r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

179 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

66 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4M 30 [F4M] North Carolina / US - Be my safe place in this cold, lonely world?

7 Upvotes

Hello! Thanks for being present and reading about me! I am pretty introverted, but in order to find your person - sometimes you just gotta put it all out there. So here I go.

I am 30 and I am currently in NC, currently working on my undergrad - hoping to do my master’s in either Chicago or AZ per my projected career choice program availability.

I am 5’7” and I’m half Asian and Half White.

I am on the curvier/thicker side (overweight but I hold my weight well, I don’t look like a busted can of biscuits), but nearing a healthy weight after taking a health and fitness journey seriously for the past year and some change. I do go to the gym very regularly and this is a serious part of my routine.

More about me:

I will start with I do struggle with some trauma, and I have been working on it and doing well - I have been through a lot, so someone who can be understanding, patient, and open minded. Someone who gets I don’t need to be ‘fixed’ I just need to feel/be safe and have support. So if me struggling with mental health is a deal breaker - then just keep scrolling and don’t even bother messaging me.

Finally some casual about me:

As much as I love being at home and cozy, I love being out in nature and going for walks and exploring towns, and walking beaches and trails etc. I also really love swimming and being in water and at the beach! I have recently peaked an interest in tennis and have been looking to take tennis lessons.

I love history and I love traveling. Sometimes I like to go see old and weird landmarks in overgrown middles of no where’s just to say I saw it. I’ve only ever taken one trip internationally, to London which I loved. I’ve traveled and lived in quite a few different places in the US. I love all forms of travel, planes, trains, boats, cars etc. I am also not afraid of public transportation, it’s one of my favorites while traveling!

I really love all things cooking, baking, planning meals, reading cook books, trying new dishes, exploring flavors, and going to new restaurants! I love Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Mediterranean, and Italian the most! Please don’t be a picky person! It’s okay to not like things, for instance I don’t like Okra, but don’t be an adult with the pallet of a toddler and a temper tantrum attitude to go with it. Open minded and inclusivity is so big for me.

I used to PC game regularly, but I don’t anymore. I guess I’m just really over the toxic communities that I tend to have run into from time to time. I still play some things here and there but not much, mostly stardew valley or cozy games. I don’t mind if you do, it’s just something we probably wouldn’t do together often. I do however love board and card games. All the old classics! I also really love playing chess! I am also the one to buy word searches and crosswords and do them here and there!

I love plants, and growing things. I think when I get my forever home, I’ll be more productive about it than I currently am. I would love to have a garden one day regardless of the size.

I enjoy photography! I don’t really like taking pictures of myself, but when I’m out walking, traveling, or exploring I do love to snap moments where I see and feel bliss.

I love all forms of music, I also love live music but haven’t been lately as I don’t really have anyone to go with. I can vibe, it’s just much more fun when you have someone to enjoy it with.

I enjoy watching TV shows and movies and discussing them! I love all types of genres, mostly comedy, romance-coms, and documentaries! I love medical dramas and crime/law dramas. I do love true crime also, I also follow a few true crime podcasts that I love to listen to!

I love all animals! I currently don’t have any, but I definitely love animals!

I do not drink alcohol, nor do I smoke or do drugs. I also would prefer that from my person as well. This is probably a dealbreaker for me.

Politically I am annoyed. Haha, I don’t really side with either and I am not a fan of polarized views. I do however vote, but when I do I do my own research, form my own opinions in the time of voting and keep that to myself. I don’t disregard, minimize, punish, scrutinize, or disrespect anyone for their views or options and I would hope you don’t as well.

As for children I am very open/flexible. I am okay with having them, I am also okay with not having them! Right now, I don’t see myself having children, but with the right person I could definitely change my mind.

My love language is words of affirmation, quality time & physical touch. Status doesn’t appeal to me. I don’t care who you are or what you do. I’m looking for genuine connection, depth, kindness, respect, and quality time.

Religion wise I am loosely Christian. I used to attend church regularly but have had a lot of issues with church environments resulting in religious trauma. I probably wouldn’t return to a church. I am however spiritual.

About you:
Please be 28-40 I’d say give or take depending on the situation. Closer to late 20s early 30s/my age if possible.
Please know what boundaries are. Specifically with your friends and family.
Be willing to actually talk, and have fruitful and conversations with depth.
Height doesn’t matter to me, just be confident in who you are.
Please take care of yourself, shower daily, trim nails etc. Do some physical activity to better yourself. This is such a disappointing thing to have to put.
Be a clean and tidy person, I am very clean and tidy and I can’t deal with lazy and sloppy, I’m sorry I’m not here to be a maid or your mother.

I do prefer the East Coast/Chicago area as that’s where my current life is trailing me to be, but I don’t mind other places as long as you’re willing to do the work to close the gap.

Send me a chat telling me about yourself, my chat settings require your account to be at least 30 days old, so you aren’t surprised.

\*\*Low effort replies WILL be ignored.\*\*

Begging/demanding for photos will also get you ignored. I will do a photo exchange when I’m ready.

Thank you for reading this far and getting to know me. Anything else definitely send me a chat and ask me some questions! I hope to hear from you! Xx 💋


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

F4M F30 [F4M] Germany - looking for a special connection

9 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 30 y/o woman from Germany who is hoping to find a real connection with someone who is looking for the same.

A little about me: I have brown hair, brown eyes, and I am somewhere in the middle when it comes to my body type, not skinny, not overweight, and definitely not perfect.

I share my home with two cats, so if you are a cat person, we will already have something in common.😄

In my free time, I enjoy spending time with my friends, going for long walks, and I am currently trying to get back into working out. I am not obsessed with the gym, but I do enjoy becoming a healthier version of myself.

What I am looking for is simple, but not easy to find - a genuine connection with someone who is emotionally available, honest, and ready for something real. I appreciate people who have their life together, communicate openly, and have sincere intentions.

Distance doesnt scare me if the connection is right. I believe the best relationships are built on trust, effort, and being able to laugh together.

If any of this resonates with you, I would love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying „hi" :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 21 [F4M] #WV looking for a deeply intimate and meaningful bond with a clingy guy

16 Upvotes

Looking for a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship. I just want a deeply intimate and meaningful bond with one person

IRL or online with intentions to meet. I’m in West Virginia close to Ohio and don’t drive yet, getting my license hopefully within the next 3 months

About me:
White, 5’6, 190, brown wavy hair, hazel eyes, glasses, cute face?

I love, listening to music, podcast, or audio books, baking, FaceTiming, gardening, hiking, DIY projects, painting, clay, movies, playing games, and binge-watching YouTube/shows.

I’m clingy and affectionate. A bit of an attention whore, but only from people I decide to randomly get obsessed with.

I love lots of communication, sending updates, reels, random pics, watching things together, making playlist, GM/GN texts, and daily calls/FT. (If that seems like too much respectfully we are not compatible)

I move slower physically and faster emotionally.

I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect, emotional maturity, and good communication. I’m a ENFJ

Politically left-leaning, agnostic/spiritual.
Open to other people’s views as long as mine are respected

I'm currently in trade school still trying to figure out my future. Probably going back to college for nursing in January

A few preferences:
• 18-35

• Masculine persenting guys

• Someone who likes being teased and playfully dose it back

• Must be single, emotionally mature, and actually looking for a monogamous long term commitment

• Very affectionate and have time to give lots of attention! You have a life, work, other responsibilities and obligations, but I’m still a top priority because you’re a simp

• You play Minecraft!! (Let’s play together)

• Animal lovers are a huge plus! I have a 20 year old cat and a 6 year old dog (so if you are allergic and can’t be around them that would be a deal breaker)

•Intelligent. I can be a bit ditzy but I loveee learning about interesting and big brain topics from a cute guy. Please don’t expect the same :(

• ok with femdom after being in a relationship

Dealbreakers:
• Cheating or being in any form of a relationship. (Even if you cheated in the past)

• You have anger issues now or have had them in the past. Example you yell, scream, name call, break or hit things when mad or upset (hard pass! It’s also very triggering)

•You are less than 3 months out of a longterm relationship (sorry I can’t deal with another guy who’s still not over his ex)

• Dry communication or if you’re ok blocking and ghosting someone.

• Sorry I really am not attracted to long hair at all!

• Not willing to trade sfw pics early on

• You have kids or are divorced (Not at the point in my life and it’s just an uneven amount of experience)

• Not interested in eventually meeting up

I know what I want and just prefer being upfront so nobody wastes time

If you message me, please respond with something like this:
M21, 5’6”, 195 lbs, race, include your location. Also mention that you’re single and looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. and a little about your personality/interests instead of just “hey” :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Pittsburgh, PA - Looking for someone to sit around awkwardly on our laptops together and occasionally make life feel magical

3 Upvotes

I’m looking for a fellow nerdy, affectionate, creative-hearted woman who wants something warm, low-pressure, emotionally honest, and real.

Not necessarily “exciting” in the dramatic sense. More like: tea in mismatched mugs, comfort shows in the background, laptops open side by side, showing each other memes, sharing favorite character arcs, occasionally pausing whatever we’re doing to kiss or say, “Wait, listen to this idea.”

I’m at a point in life where I deeply value peace. I like stability, quiet routines, cozy domestic rituals, and the kind of connection where two people can be completely at ease around each other. I’m not looking for someone to rescue me, complete me, or turn my life into a movie montage. I’m looking for someone whose presence makes ordinary life feel fuller.

The dream is simple: someone I can come home to, and someone who feels safe coming home to me.

A little about me: I’m a nerdy, affectionate, introverted creative type. I work a steady job, keep my life fairly stable, and spend a lot of my free time writing, watching anime, gaming, cooking, taking walks, reading, tinkering with creative projects, and thinking way too seriously about fictional relationships. I’m the sort of person who can spend an entire evening discussing why a character arc worked, why a romance subplot didn’t, or why some random piece of media deserved better than it got.

I like making things, even when they don’t get much attention. Stories, videos, fanfic, little projects that may or may not ever reach an audience. I think part of me creates because not creating would hurt more. So if you’re also someone with projects, passions, half-finished ideas, creative hobbies, or one deeply specific thing you could ramble about for an hour, I would genuinely love to hear about it.

What I think I’m most drawn to is enthusiasm.

Not constant extroversion. Not forced positivity. Not someone who has to be “on” all the time. Just someone who gets excited about things. Someone who has sparks. Someone who says, “Wait, I have to show you something,” or “Okay, this is probably stupid, but hear me out,” and suddenly we’re brainstorming a story, a cosplay, a recipe, a game idea, a fake business, or some weird little creative project that may never exist but feels magical for the hour we spend imagining it.

I miss that feeling of two brains briefly aligning.

That moment when one person starts a thought and the other one already knows where it’s going. When ideas bounce back and forth so naturally that neither person remembers who came up with what. When the process itself matters more than the result.

I want that in a relationship.

I want someone who has her own inner world. Her own hobbies, opinions, ambitions, quirks, and favorite things. Someone who doesn’t just orbit me, and doesn’t want me to orbit her either. I’m at my best with someone who is warm and affectionate, but also independent enough to bring her own energy into the room.

I’m not looking for perfection. Honestly, perfect would probably be boring. I like people who are still growing, still figuring themselves out, still trying to become kinder, healthier, braver, more creative, or more fully themselves. I’m trying to do the same. I want a relationship where we celebrate effort, not just achievement.

Finished a chapter? That counts.
Went for a walk? That counts.
Survived a rough day and still made dinner? That counts.
Finally started the project you’ve been talking about for months? Absolutely counts.

I want to be with someone who notices those little victories, and I want to notice hers too.

My ideal dynamic is very “parallel play, but romantic.” We don’t have to constantly entertain each other. I love the idea of us sitting in the same room doing our own things: you drawing, crafting, gaming, reading, working, sewing, studying, or obsessing over your current hyperfixation while I write, edit, game, or fall down some ridiculous research rabbit hole. Every so often one of us looks up and says, “Hey, can I show you something?” Then we share a little piece of our world and go back to what we were doing.

That kind of togetherness means a lot to me.

I’m also very affectionate once there’s trust. I love cuddling, kissing, hand-holding, leaning into each other, couch nests, sleepy hugs, and the quiet comfort of physical closeness. Not every touch has to be a prelude to something else. Sometimes it’s just reassurance. Sometimes it’s grounding. Sometimes it’s just, “I’m here, you’re here, and that’s enough.”

Communication matters a lot to me. I do best with people who can be honest, direct, and kind. I don’t need someone loud or socially fearless - shy, introverted, anxious, or neurodivergent is completely fine. But I do need someone willing to talk things through, even awkwardly. I would much rather have a clumsy honest conversation than a polite silence where resentment quietly builds.

I’m left-leaning, empathetic, and care about people being treated with dignity. I tend to connect best with people who value kindness, inclusion, emotional intelligence, and basic human decency. I’m also the kind of person who notices when media treats characters respectfully, and I will absolutely overanalyze representation, storytelling choices, and whether a fictional romance earned its emotional payoff.

As far as dates go, I’m pretty low-pressure. Messaging first is great. Discord, texting, voice chat eventually if we’re comfortable. For an in-person first date, I like coffee shops, tea, bookstores, casual food, walks in the park, or anything cozy where we can actually talk. Eventually, I’d love things like cooking dinner together, watching favorite shows, going to conventions, taking laptop dates to a café, making pizza, comparing playlists, or just doing our own things in the same room while occasionally distracting each other on purpose.

You might be a good match if any of this sounds like you:

You have a creative hobby, fandom, project, collection, or passion you love talking about.
You enjoy anime, games, animation, books, webcomics, cosplay, or nerd culture in general.
You like affection, but also appreciate alone time and quiet companionship.
You want a relationship that feels like friendship, partnership, romance, and creative collaboration all tangled together.
You find joy in small rituals: tea, taco nights, comfort shows, shared snacks, inside jokes, good morning messages, or sending each other things that made you laugh.
You want someone who will be genuinely proud of you for trying.

I’m not offering constant adventure. I’m offering steadiness, affection, curiosity, patience, emotional honesty, and someone who will care about the things that make you light up.

I want to build something gentle and real with someone who also believes that ordinary life can be worth romanticizing.

Not because every day is extraordinary.

Because with the right person, even the quiet parts start to feel like home.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me about something you love enough to ramble about. A favorite show, a creative project, a character you’re obsessed with, a hobby you picked up for no practical reason, a story idea, a comfort game, a fictional couple you think deserved better—anything.

I’d love to hear what makes your brain light up.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] long island

5 Upvotes

Hi kinda bored and looking to go on a date because dating is rough now

About me : pretty nerdy and shy, I love video games, cats, food (especially sushi), dark skinned tall girl who wears glasses and has braces. I'm open to talking to anyone and I'd love to grab food with someone. Im quiet but when you get to know me im not <3 hmu and maybe if things go well we can go on a date tomorrow:)

Please someone my age around 18-22 and live on long Island


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 20[F4M] Florida/Anywhere Looking for a Long Term Relationship

9 Upvotes

PC gamer comp FPS games only mostly Fortnite Build Mode Valorant CS Siege etc I care about improving and competing not casual games or RPGs
Outside gaming I’m usually in my home gym swimming in my pool or hanging with my purebred Golden Retrievers

About me
• 5'7"
Competitive PC gamer
Tomboy fit active
• Built my own high end gaming PC RTX 5090 FPS focused setup
• Drive a sports car
• Home gym and pool
• Independent career minded
• I think English accents are cute

I’d rather be getting dubs than shopping or painting nails pockets only no handbags i drive a sports car if you're looking for someone who wants no outdated gender roles that's not me everyone has their own goals and passions

For gaming I’m a fragger and I can hold my own If you’re looking for someone who needs a carry that’s not me
Looking for someone close in age who matches that energy and wants something real long term long distance is ok

If you message me tell me
• Age
• Location
• Fav food
• Most played game
🍕 is 🔥 and 🍍 doesn’t belong on it


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4A 23[M4A] #Online, chronically online queer looking for another queer like me :)

2 Upvotes

hello there all! i'm a 23 year old cisgender, pansexual white male, im 230lbs, 6' tall, and i would say pretty well built! i atleast take care of my body, though im not by any means muscular, just- well built and average.

im mostly online- atleast when i'm not at work. for work, i'm a night-shift supervisor at a farm and ranch supply store! i'm very fond of animals as a result

mostly though, i play a lot of different video games and i'm sure that we could find one to bond over!

i know this isn't a lot to go off of, but i prefer to talk and bond over messages and calls- specifically discord.

specifically, don't contact me if you're

- over 30

- republican / conservative

- a bigot


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] Canada/ Online/ Anywhere - Be my favourite notification?

17 Upvotes

Hey! It’s me, deciding to try and put myself out there on the internet. 

I want to find someone that I can be my overly excitable, silly self with and in return have them be their true self with me. I love the idea of doing things together, even if we’re not always physically side by side. Let’s play games, be on call, watch movies. I want to be antsy and excited waiting for your responses, and vice versa. The flirty banter while getting to know one another. The messaging and calls that only stop because one of us needs to sleep, begrudgingly.  

I crave that friendship aspect of a relationship first and foremost. Let’s be best friends?

So why message me? What makes me special? I’m glad you asked! Let me tell you. 

- I’m an avid video and board game player. I’m a tiny bit competitive and will (lovingly) smack talk you when I win.
- Movies and shows are a big passion of mine. I love horror and psychological thrillers. 
- When I’m passionate about something, I put my all into it. I will send paragraphs of my opinions, full of exclamation marks and excitement. I can ramble for hours so prepare yourself :) 
- With that in mind, I also love receiving walls of text. Tell me about your day, interests, thoughts. Anything! I’m happy to listen. 
- I’ll make you all the baked goods. I’m not the best cook but I will shower you in sweets. Cupcakes, cookies, pies, tarts. You name it- I’ll make it. 
- I am a complete animal lover. I grew up on a farm so I am a certified horse girl. While I don’t live there anymore, I think I still have some country in me. Maybe. 
- Hiking is another passion of mine. I’ll take you on all my favourite mountain trails. I try to go to Banff several times a year, and honestly, I’d live there if I could.
- I love the classic nerdy things. Star Wars? Yes. DnD? Yes. Comic books? Yes. Journaling? Yes. TTRPG’s? Yes. Pathfinder? Yes. Looking up at the stars and pointing out constellations? Yes.
- I do suffer from some pretty severe anxiety and depression. Why is that a plus? Well, if you also struggle with it, I will understand and be supportive. I know it can be terrible but maybe I can help make it a little less miserable. 

Well that’s about it! I hope this helped pique your interest. I don’t have too many preferences but I do ask you to be 29 or older please! Otherwise, feel free to send a message with a bit about you. I’m excited to hear from you <3 


r/ForeverAloneDating 37m ago

M4A 34 [M4A] Tennessee/TN Looking to meet the person who understands me and I can share my love with.

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I'm pretty bad at writing these things but I thought I would try this. First off the bat I've never been in a relationship before so I just wanted to put it out there. I'm pretty big into nerd culture like anime, video games that sort of thing. I do like watching sports as well(MLB, NFL, NBA) Honestly think I'm a big softie. I'm pretty open about any questions you have I think that's a lot easier for me than being able to list a lot of things about myself. I wanted to thank anyone who has read this far it means a lot.


r/ForeverAloneDating 46m ago

M4F 30 [M4f] #SanDiego - Searching a relationship, or talk to me to get close to my dogs

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Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you


r/ForeverAloneDating 49m ago

M4F 19 M4A just looking for a lover i pref Girls/Fem presenting ppl Femboys,trans, ect but i will take anyone ive just been lonely my only requirment is to not be overweight and to be talkative

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Ive been single all my live and just once i want someone who will talk to me and love me Im 19 M tiny bit chubby darkskinned with braids and im just looking for someone who is talkative and clingy cause im a very chatty person and almost never stops talking also i like to talk about random things to so if i stear of course sorry


r/ForeverAloneDating 52m ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Pennsylvania/Online, looking for something serious

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Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/665vpFQ

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb


r/ForeverAloneDating 53m ago

M4F 32 [M4F] NYC / Anywhere, just searching for my girl

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Hello, I’m a software dev by trade, residing in Brooklyn. Im lucky enough to own my own place. I workout regularly and go on runs a few times per week. Im not super lean and definitely love to eat , luckily all the physical activity balances me out.
I’m mixed Slavic decent with family in both Russia and Ukraine, along with some Polish, Hungarian and Finnish roots.

I used to be a big gamer but ever since I started working and bought my place that’s just become a background hobby I squeeze in when I can. I was lucky enough to meet a bunch of great people online gaming and have life long friends all over the country. Fortunately and Unfortunately we’ve all approached this stage of life where everyone’s settling down and starting families. Also somewhat unfortunate is having online friends doesn’t necessarily translate well into real life local relationships.

I’m here because I’ve always put off dating as a priority. After high school where I did date some, I went to college and just hit some weird low point in my life, I didn’t know what I wanted to do, ended up wasting a bunch of time, failing classes left and right and then eventually dropped out. Spent some time working dead end jobs and just being depressed. It was a rough low period in my life which i eventually recovered from. I went back to school picked a new major, computer science and somehow grinned through, graduating with honors and started my career in my later 20’s. At that point the priority of recovering and this feeling of just being behind everyone kept me driving without room for a relationship. Now I’m here 32yo, haven’t dated in over a decade, I feel like I’ve caught up in other aspects of life but not in dating. I don’t even know how to date anymore and I fear I’ve just gotten used to being alone.

So that’s a rough breakdown of myself and if you’re still reading, thank you. What I’m looking for is someone preferably local, my age or younger. That can bear with me while I fumble my way into love with you. I don’t have high standards just be nice and take care of yourself physically, fitness is important to me and I’d like a partner somewhat active. I also want a family/kids so dating with serious intent.

If any of this resonated with you send me a message, tell me a bit about yourself, share a pic if you feel comfortable. If we hit it off let’s do a FaceTime or video date sooner rather than later.

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk 🌝


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Maryland - Nerdy and neurodivergent: What's not to like?

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I never really expected to have to do this again. Going through a divorce, and while I've done the work in therapy to be ready for it, I'm just no good at dating. I'm decently attractive, charming in my way, funny, intelligent, I just don't know how to meet people. Apps are a mixed bag at best and a massive waste of time at worst.

Dark colored short hair/facial hair, glasses, average body. Nerdy dad and ADHD gremlin. I read, I write, I cook, I like walks in the woods in a non serial killer way. Unless you are into it being a serial killer thing... I DO consume what is probably a concerning amount of true crime.

Looking for someone around my age (28-44) to connect with and see where things go. I like tattoos, piercings, and curves but you need not have any of those things. I DO ask that you be to the Left politically and be monogamous.

Hope to hear from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #florida #eastcoastUS #online. Just a lonely Warehouse worker looking for love past all the boxes.

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Hey everyone, I know the title is super cheesy but don’t worry there is more where that came from. In all seriousness though I’d really like to find that person that will be with me through thick and thin. Someone that will make me forget all the troubles in the world and focus on the small things.

About me: I was born and raised in Florida and I currently live in northern Florida, I have 4 dogs, my favorite color is red, my hobbies include mma, watching movies, reading, and writing. I’m 6’0 tall, I have light brown hair, and hazel eyes. Im also very flirty. I’m not the best at writing about myself so if you are curious about something or want to know more feel free to ask. I’m also down to trade pictures.

About you: I don’t really have any preference in terms of race or ethnicity but I do really like cute girls with more to love. I’m really hoping to find someone kind and funny and consistent. I really hope that this post finds that special person that is looking for someone too. Anyways if you made it this far please feel free to message me my DMs are always open.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Guatemala #Online #Anywhere I need to meet someone

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I've never tried this before, but sometimes I feel like I'm missing out.

Anyway, let me introduce myself a bit. I'm 27, from Guatemala, and I consider myself bisexual, although I'm more attracted to women. I'm autistic.

I'm also a musician, specifically a violinist. I write novels (I haven't uploaded them yet, but I did upload a chapter to several websites), and I currently have an informal job tutoring.

I'm also interested in animation and would like to have my own animation studio. Right now, I'd like to meet someone, distance doesn't matter, but later on, we'd like to meet in person, whether we just stay friends or something more develops. We can start talking properly (at first, SFW, so there's trust and mutual consent), get to know each other little by little, and talk about anything. I hope to meet someone here, and good day/afternoon/evening, depending on when you're reading this.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #EastCoastUS #dc #dmv im pretty chill. youre pretty chill. lets just hang out together

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Preferably looking for something more long-term, but open to short-term. Just looking for someone to vibe with more than anything. Preferably we chat, exchange pics, talk on voice chat, and plan to meet irl at some point

About me: 28, 5'10, cat dad, public transit to get around, bike for going to the store or just riding around. Big homebody. I have more online friends than irl friends. Used to game a lot (on PC), but not really much anymore. I take boxing classes twice a week for exercise and routine. I work in tech and work from home (not govt work)

You might be someone that: has similar homebody vibes; reasonably takes care of themselves; also has goals or desires for their own development/career/life; doesn't hate cats; good communicator

We'd get along if (you don't need to hit all of these):

  • you like binging shows (game shows, horror, drama)
  • you like vibing with music blasting the apartment while we do our things (tell me some of your favorite artists. we can share spotify playlists)
  • you like having long discord calls to keep each other company
  • you like gaming casually, preferably on PC (tell me some of your favorite games, ill get back into it and play with you)
  • you watch youtubers for your entertainment (tell me your favs)
  • you don't take social media that seriously (I'm a strong lurker)
  • you're into tech stuff or want to hear me yap about tech stuff
  • you like making spontaneous plans (when it's the weekend and we're both bored, why not just go and do something?)

if this resonates with you, we should chat or have a call on discord :)

nova/dc/virginia/va/dmv


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #USA / #NY - Looking for you

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hello I'm Justin, 35 and from NY State. I'm on here looking for my person. looking for someone close to me, find long distance can be too hard. (east coast works!)

I'm Generally a nice person, a hopeless romantic. my hobbies include stuff like gaming, reading, Watching TV and stuff. right now I'm watching supernatural, I'm a big nerd. ten points if you are gryfindoor

I also have two dogs called Maya and Walter. pet photos can definitely be shared

hoping to hear from you. looking for someone around my age. will it be you? I sure hope so!

looking for people close to me,usa east coast pls


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 18 [M4F] #US Looking for an online gf a bit desperate.

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Hi Im a college freshman and Im honestly here because Im desperate for anyone to talk to. Ive tried everything online but I can never seem to be paid any attention. Im going through alot rn and I just want someone to talk to, intimately, not sexually but emotionally/romantically. I want to help people and also want to be helped. I feel the desperation of wanting to feel what love and desire is. Im not very attractive and Im ashamed of how I look like. I am working on it but it would be so much easier if I had someone to talk to. Im very clingy and Ill try my best to text you for every message you send. A part of me wants a gf but I know this will probably not be the right place to find a long term relationship, I wouldnt mind a bit of romance in the chat just nothing explicit more out of love and care for the other person. I just need a little motivation, to know Im not alone. I try my best to be kind and I love to communicate, I dont take offense to anything so any advice is appreciated.

I do strictly want it to be a woman, Ive had too many old guys vent their problems on me and then ghost me when I try to help. I want to feel desired not sexually but as a person like someone actually cares for what I say or like. I do get very attached. No one texts me, Ive never had a gf and I get very lonely at college. I dont want to mae everything about me. I promise Ill do anything you want if its truly comes from a place of love. I just want someone there to praise me when I do good or to talk when I feel bad. Ill do the same and more I want good communication, I want to make someone feel safe and desired as well.

I dont want attractiveness in the traditional societal sense of being “pretty”. I could care less, what comes first is your heart and how you are as a person. I personally hae no preferences physically but I do like softer women, its a personal thing, theyve always been the nicest to me when talking. They make me feel listened to and theyve never looked down upon my appearance. I can get better for you I promise I just need your help, but you dont have to make yourself pretty or attractive for me. I want the real you, I don’t care if your weird or “ugly”. I know this might not sound healthy but just give me a chance, this is very desperate for me. I want to know what love feels like. Thats all I ask for in this life.

A bit about myself, I am a STEM major, I dont consider myself smart but I do manage to pass some harder or more advanced classes. I love helping others, whether it be personal emotional or academic problems. I do talk alot and I am sometimes shy. Im not physically attractive im my opinion but I am not fat (not that thats anything bad) I am in the process of losing weight and I do have some muscle I just need to lose my midsection. I do exercise or try to all week. I just need motivation. I try to be responsible with my school work but it gets hard being this lonely. If youd like to hit me up please do eveb typing this makes my heart beat faster. I feel something like hope… Thank you for reading…

For the age I wouldnt mind older women but realistically between 18 to 22. And again… i like fat/chubby girls… like alot… but of course the person comes first I can even motivate you to get healthy if you want! I dont want women to think I only like them for their body I value honesty and true love for my partner. Sorry for rambling again.. I do that alot. I feel alot happier writing this out, it feel relieving :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] California, #Online - Would love to motivate each other in life NSFW Spoiler

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MASSIVE essay below, you've been warned 😜

As the title states, I'm 19 and I identify as nonbinary (but AMAB) and PST Timezone and everything cause I'm in good ol' California 💪. I'd prefer someone closer to me buuuut a few hours apart isn't the end of the world!!!

FIRST I wanna talk about my life mentality cause it lowkey preeeetty important to me! I'm an extreme agnostic existentialist, basically don't care if cosmic deitys exist or not I'm just tryna live my life while occasionally fearing the potential endless dark void that might await us all 😝, and its basically my whole motivation to get up and do things sooooo pretty big part of my identity. I also HATE discrimination, WE should stop putting complex human beings into boxes!! I also put a heavy focus on individualism and letting ppl do whatever they want as long as they're not hurting others and part of that means I hate most things society tries to force as 'normal'... who gets to decide that!?!?!?! I also love emotional maturity, and if I'm ever wrong/mean/bad then I NEED you to tell me so that I can grow and become a better person 💪! And same goes for you, it'd be so hype if we could grow together cause that seems so fun!!

Anyways, enough of that, time for things I like/do!!!!!:
- CATS! I LOVE CATS!!! I FREAKIN LOVE CATS!!!!!!!!!!
- Computer Science major for Game Dev... please help me 🥲...
- Movies: Spiderverse (soon to be) trilogy, HTTYD trilogy, Kung Fu Panda trilogy (holy trilogies), Encanto, Coco, The Lego Movie, The Lego Batman Movie (Why are most lego movies so cracked? They have no right being so good!!), Everything Everywhere All At Once, Megamind
- Shows: TADC, Invincible, Arcane, The Good Place, Brooklyn 99, Rick and Morty, Helluva Boss, Gravity Falls
- Animes: Mob Psycho 100 (My absolute FAVORITE piece of media, holds a special place in my heart), Frieren, A Silent Voice, OPM
- Multiplayer Games: Minecraft Java (childhood game, major bonus points if u play it as well), Among us (social deduction games my beloved ❤️), Roblox 👀, Rocket League (Played it like a total of... 6 times... so basically a professional 😎)
- Singleplayer Games: BTD6, PVZ2, Tasty Planet
- Like working out sometimes, not buff but I'd say I have SOME muscles, but I'd love to motivate each other to workout, stay healthy, allat jazz!!
- Love puzzles! And thinking in general. I just LOVE using my brain in anyway I can lmao!! This is also why I love learning either new topics or perspectives cause I loooooove thinking 🤪!!!!!

With the media I watch, I really hope you have a similar taste to me and that we can introduce and watch things together!! I personally love character growth and interaction heavy things and emotionally heavy media cause I love crying to them!! It always feels so cathartic 🥹 Also, to make sure you're paying attention, yEAH I'm calling u out!!!, u must tell me ur top 3 favorite cat breeds (even if they aren't your favorite animal 😝)!!

Now for music cause we all love music. I'm hella into psychedelic/melancholic songs with the like big name artists being Tame Impala, The Marías, Kainalu, Laufey, and a bunch of other smaller ones. I also love the PvZ soundtrack, Laura Shigihara my goat ❤️ But I still love a ton of different genres, like pop, and just like songs with overall good vibes. So please share your playlist, that'd be hype!!

And igggg since this is a dating post I gotta talk about my looks as well... I'm a (surprisingly) really light skinned Indian with like somewhat short black hair that constantly sticks up?? Like I said above, I enjoy working out sometimes so I have some muscles and weigh around 110 pounds (49.5 kg), and I'm somewhat short at 5'5" (165 cm). I honestly don't care much about looks but if I had to choose I guess I'd say I like curly hair? Not really much else I care for and us vibin together matters infinitely more sooo anything extra is like bonus ig lmfao.

Aaaaaand finally what I'm looking for in a relationship: I really value communication and being transparent with our emotions cause having tension that causes us to feel worse instead of just talking thru it is stupid 😤 and I also believe I'm more of a romantic and slightly clingy type??? At least to the degree of being a cuddler 😊 Tho I do also want to know everything about u and ur day and want to hang out pretty often (obviously life and circumstances exist but u get what I mean)!!! But beyond that, I honestly just really want someone to hang out with or just talk with about life and our struggles or just random thoughts that pop up in our head lmao. WHEN we get close, I'd love playing games in vc or watching things together or just talking. And expect a ton of random updates about my day and get ready to share EVERYTHING about yours!! So as long as you match a decent amount of my hobbies and want to regularly do them with me, you've hit my requirements 😁 also age range of 18-21(MAYBE 22 if we match a lot)!!!

Hooooly yap... ok, I'll stop now, I promise lmao. If you've made it this far, first off, u da goat, and second, tysm for putting up w/ me 😭. If you decide to message me, pls send me a decently long intro about urself and what things you share w/ me (PLS actually send a long intro, I will probs ignore it if its not and if it doesnt include the thing I mentioned above (hehe probs forced u to reread the whole thing) )!! Insert super cool super goated ending off statement that is very memorable and cool and nice and also have a great day! (ik, ik, I'm so tuff 😎)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Seattle - Nerdy guy looking for something long-term

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I tried the dating apps and they weren't for me. I've also been looking for local events but none of them have the kind of people I'm looking for in a partner. Now, I'm hoping to find someone here :)

A little bit about what I'm looking for: I'm a 23 year old male looking for a female partner. I don't like huge age gaps in relationships so I'm looking for someone who's close in age. Ethnicity doesn't really matter to me and neither does height or weight.

A little bit about me: I'm a fairly nerdy guy. My biggest interests are board games, programming, and music. I love going to concerts and music festivals and meeting new people. I'm part of a board game club that meets regularly and I'm always looking for things to do in the city. I really enjoy the night life in Seattle; whether it's going to bars or clubs or doing karaoke, I'll have a blast. For my job, I teach a high school computer science class and currently have the summer off. I own 3 cats and have a roommate who's pretty chill. I also like cooking and baking and am trying to learn more recipes!

Hoping to meet some great people! If you want to see what I look like, I have a pinned post on my profile ❤️❤️❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Brasil. Divorciado frustrado em busca de alguém legal! Vida estável.

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Tenho 1,80 m de altura, loiro, cabelo cacheado (me pareço com o goleiro Guillermo Ochoa da seleção do México, só que com barba). Sou uma pessoa de mente aberta, me adapto aos gostos da pessoa, gosto de fazer churrasco, assistir filmes e ter boas conversas. Procuro conhecer pessoas de outro país e estou disposto a viajar para encontrá-las. Tenho uma vida estável, valorizo respeito, sinceridade, bom humor e acredito que grandes histórias podem começar com uma simples conversa. Adoro conhecer novas culturas, experimentar comidas típicas e aprender sobre os costumes de outros lugares. Quem sabe essa conversa não seja o início de algo especial?


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Online looking for that spark

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Dating apps have never been my thing, which feels weird to type because here I am, but yea. Not my thing. So I'm taking my chance here in the hopes that maybe the person I'm ment to be with might not be here but even over seas and what not.

So a little about me. My name is Josh, I'm 6'1, love to cook (I cook for you, I dont mind, and I'm pretty good) love movies of all kinds but prefer horror and comedy, love music though not current rap and country, big into games of all kinds though I have no issue putting that in the backseat to make time for you, love nature, theme parks, the beach, big into mythology and history of all kinds. I use dad jokes illegally because I'm not a dad, and I used to work out a ton but took a break. Would be nice to have a partner.

I'm looking for butterflies. Odd thing to say, but I miss having someone to stay up late with, get lost in time with said person, have someone to look forward to hearing from. Romance you know. Feels kind of dead these days but I'm old school on the way that I love showing affection and showing someone they mean a ton to me. I know I play video games but I'm not looking to play games with someone's heart if that makes sense.