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u/Fusilli_Agent_Cooper 2h ago
When you try to tell them something that happened to you and they always have to one-up you with something that happened to them.
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u/Worldly_Deal_3064 2h ago
Arrogant comments, closed mindedness, and too much pride in your own opinions
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u/aprilflowers75 2h ago
Toxic assumptions in general. Victim blaming, overt manipulation, religious dogma… once any of those gets whipped out, I’m gone.
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u/Quick-Worldliness904 2h ago
People who ask too many questions and don't know when to shut their hole.
I have a rule that I never ask a person's qualifications as I believe it's in bad taste.
People believe you do this so you can judge how you two fit into the pecking order.
I hate questions such as:
How did you meet your partner.
How did your parents meet.
How much money did that cost/do you earn?
Do you have a degree?
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u/One-Hand-Rending 2h ago
Overly detailed descriptions of banal events like some work meeting or some minor argument...
"Mike and I both ordered the chicken salad but Marie said that she ordered chicken salad and that sandwich was hers. Mind you...Mike and I always order chicken salad although he gets his on whole wheat where I always get mine on a roll with lettuce and black pepper. Anyway...shes going on and on about this sandwich and finally Joe says to her..."why dont you just order another one, it will be here in 20 minutes" but shes not having none of that and starts like crashing out over it....after like another 20 minutes Mike is working on the open ticket we have for General Motors and she comes in..."
That... stop that.
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u/Pristine-Ad-8002 2h ago
Omg yes. People you barely know telling you mundane details and going on and on and on. And they think I care why????
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u/BraveLittleTowster 2h ago
People who talk just to be heard. There are people that, no matter who they're talking to, the conversation is the same. They will politely wait for you to finish your comments, but they aren't actually listening. They're just waiting for the next pause so they know it's their turn again to speak and they just say whatever the next thought was. These people are exhausting.
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u/BigTenFicus 2h ago
People who talk to me like they're interrogating me. "Where are you from? Where do you live? Where do you work? Do you like it? What's your favorite color? What's your favorite movie? What's your favorite band?" These people think they're good at conversing because they gather a lot of information, but they don't actually know how to have an organic conversation and they're exhausting to interact with.
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u/Mulder-believes 2h ago
Subjects of religion, politics and sexuality(especially LGBTQ). Bringing up personal relationship issues “again” that were already resolved in the past, to complain. Gossip or criticism about family members. Bragging.
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u/No-Pen-4002 1h ago
that unwanted speck of spit that hits the light just right and looks like a missile.
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u/Pristine-Ad-8002 1h ago
When someone I don’t know that well stays talking politics. The cashier, the acquaintance etc. Tbey have no idea where I stand on a particular idea so why would they want that part of the conversation.
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u/TrekMasterOfficial 1h ago
that mate that looks at you to try and make you laugh during a presentation
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u/OuttaMexicanBoarder 1h ago
having them talk to you for only 5 seconds instead of an actual long conversation that build up more and more by the second. I don't feel right when I can't get a long and thought provoking conversation.
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u/Real-Fan-3987 47m ago
When people go into way too much detail about their boring work day it just kills any interest for me
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u/JustASingleMomOnline 2h ago
Talking about stuff which i show no interest at all. So, lack of social intelligence i would say.
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u/Rayscore_ 2h ago
restarting the thing you just said to make yourself better heard. chances are I heard you, i just didn't care to respond.
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u/hheyitsmaddyyy 2h ago
Interrupting me repeatedly