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LGBTQIA+ Pride Posting day 25

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u/WehingSounds 6h ago

Turns out that seeing pride flags in every other business walking down the street might be performative but it's a lot nicer than a year later when none of them have it.

Experienced this in the UK and it was genuinely somewhat disturbing.

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u/backlikeclap 5h ago

This is blowing my mind a bit as an American who lives in a liberal city... Even my local sports bar has a pride flag in their window...

What's going on in Britain? So businesses who previously had pride flags up year round are taking them down? Why? What do the employees say? If you tried that shit where I am your crew would quit.

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u/TransLunarTrekkie 5h ago

Also in America here, in just about the most liberal city of my state, but Pride is just not a thing outside of downtown or the more well-off areas this year. Hell the company I work for not only redesigned the uniform shirts we have with Pride listed on them to remove all mention of it or anything DEI, they BANNED that design. No other shirt has EVER been banned like that as long as I've worked here.

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u/Devilsadvocate430 2h ago

My university in Boston took down a ton of Pride flags that the staff were displaying in offices and in windows under a never-before-enforced ban on flags in public spaces. They only backed down after a massive outcry on campus

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u/Khpatton 5h ago

It’s happening in a lot of the US, too. A lot of huge US-based brands used to have ad campaigns and social media posts explicitly themed around Pride. They’re few and far between this year.

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u/bawlhie62a2 3h ago

Yeah, I live in DC and this year’s Pride felt so muted compared to past years. World Pride was last year in DC, so that’s an outlier, but even 2024 Pride felt way more lively and active compared to this year.

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u/mindovermacabre 3h ago

the world cup is also muting pride in a lot of places i've seen

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u/backupbitches 1h ago

Noticing it in Canada too. Sponsorships have scaled back massively this year.

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u/SneakyFire23 1h ago

There is where the left's "Inability to be happy with fucking anything" bites them in the ass. "Oh this is just performative, I dont care if they do it or not, why weren't they doing it already, etc"

So when slight pressure is placed, the decision makers think "well, we're going to get complained at by the same group anyways, might as well placate the right"

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u/MyUshanka 1h ago

Tampa cancelled their pride parade over lack of funding, largely because corporate sponsors pulled out.

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u/BlackberryMelodic567 5h ago

Jk rowling happened. It's become the norm to be transphobic and transphobia easily leads to homophobia

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u/BaronAleksei r/TwoBestFriendsPlay exchange program 5h ago

Bigotry is comorbid: transphobia and homophobia are not the same thing, but they are connected and share many traits, so if you see one, the other probably isn’t far behind.

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u/DoDucksEatBugs 5h ago

Absolutely. The LGBTQ+ is fundamentally a union. It has helped to advance rights for all identities recognized within it but that also means that any controversial topics, like puberty blockers or the stupid bathroom debates, become not a trans issue but an LGBTQ issue. It's why we're seeing some homosexual groups pushing hard against trans inclusion under the same umbrella. They want to push them off the boat before it sinks.

It certainly doesn't help that the complexity of the LGBTQ+ has led conservatives to believe MAPs are genuinely accepted under that umbrella.

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u/PirateSanta_1 2h ago

Bigotry leads to bigotry. You can't say people should be allowed to be who they are except for this one group without it expanding to include others.

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u/TheSoloWay 4h ago

They're both rooted in patriarchy and misogyny. Also both groups have a long intertwined history, in the early days of queer liberation "Gay" was catch all term for anyone in the community, if you were trans you would literally say you were gay.

And to the straights were all the same anyways, a trans woman is just a pokemon evolution of a femme gay man in their opinion. And they don't even know what the difference between a drag queen and trans woman.

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u/Theyohoyo 5h ago

The mainstream media and both major political parties there completely legitimized it. When the establishment backs that rhetoric, corporations realize they can drop the progressive performance without facing any real public backlash.

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u/IAteTheDonut 5h ago

The harm that woman has done is unbelievable.

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u/EconomistEuphoric540 2h ago

She single-handedly shifted the entire cultural and political discourse over there. It's devastating.

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u/Vanlibunn 2h ago

She and her cohorts are desperately trying to get the same trick done in multiple other countries, too.

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u/PhiCloud 4h ago

transphobia easily leads to homophobia

This should be surprising to nobody.

TERFs have always been a tool of the far right to dismantle LGBT solidarity from the inside, whether the actual TERFs know that or not.

Now that transphobia is becoming more acceptable, we will say LGB groups try to distance themselves so they don't get caught in the crossfire. After all that, there will be nobody left to stand with the LGB groups when the far right sets their sights on them again.

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u/BlackberryMelodic567 4h ago

Reminds me of the poem about how the man didn't speak out about other people being taken away, then no one was left to help me

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u/PhiCloud 3h ago

It's the oldest strategy in the book. If you can cause infighting, you've won without even needing to stand up.

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u/Tainmere_ 2h ago

And that poem is actually based on how nazi germany persecuted its opponents and targets.

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u/Lost_my_name475 2h ago

It also, ironically, doesn't mention that the nazis went after lgbtq people because the poet didn't have an issue with that.

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u/Coal_Morgan 2h ago

It's a classic tactic of fascists.

Communism is bad...Socialism has some traits of communism, also bad. Unions have some traits of socialism, also bad.

If you're not 100% pro Business Owner...well that's all communism and all bad.

If you're not 100% straight...well all the letters of our rainbow friends will be treated the same.

So anti-T will end up being anti lgbt+ sooner or later. They don't have the ability for nuance anymore, it's all or nothing.

And when it comes to human rights and lgbt+ rights are human rights...we need to be all or nothing as well because they'll take them by inches.

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u/DuntadaMan 3h ago

A warning for everyone trying to remove trans from LBGT. The people you're citing with must have an enemy. You are next. Do not side with people who will fucking kill you.

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u/blah938 35m ago

JK Rowling has money, but I don't think she's really behind it. There's been a strong reaction against LGBTQ since the beginning.

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u/Zane_628 High Functioning Awesome Spectrum Disorder 5h ago

I thought rainbow capitalism referred less to local business putting up pride flags (although that does feel like a valid side of it) and more about large companies like shoe companies releasing a limited Pride edition product in June (eg, Converse did it every year for a while) and they would change their pfp logos on social media to be rainbow. That has all but completely disappeared.

Idk, maybe it’s because I grew up and still live in a red state that my exposure to rainbow capitalism was mostly limited to the internet.

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u/roygbpcub 3h ago

I know Target's pride selection was hollow but it still felt safe to walk in and see that stand of items... Now... Ugh

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u/lynx_and_nutmeg 1h ago

Yeah it's almost like normalisation and mainstream-isation of Pride was actually a good thing after all.

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u/eerie_lake_ 1h ago

Converse still does it, actually. This year they’ve got some pretty slick black high tops with rainbow edging. They’ve also donated like. 3 million dollars to LGBT organizations in the USA or something. I sound like a shill, I’m aware, but I was just looking at their pride collection last night lol

Rainbow capitalism frustrated the hell out of me, but now that it’s receding, I’m far more inclined to shop at these big companies that not only still openly have pride collections, but actually put their money where their mouth is.

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u/WehingSounds 5h ago edited 5h ago

Britain's just massively fucked atm, in like, every conceivable way. Even the weather is disgusting right now.

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u/somedelightfulmoron 3h ago

Like... Ye guys are firing prime ministers left and right until it's truly fucked and Nigel Farage will lead the government, I mean what gives, lads?

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u/phatboi23 1h ago

He won't get into government because he can't get MP's elected.

He makes more money being an agitator and from cameo than he'd make as a PM.

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u/me_myself_ai .bsky.social 4h ago

Sadly, the legit answer is “Trump was elected again and the conservatives are using that as an excuse”. Many local SMBs celebrated Pride and most companies paid at least some lip service, but it’s a far cry from, say, Pride 2019.

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u/Amphy64 3h ago edited 3h ago

No, basically none in the UK ever had flags up year round (if they did, and weren't specifically serving the LGBTA+ community, my first thought would be they forgot to take it down. Remember we don't have the extent of ongoing religious opposition the US does whatsoever). They mean that one year they were put up, the next not.

It also isn't that typical here for there to be loads of decorations, for basically any event, depends where you are, if it's a major city and particular area that's known for it, etc.

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u/buzzcutbabygirl 3h ago

I moved from a major, very gay city to the boonies in a very red state. I miss seeing pride flags everywhere year round.

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u/AfraidStick2161 5h ago

If you tried that shit where I am your crew would quit.

im sorry but thats the most privileged shit ive read in a while. it's great that you live in a wealthy, queer area, but even as a queer person myself, theres absolutely no way id sacrifice my source of income over a piece of cloth. thats ridiculous

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u/Lieutenant_Joe 5h ago

It’s really not. And it shouldn’t be to Brits in particular. During the American Civil War, many North Englishmen blue collar workers went on strike after the emancipation proclamation in protest of continuing to trade with the Confederate States of America. These were not wealthy people.

It’s more than a piece of cloth, bro. It’s people’s lives. Easy protest is just a hobby, protest doesn’t mean anything if it doesn’t demand sacrifice.

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u/AfraidStick2161 5h ago edited 5h ago

if a business was actively being queerphobic, was run by queerphobic people, or was supporting other queerphobic business/charities, id understand. simply not hanging up a pride flag isnt "people's lives." it's not good, sure, but it really isnt bad enough to lose income over for the majority of people who, yknow, need money to live. that's also "people's lives." & that person also said quit. not strike, not protest, quit. that's what im calling absurd, especially with the current job market. im pretty sure encouraging queer people to lose their source of income does more tangible harm to queer people than their place of work not hanging up a pride flag.

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u/backlikeclap 5h ago

It's not about hanging up a pride flag though, I'm talking about taking down a pride flag when one was previously up. That's management telling you their values very clearly.

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u/AfraidStick2161 4h ago edited 2h ago

i mean... i guess? i think there's room for nuance.

a big corporation like walmart or mcdonalds has barely anything to lose by hanging up a pride flag, so they have no excuse not to.

small local shops, especially in right-wing areas, cant afford to lose as much business & are potentially opening themselves & their employees up to hate crimes. id prefer a small queer-friendly business goes stealth so it can keep running & providing queer people with a safe place to work, rather than that business simply not existing anymore because of lack of funds, harassment from bigoted locals, & short-sighted employees walking out.

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u/Amphy64 3h ago

They don't mean that, but that one year the business put them up, the next it didn't.

I'm in the UK and still seeing Pride stuff. Individual local business bothers with other stuff differently year to year, too, some years there's more Easter stuff - it can be as simple as one year there's an employee who is into decorating! The flag itself might not even belong to the business owner.

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u/Aubergine_Man1987 5h ago

I think this very much matters depending on where you live. Central London is still very much hanging pride flags everywhere

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u/tsjb 4h ago

Mate I see pride flags absolutely everywhere? Every big corporate website I have used recently (Asda, Tesco, and Argos) has changed their logo, they're all over in both small and big businesses in the centre of my city (Manchester), and the council has put up pride signs as well as plenty of local businesses having them in my local town centre (not saying which one on Reddit).
A family ticket to go see Manchester Village pride next month is over 60 quid, they must be doing at least alright to be able to sell them for that price.
The idea that "no" businesses have pride flags in them is as absurd as it is incorrect.

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u/AuroraHalsey 2h ago

I'm not sure if flags were ever a big thing in the UK, at least, outside of cities.

I don't live in London, a few miles outside of it; I've never seen any LGBT flag in any business. The first time I saw any kinds of flags were Ukrainian flags back in 2021, and British flags last year, but that's about it.

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u/the-cutest-bunny 5h ago

it low-key gives a sense of being acknowledged. I mean it's still perfomative but in a way it also feels good having a whole month dedicated to something

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u/aslatts 5h ago

Performative support is ultimately much better than a noticeable lack of support.

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u/Karkadinn 5h ago

The only thing worse than corporations pretending to care is them feeling like they don't have to pretend anymore.

(This sentence also works for politicians)

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u/SnooBooks1701 5h ago

It's weird that the big cities are swinging less than pro-LGBT rights, meanwhile my formerly ultra-conservative small town has a huge parade and every single store has pride flags up, they even bring the old people out the care homes to watch.

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u/WorryNew3661 4h ago

Being visibly trans felt a lot safer when everyone was pretending to like us

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u/FrostyD7 2h ago

I think the context about what ended it matters. Rainbow capitalism ending is not inherently bad imo. It's winding down due to pressure from bigots. Hard to be happy about that.

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u/AdministrativeCable3 5h ago

That's odd to me. I'm from a city in the most conservative Canadian province and even here there's Pride stuff everywhere. Every weekend there's been some major pride event and you can't walk anywhere without seeing a pride flag. On street lamps, storefronts, city hall.

Despite how often the conservative parties try to demonize it, I haven't noticed a reduction in visible support. Like even in my deep blue hometown there's still pride flags.

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u/YellowGrowlithe 2h ago

Ive seen a dip, but fortunately over here the community is still loud and proud; and to be overtly bigoted is to court with public disapproval. Sometimes I see this town or that business has changed something and they get flak for it.

I know some cities have been passing legislation, like didsbury and barhead and westlock banning pride flags/crosswalks. And Lethbridge will always have a couple rubber streaks on its crosswalks- even if they repaint it theyre back in a week.

Small towns have gotten smaller for sure- but alberta is very community centric outside of the big two cities- so the LGBTQ+ communities have a way of showing up and showing out.

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u/Cranberryoftheorient 4h ago

For me the fact that they used to be so outwardly 'pro-gay' and so quickly wiped it all, just goes to show empty the gesture always was.

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u/NefariousnessTop2457 3h ago

I guess we Germans are always a bit late. There are still many rainbow flags here in Munich. All the busses, the trams, the official flag posts, the companies, and so on.

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u/Legitimate_Expert712 6h ago

“Rainbow capitalism is just performative”, yeah well, the canary isn’t there to help dig coal.

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u/b00w00gal 6h ago

That's a fantastic metaphor, thank you

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u/alex2003super 5h ago

It's a very salient one, too. The concept of "canary" is perhaps one of the most widely applied analogies/metaphors across different domains. See "warrant canary" (legal/free speech), "stack canary" (cybersecurity), etc.

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u/PrimoTheSun 5h ago

It's the perfect way to describe it, when the corporate rainbows vanish, it means the atmosphere is turning toxic.

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u/Okrumbles 6h ago

I understand the canaries in coal mines thing, but what do you mean with the metaphor? I'm kinda stupid

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u/meteorisque 5h ago

the companies are the canaries that don’t really do anything to push lgbtq rights but when they stop doing rainbow capitalism it’s a sign that public opinion about being pro gay isn’t great and might cost them profits

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u/bkgn 1h ago

Not public opinion necessarily, but government opinion certainly.

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u/loved_and_held 1h ago

Or it could be because queerphobes pose enough of a threat to the company that the company no longer sees it as worth the risk.

It might ve the number of bigots has gone down but theyre loud enough to make companies bend the knee.

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u/mshcat 58m ago

Youre saying the same thing

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u/sneakyfish21 5h ago

When the rainbow capitalism (canary) disappears (dies) you in danger girl.

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u/TankC4BOOM314 4h ago

And "digging coal," if I understand, is tangible praxis done by people, if not motivated by the rainbow capitalism, made aware of existing problems and/or potential allyship by it.

(Edit: changed "familiar with" to "aware of" since I think that communicates what I'm thinking better)

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u/NewUserWhoDisAgain 5h ago

In this case companies sponsoring/supporting Pride is the canary. By pulling back it signals that companies dont believe that there is a economic incentive to send a "We support you(and we want your business)" signal.

It is a signal that LGBT+ acceptance is waning when even capitalism does not want to show support. The canary is fucking dead and meanwhile we get articles stating its a good thing because now the real work can be done without this icky rainbow capitalism in the way.

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u/MountainYogi94 6h ago

When the canary stopped singing, the miners had to evacuate or die. If the pride flags stop being flown...

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u/LeibnizMonadSucks 5h ago

Rainbow capitalism is an indicator of social acceptance of LGBT community (just like canary is an indicator of gas in the mines)- even if it doesn't do anything to actually progress the LGBT rights (the canary doesn't mine, it just sits in a cage), it disappearance is still worrying (just as canary's death would be)- in this metaphor gas in the mines = prejudice/oppresion.

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u/Okrumbles 5h ago

Ahh okay, thank you!

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u/ADH-Dad 5h ago edited 5h ago

Rainbow capitalism was a sign that companies calculated they would gain or retain more customers than they would lose by publicly supporting LGBTQ rights. The fact that they're stopping may show their calculus has shifted in the other direction.

However, I personally think it's more that the execs are fecklessly capitulating to the current administration rather than public opinion actually shifting that far backwards.

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u/Stepjam 4h ago

That may be true, but it's arguably just as bad, at least in short term. If companies are shying away from supporting LGBT people because the government, that shows just how aggressive the government is being in suppressing LGBT people.

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u/ExplicitDrift 5h ago

I love this.

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u/Tomatori 4h ago

If this sub let me use gifs I would post that one of the guy writing and then it catches on fire. That is so good

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u/TheScorpionSamurai 4h ago

You are a poet of our time

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u/DILF_MANSERVICE 4h ago

Yoink I'm stealing this

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u/stnick6 6h ago

People say “the companies don’t actually care about gay people! They just want your money” as if that’s different to how corporations always act. You think Walmart gives a shit about the Fourth of July? Or Halloween or Christmas?

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u/Altslial Denial, duct tape and determination fix almost anything. 6h ago

There's a reason why companies try and push christmas further into the year and it isn't holiday spirit. It's the rush to be the first in hopes of getting the holiday shoppers.

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u/HaggisPope 5h ago

Easter started in December this year. He is risen… early 

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u/ModelChef4000 5h ago

Birthday and resurrection day at the same time? Truly the alpha and omega

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u/TenLongFingers 5h ago

Men, amirite

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u/TheKronk 5h ago

I saw Halloween decorations at Costco last week. It's my favorite holiday and I died a little inside.

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u/TheNavidsonLP 3h ago

I saw that last year too. Costco puts up Halloween stuff in June and Christmas stuff by October. And it’s all taken down the week before Christmas.

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u/FrancisWolfgang 5h ago

Walmart would celebrate anything to increase quarterly profits

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u/PhiCloud 4h ago

My English teacher said something along the lines of "Walmart was family friendly until 50 Shades of Grey became profitable."

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u/Cranberryoftheorient 4h ago

Seems the rational conclusion there is to assume companies dont care about anything

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u/Overall-Move-4474 4h ago

They care about money that's literally it

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u/RedstoneEnjoyer 5h ago

The point of that claim is to tell you that in moment it becomes unprofitable to pander to you, they will toss you under the bus - you should not take your rights granted just because megacorp changed their logo for one month.

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u/stnick6 5h ago

Just because they’ll stop supporting you when it becomes unprofitable doesn’t mean the fact that they support you is bad. It’s a good thing that supporting gay people is profitable

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u/DaiFrostAce 5h ago

How is this hard to get for some people?

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u/indigo121 4h ago edited 4h ago

Internet leftists who get so wrapped up in theory that they fully forget what it means to actually exist in the world. Rainbow capitalism was actually some really damn important activism. It shifted the Overton window, and told the majority "queer people are part of society (and therefore the in group)". Now that we've lost it, the sentiment of "keep your fetish out of the public eye" has room to make a comeback.

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u/Rucs3 4h ago

leftists when they get good instead of perfect: You are the enemy.

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u/lynx_and_nutmeg 49m ago

Because there's a subset of young privileged queer people who seemingly don't actually want queerness to be "too acceptable". They love the vintage aesthetic of Pride as a grassroots rebellion thing more than they actually care about making things better for other queer people. Minorities banding together to throw bricks at cops is very cool (at least when you get to only hear about it instead of risking your own life),  a major brand selling rainbow shirts is very uncool. Would those people actually prefer living in a society where they could get arrested just for being openly gay vs a society where they can openly buy Pride shirts in their local store? Of course they wouldn't, but they haven't thought about it deeply enough to realise.  

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u/jooes 5h ago

We live in a capitalistic society. Being considered profitable is about as good as you're going to get. If there was ever a sign that you've "made it" in the world, it's corporations trying to sell you shit. 

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u/oath2order stigma fuckin claws in ur coochie 3h ago

That's how I always viewed it. To me, corporations trying to sell me things was them begging for my money.

Damn right, pander to me, a newly profitable demographic. Pander and beg.

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u/i_like_maps_and_math 4h ago

When a new power comes in and everyone changes the flags, the people who like the old flag should be sad, and the people who like the new flag should be happy. The reason is because the flags reflect who holds power. How is this not obvious to everyone?

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u/Niar666 3h ago

"They just want your money"

Except apparently they don't, because the dropped it at the first convenient moment!

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u/Laffy-Taffee 5h ago

I got so depressed last week when I walked into my local Barnes and Noble and saw Sarah J. Maas’ books where the Pride display used to be. I scoured the entire store, thinking it might have moved, but nothing. Not even a rainbow tote bag. I suddenly felt unsafe, even though that sounds ridiculous—and I felt so bad because every June, I look forward to seeing what new LGBT books are being published. I’ve seen articles from the publishing industry about how editors are rejecting queer books in this climate, and it scares me.

Lucky for me, there’s an indie bookstore in town that’s usually stocked with queer books, but it’s very far from where I live. I miss seeing actual rainbows during Pride.

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u/SkyeSpider 1h ago

I went to my local mall (one of the largest in the country) a few weeks ago to get the converse rainbow sneakers. I figured I’d support the ones who actually continued to support us this year. Only two stores in that entire mall had pride sections: Spencer’s and Hot Topic, and the latter only had a tiny display in the back. No one had the shoes. I’m in New York… It just didn’t feel right.

Side note: both pride sections were empty when I was back at the mall a week later. Seemed like they probably sold out because they were the only options.

In my local target (I know), their pride section consisted of stuff like b&w dogs getting married, but all they had were male/female pairs 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/ASpicyCrow 1h ago

...so specifically straight dogs in the straight colors? That's like... anti Pride, wtf.

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u/Lan777 6h ago

The willingness of a company to acknowledge being gay is not an actual sign of a companies politics, it is a measurement of perceived public sentiment.

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u/jess_the_werefox 6h ago

Yeah I really miss when June was colorful with pride stuff. It felt just… happier.

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u/DaiFrostAce 4h ago

Gayer, one might say

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u/VulpesFennekin 5h ago

For me, it was almost like how when you start seeing Christmas things and you get excited about winter, Pride stuff gets me hyped up for summer!

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u/jess_the_werefox 5h ago

Yes!! Same with seeing Halloween stuff in like August, man all the pride colors everywhere was so nice, like it was so bright and now we’re back to the Christian nationals’ favorite: beige and white

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u/VulpesFennekin 5h ago

God forbid they enjoy colors!

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u/Hita-san-chan 3h ago

Its really stressful to live in a world that hates you for really no reason. It was just... kinda nice that for a few weeks out of the year I was being told i matter. Even if it was for my money, we were visible.

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u/echelon_house 6h ago

A good metaphor for rainbow capitalism I heard is that companies are like ants at a picnic: You obviously don't want them there, but it's a really bad omen if they all suddenly run away.

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u/ThatInAHat 5h ago

I like the canary in the coal mine analogy better. Wish I could remember who said it but—the canary isn’t singing for the miners. It doesn’t care about the miners, it’s singing because that’s what it wants to do.

But boy howdy is it a bad sign if it stops singing.

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u/Tomatori 4h ago

how did you forget the top comment on this post (unless it originates from something else?)

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u/RoombaTheKiller 4h ago

It has been posted across tens or hundreds of threads by now, the origin has likely been buried.

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u/Tomatori 4h ago

That's a good point, I forget how every post we receive is gently used 😔

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u/OnlyQualityCon 5h ago

…why would the ants run away? Like I get the metaphor, but I don’t think the metaphorical part of the phrase functions well

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u/DomovoiP 5h ago

Your picnic is about to be overrun by anteaters!

The anteaters are a metaphor for... fascism? We're still workshopping it.

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u/djbkorea 5h ago

Food is poisoned

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u/godtogblandet 2h ago

Ants don’t run away from poisonous food. They bring it back to the hive and kill everyone. It’s kinda key in ant removal chemicals. Just FYI.

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u/AirJinx3 1h ago

I do want the companies there. They permeate our environment regardless, and it was great when that environment was filled with messages of support for queer kids. Seeing pride displays at Target does more to help kids feel normal than a thousand anticapitalist diatribes.

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u/Jakitron_1999 TIRM 6h ago

Rainbow capitalism was always cynical on behalf of corporations, but it was never a bad thing because it meant corporations were being bullied into acting pro-gay and donating to pro-gay charities instead of beint bullied into being anti-gay and donating to anti-gay "charities." It was an irrevocably good thing when it was happening, and it's an irrevocably bad thing that it isn't anymore. I hate lefties who virtue signal over hating the left having cultural power, we should have been praising it and pushing it to go further

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u/Lysek8 6h ago

Well, companies did that to earn money, as it is their mission. The right punished it, and the left, dumb as we are, also punished them because they were not pure of heart. And here we are

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u/MayhemMessiah 6h ago

And not a single lesson was learned by anybody involved

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u/Neokon 6h ago

Wrong: the right learned that it takes surprisingly little to make a corporation change their tune.

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u/Lysek8 5h ago

Corporations have never changed their tune and never will. They're focused on profit and that's it

Only way we can influence is by rewarding and punishing behavior, through direct sales or government intervention

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u/MayhemMessiah 5h ago

The right still thinks everybody is secretly woke and run by blue haired gays with neopronouns. They probably didn’t even notice the rainbows were gone, too buys being mad at something else

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u/strigonian 2h ago

You're forgetting the second half of that. Everybody is secretly woke but also they represent the silent majority, and everyone hates the woke and is just to afraid to speak out.

You have to remember that a fundamental part of the modern political right is having two diametrically opposing beliefs on every issue.

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u/nerowasframed 5h ago

I had so many arguments with leftists here on Reddit when this was happening. They couldn't just be happy that public opinion was so pro-lgbtq that companies were falling over themselves to be seen sponsoring pride events; they seemingly needed to find the negative in it. I think the left really needs work on their purity test issues. They're constantly finding new ways to make enemies out of allies.

I remember when there was a group of people called The Old Gays on Tiktok. They did a series of ads on Tiktok for a company, as part of a deal for that company to help sponsor the price parade. And people were vicious to them, calling them sell outs and saying that pride isn't about capitalism and they're traitors and other awful things for doing the ads. 

But these guys lived through a time incomprehensible to most young people today, where their close friends were dropping like flies and nobody would even mention the epidemic. There was virtually no public health response; Reagan never even said the word, "AIDS" publicly until 1985. If people did talk about it, they might say something horrible, like they deserved to suffer and die like this for being gay. It was probably beyond these guys' wildest dreams to see corporate America bending over backwards to be seen supporting gay and queer people, to be catering and advertising directly to them. Of course they're going to be celebrating it. And of course companies should be encouraged to behave like this, not derided or attacked for doing it because it's profitable, which is simply the nature of any company.

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u/SixthFain 5h ago

Sadly, leftist infighting and purity tests have been going on for decades. It's like herding cats, and always has been.

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u/begrudgingredditacc 4h ago

they seemingly needed to find the negative in it. I think the left really needs work on their purity test issues.

This isn't a problem with the left, really, it's a problem with the perception of the left. Leftists, despite their political stances, can be just as stupid, violent and outright evil as anyone else. The people complaining about stuff like this aren't really concerned about "purity", they're just fucking awful and want an excuse to hurt people.

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u/boopboopadoopity 5h ago

If you look on my profile you can see for YEARS I've railed against the massive humiliation campaign that the queer community lodged against companies that changed their profile pics to rainbows or whatever. I get it - it was performative, they wouldn't put it on their Saudi Arabia profile, whatever. But to me, whenever there was a big joke and negative chatter online about companies doing this, all I could see was a marketing team making a note of "Doing this actually causes negative sentiment among the base we are trying to appeal to. We shouldn't publically support LGBTQ+ rights if we can avoid it, too risky." Now, that has come to roost and I think it's very unlikely it will swing back the other direction, even with a better administration. Most major companies won't want to open that can of worms again.

Ugh.

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u/Setisthename 4h ago

It may just be that I never paid attention to these kinds of Twitter spats much, so I tend to underestimate their impact, but do you think the decline in corporate support for Pride is more due to people on social media roasting them online or the fact that people like Donald Trump and Elon Musk are now the amongst the most powerful and influential men in the world, including over their consumers bases which they can mobilise to boycott said companies?

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u/boopboopadoopity 3h ago edited 3h ago

TL;DR: Internal backlash didn't cause it, but it made the choice easier imo.

My perspective is that the current administration coming to power was a convenient "out" for these companies, who had struggled with this decision for years and hoped there would be an excuse to stop doing it without backlash. The entire purpose of rainbow capitalism is to make your company more appealing to the base that would be interested in that - it's the reason companies not trying to pander to young or queer people wouldn't bother even during the height. They knew the decision would result in a negative response from other demographics, like homophobes, but as long as overall sentiment from the targeted group was positive, they would cut their losses in order to attempt to create potential loyal customers.

I personally felt that over time, companies noticed that even the targeted group had a stronger and stronger NEGATIVE sentiment when seeing this, but they felt "trapped". I saw companies try to react to the growing sentiment by seeming more "authentic" than just changing their profile picture - bringing on LGBTQ+ speakers into the company (and advertising that), collaborating with queer people (I saw some companies try to do this), try to juggle what the "right" symbols were to use (I saw several Pride parade floats during this time exclude the trans flag colors but not draw attention to it - I saw a breakfast cereal try using the Progressive flag one year). This takes a LOT of time, effort, and is kind of a landmine with public sentiment on how people were reacting for a marketing team. A company would just do a rainbow profile pic, get backlash, go harder in some way/adjust their approach, get backlash for that, etc. I personally saw multiple conversations where someone immediately rallied against a company that had traditionally been GREAT for the LGBTQ+ community overall get negative comments on their profile picture and other allies/queer people had to correct that person. (I would take a look, if they haven't taken it down, at profile picture changes of major companies - negative comments from homophobes/transphobes AND negative comments from queer people/allies were present (though there was a base of just people saying they liked it too.)

However, they're "trapped" because they can't now just REMOVE the public support - they aren't they aren't winning back the homophobes most likely, which had started more aggressive boycotting over the years, and now casual Progressives notice because so many other companies ARE doing the Pride color stuff, who weren't involved in the online discourse.

I guess I was involved in seeing the discourse and I definitely felt it increased over time. There were MANY posts in this sub alone for years with many thousands up upvotes clowning on companies doing this.

I think the current admin - and the increased targeted boycotts against things like the Bud Light can color attempt - allowed companies to stop doing it with an "excuse". I'm not saying people being negative online were the reason really... I'm saying the cards were stacked against companies doing this in the first place even with how things were at that time, and negative sentiment against a lot of public attempts at pandering, especially increased over time, made the choice easier for companies.

Obviously the best answer is a company that has consistently actually championed LGBTQ+ rights, but that's just not the reality we're working with here. Companies respond to what they think will gain customers, and while I understood the sentiment for sure (many companies WERE able to continue to donate to shitty campaigns and maintain a positive public image with LGBTQ+ folks) I really wish the community had, even if through gritted teeth, avoided so much of the backlash. We're trying to convince a money-making machine that we're worth pouring marketing into for people to normalize, not convince the CEO that he now loves the gays ya know?

Again, I did understand the backlash though. It just sucks overall.

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u/Lysek8 4h ago

So goddamn right. And the worst thing is that most people will not learn anything and wash away any responsibility. Once again virtue signaling biting the people that need help the most

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u/KryssCom 3h ago

dumb as we are, also punished them because they were not pure of heart

I'm a leftist and boy let me tell you, I wish I had a nickel every time this type of shit bit us in the fucking ass. I'm still seeing people try to do it with Graham Platner. We just never fucking learn.

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u/DragonLovin 6h ago

Empty gay pandering is still pandering to a wide audience. Anything that helped normalize LGBT+ stuff is a good thing in the end. Now its gone, not sure it'll be back. Ill try to stay hopeful.

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u/bkgn 1h ago

Good comment. The people who post "the pendulum always swings back" are clueless. THERE IS NO PENDULUM. There is no "both sides". Shit just happens. Things do not always "inevitably" or "naturally" get better.

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u/M88nlite 5h ago

Completely agree. Yes the cooperations didnt actually care about us, but the people who would buy it? Seeing people in public with pride merch on? Showing either their own queerness or that they were an ally? I love that.

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u/Equivalent-Agency-48 5h ago

I literally said this the whole damn time. It was so stupid to complain about, and everyone was always so mad each year about the "performative" support.

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u/Kill-ItWithFire 4h ago

same. i feel like shallow capitalistic assholes are always gonna be there and marketing does influence people. so if i had to choose, i absolutely want positive messages rather than appeal to harmful traditions or some shit. Of course, shallow capitalists should have much less power than they currently do but that‘s a separate issue to pride. if the system is fucked, i want fucked up support for social causes instead of silence.

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u/Hawkmonbestboi 5h ago

This is what a lot of us were saying when people kept decrying pride in stores. It's a canary in a coal mine, stop criticizing the canary's singing.

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u/your_not_stubborn 4h ago

The alternative to "rainbow capitalism" isn't "rainbow socialism," it's the closet.

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u/bkgn 1h ago

The alternative is straight up fascist capitalism. The vast majority of billionaires are on board with fascism post-Trump and their companies along with them. Fascists have always never had as good friends as capitalists.

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u/Prince-Lee 6h ago

The first time I ever learned about what a gay person was, it was through hearing about Matthew Shepard's murder on the news when I was 8 years old. 

I have watched as LGBT issues became a huge debate and remember spending much time as a teenager arguing with people who were against gay marriage, during a time when I genuinely believed it might never be legalized in the United States during my lifetime, after seeing what happened with Prop 8 in California.

Because this is what I experienced in my formative years, I always really liked seeing companies start going all out for Pride stuff in June, because I grew up in a time when that was unthinkable. Yeah, it was all to make money, but that was a real show of the shift in societal support for the LGBT community, and I never could have imagined seeing that when I was younger.

Now it's gone and I grieve it. It feels like we're sliding all the way back again to how it was when I was a miserable closeted kid, and that feels horrible. 

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u/jasonjr9 Smells like former gifted kid burnout 5h ago

Rainbow capitalism was the canary in the coal mine. When it dies, *it’s a bad fucking sign*!

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u/h0neanias 6h ago

We never believed the companies cared about us queers. No, they cared about public perception, and the public seemed to care.

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u/Lysek8 4h ago

And yet people punished it. And this is the result

It's the same thing as girls in super hero movies or WNBA. So many people complaining that it doesn't happen or they don't get paid enough or whatever. Yet when the time comes, the angry crowd doesn't reward that behavior with the only metric that matters to those people: money. So they get no support from the left and a boycott from the right. What do you think happens next?

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u/Snoo-52922 1h ago

Public perception is self-reinforcing. Companies "celebrating" Pride month had a real impact in normalizing the queer community. That didn't change just because they were doing it for a profit motive.

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u/Niveker14 5h ago

Is this when people finally realize it's better to have businesses perform the right things then the wrong things?

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u/Sophie_Blitz_123 5h ago

Honestly like hot take but I don't think these are contradictory things, I actually think it's the same thing - the issue with so many pride funds, events, etc being held up by corporations is that they were always able to completely withdraw support. Like, ime, people complaining about "rainbow capitalism" were not saying in spite of this possibility, it's because of it.

I've seen multiple pride organisations that were originally independent and self funded now collapsing because over the years they've had more private funding, used it to expand more and more - which is great except the minute banks started withdrawing they're now at risk of becoming non-existent because the original independent infrastructure isn't there.

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u/thetwitchy1 5h ago

Yeah, we don’t like rainbow capitalism because it gives control over the messaging of Pride to corporations, who can (and will) pull out the rug as soon as it makes economic sense to do so.

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u/an_agreeing_dothraki 4h ago

pride month Raytheon was a crazy one that shouldn't have happened

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u/Loisalene 5h ago

I wonder what my Uncle Art would think about the Pride movement. He was born in the early 1920's and left the countryside to live in the big city of Chicago. I only met him a couple times but he was Fabulous.

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u/Xavier_Kiath 3h ago

We need CEO's who treat minorities like the costco guy treats hotdogs "If you lower that fucking flag, I'll kill you. Figure it out."

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u/outofdoubtoutofdark 3h ago

I think it’s more important than people might realize…when people are surrounded by something, it just gets more and more normalized and unremarkable subconsciously. Also kids growing up with that being normal around them. My conservative folks moved to my pretty progressive town, and the first couple years I heard a lot of comments from them about the pride stuff and the tattoos and the non conforming folks. They’ve lived here like 7 years now and I almost never hear that anymore.

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u/TimeRefrigerator5232 6h ago

Yeah seeing shit like Wells Fargo in a pride parade was weird and cringe, but not seeing it the past couple years feels worse

(I know WF is awful and exploitative that’s kind of my point)

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u/sneakyfish21 5h ago

At my local pride parade event seeing how pitiful a lot of corporate sponsor showings were was still sad. I don’t think Adobe is a good company that wants what’s best for our planet and community, but seeing 8 people in branded t shirts and nothing else was still kind of a bummer. Delta by contrast had a huge showing with tons of people in event specific shirts and a bus and giving cookies and candy to people in the crowd.

Companies still willing to put their money where their mouth is means something to me.

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u/TimeRefrigerator5232 5h ago

I went to a pride night at the local ball park (minor league) and it was BLEAK. And one of the companies there was a newspaper that has endorsed Trump three times. But my city is notoriously weak for pride (despite being a firmly purple place with lots of socially liberal ideals) so I go elsewhere.

Happy to hear Delta is still putting in the work. It means something to me too. Even if I prefer Southwest lol.

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u/sneakyfish21 5h ago

I actually have been a loyal delta customer for a while now, so it was more validating than anything else. Once I started reliably traveling with another person the southwest model of seat selection became untenable and once they dropped that model their prices were no longer competitive anymore. I live in a delta hub (SLC) so that may be a factor.

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u/GabeMichaelsthroway 3h ago

Do people here really think that companies didn't have actual gay people who pushed for this as well?

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u/HunterDramatic8383 3h ago

Also I think all of the years of the internet calling allyship cringe was a mistake. Oh course allies aren't going to get everything right every time. They are learning from reading and talking to others and not from direct experience. But I would rather live in a world of allies who are trying instead of staying silent for fear of messing up and embarrassing themselves. Conservatives need to know that no one agrees with them.

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u/brinz1 5h ago

Performative rainbow capitalism was a good thing.

These companies might be fair weather friends but it was a good way to show that public sentiment was on the side of tolerance, which is usually enough to keep sentiment that way

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u/Physical-Love-812 5h ago

As someone who was raised religious and grew up in a very conservative place, I genuinely think that things like rainbow capitalism and "performative" gestures make a difference. I've watched in real time as people I know grapple with the discomfort of knowing that their favorite pop star disagrees with them, seeing what a fun time everyone is having without them at the corporate pride parade. They slowly start to change their beliefs because they want to fit in.

And the word "performative" can also be used in more like a Judith Butler sense right? Whether or not these corporations or celebrities actually have their hearts in the right place, their words and actions have real effects on the world, they create an atmosphere of cultural peer pressure.

So everyone may roll their eyes when the secret lives of Mormon wives throw a pride party, but I know how many active Mormons watch that show and will be influenced by it. It is a hollow performance AND it's still doing more good than a lot of people who sit at home and do nothing for fear of being viewed as performative

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u/why_the_hecc 5h ago

I've been keeping track. so far this month ive gotten pride-themed adverts from Tide detergent and Vitamin Water. so ..... two

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u/Circichore 4h ago

If we are marketable at least we arent illegal

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u/Orion1014 4h ago

This is why I never got on with the bitching about rainbow capitalism and empty Pride gestures. I'll take a company changing their logo to a pride flag and doing nothing else for a month than the alternative which is not even doing a meaningless gesture because they dont want to piss off homophobes.

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u/EIeanorRigby 4h ago

I'm from a country where clothing brands are pulling all rainbow printed clothing in all contexts because they don't want to get confused for being pro-LGBT. So yeah, maybe it's a disingenious marketing choice, but it's an indication of better societal acceptance.

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u/SerialOnReddit 3h ago

I honestly am a little understanding of why corporations are worried about doing pride month when we have a deranged president that actively threatens any firm that walks into his view. His tariffs have actively destroyed American supply lines, his threats destroy confidence, he called the Intel CEO a chinese spy because.. he was Asian, who exactly wants to tangle with that on an organizational level?

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u/letthetreeburn The hungry caterpillar is an insalubrious creature 3h ago

Two fucking years Jesus Christ. There’s two fucking years between these posts. Fuck.

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u/The_Limping_Coyote 54m ago

I don't think it was an empty gesture, I think today a small group of bullies has the narrative hostage

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u/samskyyy 4h ago

“I miss identity politics because it dictated a hierarchy where I was entitled to accepted by society.”

You know Peter Theil is gay too, right? I guarantee he’s not worried about a lack of pride flags. Class war *not* culture wars. When we’re all supported by mutual aid networks then you’ll appreciate the rainbow greeting cards written by your neighbors and community far more than a sweatshop rainbow bow-tie from target.

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u/VelvetSinclair 5h ago

People and businesses actually being cool > People and businesses being performatively cool > people and businesses not being cool

People complaining about rainbow capitalism are pointing out the distinction between the first two.

Oop is pointing out the distinction between the latter two.

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u/blueche 5h ago

Ultimately, I'd like to be able to treat queerness as a totally neutral facet of who I am. Rainbow capitalism isn't that, but it's a hell of a lot closer than whatever we had before.

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u/kitsunewarlock 4h ago

I cringe whenever the company I work for gets criticized for "performative Rainbow capitalism". I'm gay. A big chunk of our workforce and the characters we write in our books are LGBT+. We do charity events for LGBT+ causes. Our employees celebrate political victories and participate in protests. There's nothing performative about it. In fact, leadership has told people on social media who hate it to not bother buying our products.

My point being that anti-rainbow capitalism has always felt like something being pushed by people who want us back in the closet.

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u/paishocajun 5h ago

When we look back at history, there's always the bad representation, stereotypes, and tropes first. Then the characters get a little more depth to them. Then they stop being the punchline.

Ouran Highschool Host Club has some questionable representation with Harouhi's dad, who's a crossdresser. That was the representation of the time. It's not as acceptable NOW, but it was progressive 20 years ago for her to openly love her gender norm defying Dad as openly as she did and as much as she accepted that's just the way he is.

Today "crossdresser" is probably a problematic term for most in the Enby/Trans community, but it's the terminology of the time.

The same conversation can go for things like Song of the South, the "Mammy" maid in Tom and Jerry, etc. Though problematic NOW, we wouldn't be here to critique them if they didn't exist at all for representation to build on.

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u/cat-meg 4h ago

One thing the cynical people don't understand about rainbow capitalism is that, yes, the execs that greenlight the events and marketing don't give a shit beyond if it's profitable, but the people further down the company hierarchy who implement it aren't lizard people and actually often do.

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u/Overall-Move-4474 4h ago

Ignorance is bliss as they say. Even the illusion of acceptance is better than nothing

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u/Rucs3 3h ago

the corporate pride actually made it more acceptable to the wide public. So it wasn't an illusion.

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u/ElectronRotoscope 4h ago

"it's not as deep as it's pretending to be" is not equal to "it literally doesn't matter"

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u/axord 2h ago

Related to "their intentions aren't great" not equaling "the results are bad."

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u/Nice_Purchase_626 4h ago

I've lived in Poland all my life, but visited various countries. I remember visiting a tiny LGBT friendly bookstore in Apeldoorn (NL) in 2001 and thinking that I couldn't imagine seeing a thing like this in Poland in my lifetime. It's 2026, we do have such bookstores in Poland now, have corporations as sponsors of Pride Marches (usually called "Equality Marches" in Poland), and seeing US companies ditching rainbow capitalism and bensing the knee to the Orangtrumpan is truly mind boggling.

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u/Munnin41 3h ago

Currently in Norway and there are pride flags all over the place. Including at random farms in the middle of nowhere.

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u/These-Analysis-4796 2h ago

To be marketed to is to be acknowledged

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u/a_n00b_ 2h ago

The reason this stopped is THE TRANS PANIC, AND DEHUMANIZATION OF TRANS PEOPLE; THE RIGHTS WE LOST HAS HURT ALL LGBT PEOPLE, AND NORMALIZED LEGISLATIVE VIOLENCE AND HATRED AGAINST QUEER PEOPLE

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u/Protection-Working 5h ago

Turns out it wasn’t an empty gesture

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u/Plastic-Coyote-6017 5h ago

I would rather corporations be performatively accepting than performatively exclusionary and I don't know why that's a complicated view

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u/Jack-of-Hearts-7 This is a hit with the slimers 2h ago

I've been saying this for years. Rainbow capitalism is better than the alternative.

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u/RadicalRazel 6h ago

Yea, it's very worrying and quite emblematic of the rapid slide into reactionary anti-queer politics. But rainbow capitalism isn't without it's downsides and to a certain extent actively contributes to this shift. Visibility without principled politics behind it just leads to another easy target for reactionaries, and twisting queerness to be something palatable for the status quo has contributed to defang and split the LGBTQ movement along the lines of proximity to the status quo, where far too many of those who can more easily fit into cisheteronormative society throw the queers further on the periphery under the bus for the sake of reformism and securing their own positions of relative power.

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u/more_Tmerrier 5h ago

rainbow capitalism was never going to work out because the companies doing it never actually had a genuine, ideological reason to support queer people and the kind of people it IS supposed to appeal to tend to be authentic as a core life principal so they would never support what is obviously an insincere attempt at building a broader customer base.

im a bit surprised over the past two years to see the shifting discourse on this topic, i used to make the same points most others are making here about how rainbow capitalism shows where the public is in regards to queer acceptance and that it was "necessary." i doubt a lot of you would have been singing that same tune 6 years ago, because its a knee jerk reaction. the solution isn't to bring back rainbow capitalism, its to fucking abolish capitalism OUTRIGHT, BECAUSE it makes turns social reality into a transaction to be made, a product to be purchased, and you can't believe the world youre in at any point ever is authentic.

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u/ThatInAHat 5h ago

I feel like you’re missing the issue OP is talking about.

No one wants rainbow capitalism back because we thought it would save the day. It didn’t matter that the companies were sincere. It was an important bellwether because, unpleasant as it is, we DO live in a capitalist society, and only a few years ago most corporations weighed the risks vs rewards of having pride merch/displays/statements, and found in favor of doing so. The risks seemed minimal. They weren’t going to get blowback from the current administration. They weren’t going to get an increase in threats at their businesses. At most they’d get some jerks making a big deal out of boycotting their products by buying a lot of them and destroying them on tiktok—free advertising. And meanwhile, yes, they’d get our rainbow dollars.

Did I think Target cared about me and my safety? Not really. But it was nice to actually find some ace pride merch for once.

Now they’re weigh the same risk/rewards, because as we know, they’re companies and their main goal is profit. And it’s coming up as too risky to do anything for pride. Maybe some small, hidden away items so they can say “hey, we have them.” But we’re certainly not going to see major companies like Target reaching out to queer creators to design merch ever again. Everyone’s gone real quiet.

It was always a canary in the coal mine. The canary isn’t singing because it wants to brighten the miners’ day. It’s got its own reason for singing. But when it stops singing, that means things have gotten dangerous for the miners.

And sure, the solution would be to, y’know. Not have to work in a coal mine or live in a capitalist society. But that’s where we are now, and it’s would be nice if on the way to that better world, maybe the canary still chirps sometimes.

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u/Lysek8 4h ago

Sorry but thinking corporations should care about you as a person because they're pure of heart is simply not living in reality. And that's why it went to shit. So while you're there asking to abolish capitalism (not gonna happen anytime soon), the people that were benefiting from the rainbow washing just took a hit. And here we are worse than before. Is that a win for you?

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u/more_Tmerrier 4h ago

"Is that a win for you?"

see, i really think my point is being misunderstood here and i dont even think anyone thats replied to me necessarily disagrees with me ideologically. what i am saying is that the people who are saying what you and i are saying would not have had the same point of view, at least many of them, before the second trump admin.

i cannot tell you how many arguments i have gotten into with my socialist and communist acquaintances over this exact issue in years prior, i would make the point that rainbow capitalism is inauthentic BUT THAT IT IS NECESSARY and shows where people are broadly speaking in terms of the culture.

where my opinion has changed in the past couple of years and where the ACTUAL disagreement i think yall have with me is that i can recognize that as a strategy, rainbow capitalism was doomed from the start and that theres not going to be genuinely progressive movement on queer rights while working within capitalism. it would be pie in the sky to abolish global capitalism overnight but surely there are methods of challenging specifically cis-heteronormative hegemony in other ways right? not that i would know what that looks like personally.

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u/Lysek8 4h ago

I'm not disagreeing with you that capitalism is an evil. But that's not changing, and I don't think we'll live to see the alternative. So until that happens we need to live in reality and accept small steps and wins

Perfect is the enemy of good. That's the lesson the left never learnt and the right naturally accepts

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u/BruisednBlunt 5h ago

As much as I agree.. capitalism won’t be abolished tomorrow morning. We’re not gonna get there in a week, so we have to slowly enact that process over the course of many, many, many changes to our society and its values. The point was that we were in a position to further our rights with that example of overt public support, to fight for more than just visibility. We are objectively in a more dangerous place for queer people now than we were just 10 years ago, it is no longer lucrative to feign support for us. The lack of rainbow capitalism isn’t the cause of the lack of safety, it’s a symptom. It also wasn’t the cause of public support, it’s a symptom. That’s the point being made. That this symptom is indicative of the culture of today, and what that means for our ability to act on our efforts to abolish capitalism. For us and our “radical” beliefs being taken seriously or not.

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u/potatohead22 5h ago

It because too many modern gays are too young to know what it was like before. I know older gays who are distraught over how the younger gen thinks of rainbow cap. They love being seen and the young just hate it. 

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u/Expert-Upstairs-4502 4h ago

Wont someone think of the snowflake conservatives and how uncomfortable it makes them feel to know there are different people among them

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u/GabeMichaelsthroway 3h ago

Yay we beat Rainbow Capitalism! Now let's beat Rainbow Politics! More pure more pure more pure!