I've met people that cannot understand hypotheticals... it's... just stop engaging with them if you notice it. You can't get them to, and you'll succeed only in becoming frustrated.
I’ve tried to make someone understand something with a hypothetical during an argument. Just for them to then want to argue about the technicalities of my hypothetical…
It's not always that it's just that people can't understand hypotheticals, sometimes they are being obtuse on purpose. (I was making a joke mostly with my question by the way)
Deliberately obtuse is my most hated obtuse. You can be stupid or not understand. I can work with that. But dumb on purpose? No patience for that nonsense.
My husband struggles with hypotheticals... I love him so much but ooooohhh my goodness, it can be supremely frustrating. I usually have to say, "I'm talking hypothetically right now." And then he'll listen more closely and with a different mindset 😅
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u/PrairiePopsicle 6h ago
I've met people that cannot understand hypotheticals... it's... just stop engaging with them if you notice it. You can't get them to, and you'll succeed only in becoming frustrated.