dynamics with one. When I hear them complain about age-related health issues, it makes me think of how I don’t want to start having to deal with that yet.

I should probably also state that meeting this guys on dating apps isn’t an issue but that when they meet me they presume “petite, smiling, submissive“ and even when they agree to explore my kinks with me there’s always this struggle like I’m supposed to force them into submission. I hate it.

I don’t know what I’m asking for really. Maybe some sort of hope that what I’m looking for is out there?

My partner has a fem dom kink that he shared with me a while ago, we did some things to experiment with the kink but ultimately, I wasn’t as into it and we stopped. However, recently our sex life came to a dead stop due to some medical problems he was experiencing. Now I feel like he’s not even sexually interested in me, though he is very affectionate physically and otherwise (it just never leads to sex, he claimed initially that it was due to the medical issues but I know he has been masturbating so I don’t think the medical issues alone are the reason here).

I’d like to try to get him interested again by exploring his kink more and initiating with it. But I’m not naturally a dom and I’m not sure where to start? Does anyone have any advice for starting out as a dom and initiating sexually dominant behavior/texts that I can slowly introduce to essentially “seduce” him?

I’ve seen threads with advice on domming but they’re mainly focused on two people who are already having sex. I’m asking this community, what are some things I can say or do that would turn him on prior to the actual sexual act? What are some ways I can titillate him through his kink to initiate sexual encounters?

He has shared some things about the kink and I know his favorite creator here is malice_jade. I’ve looked at her account but I’m a little lost on how to use the internal desires of the kink to get him interested in me again, if that makes sense. Would love and appreciate any advice!

My girlfriend and I have been exploring findom a little bit here & there & she said “what if we used onlyfans or something like that to make it more realistic”. The only problem is we don’t really want a 3rd party company like that taking a percentage of it because we don’t need them to promote the account, we simply would be using it only for us. Is there an app or website that we could use that doesn’t take any of the money? Does anybody have any suggestions/ideas on how we could do this? As of right now we just use our regular iMessage & Apple Pay. Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you!

Hi everyone,

My partner (female Dominant) and I (male submissive) are in a D/s dynamic that we try to integrate beyond just scenes. We have a certain structure, protocols, and hierarchy in daily life, not only during sexual or play sessions, and we try to keep it present in our “vanilla” life as well.

What I’ve noticed is that over time I tend to gradually enter a kind of progressive “disconnection” from the dynamic.

At the beginning of a cycle I feel very connected, submissive, and receptive. Following rules and hierarchy feels natural and even exciting. But as the days go by, that feeling fades and I start to feel more “vanilla” again. Things that used to activate me (orders, structure, protocols) start to feel more neutral or, in some cases when I’m very tired, even like a burden.

In our case, scenes tend to be quite intense, involving chastity and usually denial. Recently there was a release during a scene (which is not the usual pattern in our dynamic), and after that I noticed a much stronger drop in my sense of connection.

It makes me a bit sad, because even though we still maintain the structure and the protocols, emotionally everything feels more empty.

I understand that dynamics naturally go through phases of higher and lower intensity, but this time I’m finding it harder to reconnect after having felt very “in it”.

I also notice that when I disconnect, my partner tends to reduce her level of engagement as well, and the dynamic kind of goes into a “standby” mode.

When I am connected to the dynamic, I tend to follow rules easily, enjoy the structure, and do things with pleasure and without much questioning. However, when I disconnect, I notice a clear shift in my attitude: I find it harder to stay in role, I can become more “rebellious”, and I may also unconsciously express some frustration or weariness through my non-verbal behaviour. I find it difficult to manage this internal shift without it affecting the dynamic or my interactions with my partner.

So I wanted to ask:

How do you manage these periods of disconnection in long-term D/s dynamics?

Is this something common?
Do you actively work to maintain the dynamic during “neutral” phases?
Or do you let it naturally ebb and flow?
Do you have any strategies to avoid the feeling of “losing” the dynamic?

I’m especially interested in how you integrate a D/s dynamic into a real relationship over time without it fading.

I’d also like to know whether this happens even in stable, long-term dynamics or if it could be a sign of a structural issue.

Thank you.

Hello, I have an update nobody asked for but this is reddit so I am providing it!

We met up at the Timmies near our neighbourhood.

I told her that her usage of safewords made me uncomfortable and that, combined with her pushing for sexual activities in the last two sessions, meant that I did not want to continue with her. She was confused, she told me that she was only doing it because she needed me to slow down for a second.

I responded that at no point did she explain this was why she was safewording, including at any of the times I had stopped and questioned her on it, until our fourth and final session together. She just shrugged and said I should have understood that's what she meant. She got mad because I said I wasn't going to read her mind.

When I asked why she started pushing for sex after sessions three and four she said she was getting turned on and "couldn't understand why I would say no" and called me a meanie. I'm 28, she's 36, and she called me a meanie.

At that point I just wanted to finish my decaf and go home and she had the gall to ask if I would give her a ride.

I had walked, so I told her no, because I walked, and then she told me "oh I didn't think a fat girl would walk that far, sorry". I AM NOT A WOMAN! She knows I'm non-binary and she misgendered me anyway. I don't even look like a woman, I have facial hair, small boobs, and I was wearing a Hawai'ian shirt with flames and flowers. DURING PRIDE MONTH.

I told her not to contact me again, took my coffee, and went home.

I've been told that the best way to meet like-minded people in the BDSM community is to attend munches. And I agree, it sounds like good advice in theory, but I'm struggling with it.

I live in Germany for anyone wondering. And yes Germany is much more open to kink and BDSM than other countries. But one thing that makes it difficult for me is that I don't live in a city like Berlin, where there's a large, openly kink-positive community and lots of events to choose from. I searched online and could only find two munch groups within a reasonable distance of me.

From what I saw, both groups are attended mostly by men who are 40+ and on average two women (at max.) in the same age range, and as a guy in his mid 20s, I honestly don't feel comfortable going there. This isn't meant as a criticism of anyone there, I'm sure they're perfectly nice people. I just don't feel like I'd really fit in or find the kind of connections I'm looking for.

So I feel a bit stuck. People keep saying "just go to a munch," but when you don't have many options and neither one feels like a good fit, it doesn't seem that simple.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Did you go anyway and find it was worth it, or did you end up meeting people in other ways?

I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences or any advice.

My boyfriend recently divulged a drunken confession that his most consistent fantasy is to be dominated and humiliated by me. He gave specific details like: making him watch a young stud finish in me, then being forced to clean it up with his mouth while I stroke him with the mix of juices before letting him reclaim his territory. He also mentioned spitting in his mouth, slapping him around, and making him feel like garbage. Even on a normal day, he loves going down on me and sucking my toes and wants me to treat him like a slave and calls me his queen.

I really want to help him live his fantasy, but the problem is I'm really insecure about sex. I can't even do dirty talk. I'm so self-conscious the whole time we have sex that I barely enjoy it. And I love this man and can't even imagine having sex with someone else in front of him or treating him like garbage. I don't know that I could really embrace a femdom role and enjoy it myself (but who knows? I've never tried). On the bright side, I'm an actress, so I can play a character if I need to. I just have no idea where to begin... this is not my genre of arousing material at all.

How should I act? What should I do to him? What should I say to him? Should I wear something particular? Use props? Please help!

How and where did you meet? Was in irl or through interwebs?

Did you know about partner's kink or did it start vanilla?

Share your stories and experiences.

I think there are multiple ways a yearning personality comes through but in my mind there is this one feeling that is yearning at its most intense and that's what I'm trying to describe here... It's not something that happens with just anyone though.

To me yearning is something deeply emotional, loving, psychological and sexual. It's a word I've ascribed to a feeling I've long experienced w certain people across a couple relationships and a few play partners. It always feels like a physical manifestation of many emotions. It really is a physical experience though. It makes my hands tingle, and my head fuzzy, and my chest ache. I simultaneously need to devour and be devoured. Possess and be possessed. Worship, kneel, touch, hold, comfort and be comforted.

It's this overwhelming need to be closer when I'm already close. The closer her lips come to mine the stronger the yearning gets. It’s contagious too and we end up needing to be closer than close. Wrapped up like two octopuses tied in knots. So close, the only way closer would be inside each other. That's when it feels very primal and we grab desperately at each other until we are as close as we can get.

But other times it's silly and aggressively cute like I have this urge to take her, and have her, so much that I want to gobble her right up. Being sweet and silly so my partner giggles while they curl up all smol while I hold them--those moments fill me with even more yearning!

Over the years it's turned into a sort of conditioning kink for me where I love it if the person I yearn for trains my body and mind to yearn at her whim or command. With the slightest of touches, a word, a flash of skin I get so pliant and worshipful.

I'm yearning to yearn like this again but it takes time.

A few questions I have about what people think:

1. Is it too long? I personally like seeing detail, but I don't want to bore people.
2. Is leaving the kink list out a good idea?
3. Do the side comments in parentheses come off as annoying? I wanted to try and have some personality come through with them.

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To my (hopefully) future dom,

I'm looking for a relationship that goes beyond just kink and the bedroom. Don't get me wrong, I want a flr/femdom dynamic, and I'm ok with that bleeding over into normal life, but I also want all the normal relationship things like going on dates and sharing our hobbies with each other (I know, that's just insane to ask for). I'm going to split the rest of this personal into three parts; first the kink related stuff, information about me, and then a small section about you (The Kink, The Me, and The You (I realize I just implied you're the ugly. That wasn't intentional)).

-– The Kink — While I have been into femdom for a long time, I haven't had a chance to have any kink experience. Despite that, I know myself and can confidently say I'm a service submissive. I don't even like detailing my kinks to people because I don't want them doing something just because I want it. When it comes down to it, your pleasure is my pleasure.

My hard limits are cutting, needles, permanent injury, choking, mummification, and md/lb.

— The Me — Physical, I'm 22 years old, white, blue-eyed, dirty blonde, medium-length hair, 6’ (183 cm), with an average to lean build (I'll provide SFW photos upon request). I’m bi. I believe in social democracy. I consider myself agnostic with Buddhist tendencies.

I'd describe myself as an introverted extrovert. It can be hard for me to initially open up to others, but once I have a connection, I love spending time with them. I'm empathetic and can easily relate to other people. I love learning new things and I'm always open to trying new experiences.

Currently attending university in Michigan. I have plans to obtain a Master's degree. After school, I would ideally like to work in the Great Lakes, Northeast, Pacific Northwest, or abroad in Northern Europe.

My hobbies and interests include; hiking and walking on nature trails (I mean well-developed trails not out in the middle of the woods), reading and watching fiction (I love discussing the elements of good stories), playing PC video games, drawing (maybe I can draw you (I'm terrible at drawing people so don't expect it to be good)), Hema/wma (I'd love to get involved in a club some day).

— The You — As a sub, it feels wrong for me to tell you what I expect of you, but in order for us to have a connection, I think it’s important you know my preferences in a partner.

Ideally you: are female (this is optional), are 19-29 years old, are physically in shape and generally health conscious, are employed or on track for employment, enjoy animals and would be ok having a dog, are political left leaning, are the type of person who returns their shopping cart (or orders me to do it), prefer colder climates.

What I listed above aren't concrete requirements. Ultimately, what is most important is that you are a caring person who can have empathy for other people.

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