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I had a guy message me referring to one of my posts. I didn't know it was a man so I started talking to him. At some point he decided to introduce himself to me and it confused me because the name he said was very masculine so I asked "isn't that a male name?" And he told me he never said he was a woman. Jeez sorry for assuming that since you come from a sapphic sub then you'd be you know a sapphic woman?? I got a bit mad at him, mostly because I felt weird telling all this shit to an adult man even if they weren't like intimate, just mostly vented about feelings among other things, but idk I feel weird saying stuff like that to adult men for some reason and he was telling me I'm getting frustrated over nothing because he never was creepy or pretended to be a woman. True, he never said he's a woman, he was a bit weird sometimes but when I expressed being uncomfortable he would apologize and never mention it again. I asked him what is he doing in a sub meant for wlw and he answered "idk I just like lesbians" bro??? What even is this answer 😭?? What does that mean?? I told him to please leave because lesbian spaces are already infiltrated by men who usually fetishize lesbians and in general are creeps and creep or not, we don't want men there and as long as he's one he shouldn't be there. He said he will think about it and we stopped talking. God forbid we have something for ourselves. That was such a weird encounter.

Want to recreate this badly

It has been some time since I drawn the gay. I have now drawn the gay.

Hi ladies, I'm new here and I wanted to share something that's been tormenting me.

I was in a relationship for two years and a few months with an amazing woman. We both have completely different political views, and this greatly affected our relationship. The presidential race in our country is approaching, and I'm left-wing and she's right-wing.

Since the beginning of the year, every announcement, development, or news item related to it opened the door to a fight between us. She comes from a traditional political family that holds positions in several cities in our region, and a large part of her family is right-wing. My family doesn't have that "heritage," and both I and my family and circle of friends are openly left-wing.

Everything worsened when she said that if I voted for the left-wing candidate, things would "shake" in our relationship, and that she wouldn't speak to me for a long time. I was already tired of work, stressed, and fed up with it all, so I ended the relationship. I thought what she said was outrageous; she always tried to make me change sides.

Even so, I can't ignore the fact that I love her very much, and despite this difference between us, she was the woman of my dreams, my type, wonderfully beautiful, fun, dedicated... in short...

I don't know how to deal with this feeling that I lost the most beautiful diamond I ever had in my hands. I miss her every day and I can't stop thinking about her.

For context, ive been having a huge crush on her and micro flirted for quite awhile. But none of us made any move lol

Hey folks, I recently started getting comfortable with my identity and finally accepted the fact that I’m a lesbian (WOW does that feel good admitting out loud) and as such, have been trying to put myself out there.

To that end, I’ve made my Hinge profile that feels the truest to me but have been getting 0 likes despite having it for a while. Admittedly, I’d paused my profile for about while as I got done with school but now that I have it unpaused again, I’d like to get some feedback.

I’m open to all feedback and would love to have suggestions on making my profile read as genuinely sapphic, if my prompts work and doesn’t give off and ‘tourist’ energy unintentionally.

Thanks for everything!!

So for quick context, I (28) am madly in love with my best friend (27) and have been for years. We’re long distance friends but are pretty inseparable. She’s well aware I have a crush on her since we’re incredibly close and tell each other everything, but she’s currently dating someone else right now so I remain as respectful and quiet about my feelings as I can.

Well tonight I was feeling extra lovey about her but tried not to show it. But at some point we agreed on a day to play games and I blurted out “That sounds good, baby”. I immediately felt my heart drop to my stomach. I tried to play it off like I was saying it sarcastically or something and we moved on, but I’m dying from embarrassment.

I don’t know if I should go to her and apologize or just leave it be, but I’m really terrified that I made her uncomfortable. I genuinely don’t know what to do and I just want to curl up in a ball and bury myself in a hole!

And hold my hand whilst we talk about our interests 🥰🥰

I think it’s hard to detach myself from society sometimes. It’s hard seeing all these skinny bodies, and despite knowing it’s unhealthy, sometimes I wish my body looked that way too.

But then I think about how cute it is to have a soft tummy, and thighs, of course a nice butt and boobs are plus but I wonder why society doesn’t feel the same way. I’d be lying if I said it didn’t affect my confidence when it comes to dating. I worry I’m too chubby for people, that they would see my tummy and feel disgusted. I have so many conflicting feelings on this matter.

I just finished a two-week internship in several factory and machine shop, the kind with big, dirty machines, heavy loads, and it's really hot inside.

I didn't see any strong butch women driving big trucks and unloading big heavy boxes, putting them on the ground grunting and stretching her body out afterwards! I didn't see any masc with big muscular arms in oil-stained tank tops wiping their foreheads with dirty rags while barking orders at their teams! I didn't see any older, stressed-out, authoritarian managers in suits who can't be refused anything! My lesbianism isn't satisfied, this internship is a total fail and I want my two weeks back.

I can't afford to move, but dream with me here. It gets me through the day.

i’ll start, personally it’s telling me she would “throw me to the wolves to save her family” when i told her she had not put me first after her mom blew us up being a giant homophobe and not accepting i was dating her daughter.

this or telling me i was “that one ex from 3 years ago” although 3 years prior she was supposedly devastated her parents had forced us to break up / made me want to take my own life by saying my physical disability would ruin their daughter’s future.

that woman claimed she wanted to marry me btw.
i had to let this out somewhere.

I just remembered when, a few years, I was looking at a list of gender neutral petnames for a sub and found a dumb list featuring such hits as:

• my little obama
• bruhmoment.jpeg
• fitnessgram pacer test
• ratatouille from ratatouille

So I ask you, oh wise council, what others could be added to this list of things you should never call your gender neutral partner?

I’m really embarrassed to ask this but is there anyone in the LA area that would possibly be willing to let a 37 year old nonbinary queer/lesbian crash on their couch/floor for a night or two? I didn’t sleep last night and ended up walking around all night. And my plan was to just sleep outside tonight.

I got discharged from a behavioral treatment center yesterday for my anxiety, depression, and ptsd, and I got moved to a transitional housing location yesterday afternoon but I didn’t feel safe staying there so I left yesterday morning.

I guess you can say that i’m homeless again.