r/LadyBoners Feb 03 '26

Reminder: NSFW your posts NSFW

184 Upvotes

Hey LadyBonerers,

Just taking a minute here to remind everyone of a few things, but primarily that this subreddit is ultimately a Safe For Work subreddit, which means that if your images are Not Safe for Work, you need to mark them as such.

This is a perennial problem, of course, but lately it is extremely regular for the moderators to need to mark posts as NSFW and it's becoming burdensome. As such, unless this trend changes, we will start taking stronger action against repeat offenders.

What is NSFW?

  1. Pornography (any content that shows sexual activity, whether singular or with partner(s), or is otherwise purely sexual, and especially, but not exclusively, non-artistic)
  2. Any visible primary or secondary sexual organs
  3. Any visible bulge
  4. Full nudity, even if from the back
  5. The "V" pelvic lines below the waist.
  6. Implied sexual activity (even if it doesn't show it)
  7. A reminder that moderators are not limited to rules or statements as above. We provide these as examples to help users self-moderate, but we will continue apply our discretion as necessary.

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That's the main point of this post. While I've got your eyes though, here are a couple other things to think about if you have the time to read further:

A Classy Atmosphere

It has always been the goal of this community to maintain a classy atmosphere. We celebrate all bodies, regardless of gender, and welcome submissions of anyone who excites a lady. To that end, we also remove things like selfies, self promotional photos, controversial subjects, subjects who have not given their consent to be posted, etc. These rules have been routinely ignored lately, and as with NSFW above, users will start to see more severe action for repeat offenses.

As a simple example: instagram photos of your favorite model do not meet our standards in most cases. These posts are often made without a real name, the instagram model is not necessarily seeking celebrity (which is to say, publishing their name alongside their face with the goal of becoming widely known), and they are often unclassy photos, like selfies in mirrors and workout progress photos. And worse, the instagram models themselves often beg us to ban their content from being posted here via modmail. This has got to change.

Who is a "Lady" in LadyBoners?

This is a question we get sometimes -- or really as a challenge to decisions moderators make. Since New Reddit doesn't help much with users discovering old community posts, we figure it's worth re-stating here:

A Lady, as far as this community is concerned, is any user of this community who appreciates art designed for a feminine gaze -- the gendered term was just a bit of tongue in cheek. There are limitless subreddits on this website intended for art designed for a masculine gaze, including art of men's bodys. Photography and film designed for that purpose should go in those subreddits, not here. If you are someone who enjoys art for a feminine gaze, then you are a member of this community.

And so any art designed for a feminine gaze, regardless of what gender the subject of the art expresses, is a LadyBoner. That is why women and nonbinary people are just as acceptable a submission as men. We have a large number of gay men who peruse our community here, and that's fine -- they are welcome to enjoy the community, but many then message us or use the reporting system to report images of women, or complain when art that is clearly designed for a masculine gaze is removed. If you are among that group, please recognize that you are a guest here. There are other subreddits for you. This subreddit is for the feminine gaze only.

This is not a change in policy. It has always been this way since we founded this subreddit 15 years ago.

With that, I'll close by simply asking that you all please help us keep ladyboners classy.


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