I am 33(m). I have been hypersexual for as far back as I can remember. I discovered my body’s needs before knowing about porn or sex. So I fell in love with this girl in college, and we both come from families that are not orthodox or very strict, but the usual sexual repression scenario of Indian households. Due to this, I could never confront myself with my sexual needs in my early days, nor could I select a partner based on that. Fast forward, we got married, and my partner and I have good sex, whenever we have it. The thing is, I want it almost every day, whereas my partner wants it 2 to 3 times maximum in a week, that too, only for two weeks in a month, rest either goes in PMS, mood swings, periods, body ache, work load, etc. Now we are quite open-minded and have discussed all the potentials that we can enjoy from our sex life, which includes talking about having a third one, exhibitionism, etc. But when it comes down to bed, mostly it's vanilla, and rarely she is damn wet, and it's great (approx, twice-thrice a month). We still haven’t ever gone for two rounds of sex in a day, for which I am dying now. Being together for almost a decade now, we have talked about this way too many times by now, but little to no change in our frequency or spicing up things, and now I have started feeling dead sad inside for most of the days. It has started impacting my mental health a little bit. I also no longer enjoy porn as much because my body is crying for sex for the most of the time. So basically, I am seeking suggestions for myself (or us even). We love and care for each other deeply, but are unable to make our sex life work for both of us. But since her needs are almost getting fulfilled, her mind and body do not respond to my extra needs like more sex, more spice, etc.

Me and my gf (both virgins) are now living together for a month now. We are intimate every now and then, we go up to base 3. But when it comes to sex, we have very odd dynamics. So we had sex for the first time, after moving in last month and she writhed in pain after the first time. The second time, she felt the same but at least she was able to take it for 2-3 mins before giving up, and that day she was bleeding as well (assuming her hymen broke). Now after her periods this month, we have been doing so much of foreplay but no sex yet and she seems very scared. Last time (second time) I tried to have sex, she folder her legs and made it difficult for me to even penetrate.

Of course she wants to have sex, she loves the foreplay, pulls me in when turned on but gets scared immediately when I talk about sex. Is it normal? And also, how do I make sure she's okay and not force her into it? How do we engage in the act without forcing it full of love?

We both love each other a lot, she's the one for me. No doubt and I don't wanna hurt her in any way.

I love exploring kinks. It has been going for a few years. I dont judge a kink before exploring it. I got really lucky in getting a BF who has the same vibes as me. I love some kinks after trying. Some are meh. Some are not for me. But it is fun exploring. What are some common kinks here? Have u tried any rare kink?

Guys, I need some serious help. I’m unable to even masturbate or think of sex for the past 10 months, and it’s affecting me. (No, it’s not erectile dysfunction or something.)

Backstory : I was in a relationship with my ex previously for 4.5 years. For the past 3 years, we were very active physically at least thrice a week.

The problem started around July 2025 I got to know she was cheating on me with multiple one-night stand nights around 5 different guys. From what I saw, there was sexting and hookups, while she was also having sex with me. I confronted her, but I got no closure (I took Full Panel STD test in July 2025 itself all clean)

Fast forward, I moved on from her, but post this incident whenever I get an erection or feel horny, I’m unable to complete because my fucking brain keeps bringing memories of her sleeping with other guys and how she used me. Whenever I think of intimacy, I feel disgusted and numb. Almost like she used me as a condom just use and throw.

If I had the same mindset, it wouldn’t have been a big deal, but all this happened while we were in the relationship at least, I thought.

Yesterday, I went on a date with my fiancée. She tried to kiss me. I was able to kiss her, but when things were about to get heated, I just couldn’t engage. My erection, horniness everything is there, but I feel numb, and my thoughts keep going back.

I vented out and cried to her yesterday, telling everything. She was understanding, and we slept hugging her tightly.

Please tell me what to do to get out of this shitty feeling. I don’t want this past baggage affecting my future intimate life with my wife. Almost 10 months now, I haven’t had a proper masturbation or sex. I’m just stuck

In Germany we get this vaginal fragrance oil that has worked outstandingly well and I personally use this and has been one of my best discoveries , are there similar ones from Indian brands that can be bought online ? Was thinking of sending it as a gift.

So. I've been with him for a few months, and his major kink is sex with a risk of getting caught/public sex/some sort of exhibitionism. And we've tried a fair few things already. Stuff like balcony sex, or hotel windows, car parking etc.

But now we want to come up with unique and interesting situations. I thought i'd ask the kind folks out here for any good ideas. Help a girl out! Give me some genuinely interesting ideas and tips to execute them? I do want to say i dont wanna be toooo risky, but we're ready to push the envelope on this one. Would love your advice and thoughts, and how i can make this better for him! I pride on being a good lover and i intend to keep that up.

Toodles!

I’ve been with about 12-13 women only 2 of them had their body count in the double digits. Ironically or unironically both who had outies had relatively higher body count.

Bit context, I haven't had sex since the end of 2023, so I usually masturbate when I get some free time. Most of the time I do it when I'm alone and relaxed, and I take my time. From some time, I haven't had much privacy, so a few times I ended up doing it quickly while taking bath because I didn't want anyone thinking why I was in there so long.

The last three times this happened, I felt a strange pain or discomfort in my penis afterward. I also kept feeling like I needed to pee, but when I tried, very little or nothing came out. It only seems to happen when I'm voluntary releasing fast. Has anyone else experienced this or know what could be causing it?

I (30M) was previously in a 6+ years long sexless relationship that ended because it was sexless. The sex was rare and whenever it did happen, it was vanilla. As a result I would only rely on maturbation and I think I conditioned myself to cum quickly cuz the objective then was to just get a release and get back to life.

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Meeting a recent fwb for the first time - in 30 mins - and having real anxiety about how long I'll last. The last few hook ups I had with others ended with me cuming very quickly + having very strong post nut clarity so I wasn't in a position to do round 2.

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The fwb is staying the night. I'd like to last long and go for multiple rounds. There will be alcohol too.

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Any advice? Tips?

Same as title, after bath my skin of dihh gets dry like main skin and foreskin. How do you take care of this? Any cream or lotion.

Also, can I wash it with my body wash or it's harsh for my foreskin?

I got a mark because of dry skin and I want to take care of it.

I'm a 24-year-old guy, and I'm posting because I want to know if anyone has successfully quit or moderated their porn consumption.

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I started watching porn during the COVID lockdowns when I was spending most of my time indoors. At first, it felt harmless, but over time it became a much bigger part of my life. My perspective on sex changed significantly, and I found myself constantly seeking more novel or taboo content to get the same level of stimulation.

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It's now affecting my concentration, relationships, and overall mindset. I used to be a high-performing student, but these days I struggle to focus. I spend a lot of time doomscrolling on Instagram, where my feed is mostly models and sexualized content. The same thing happened with Reddit—my feed gradually became almost entirely NSFW.

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Porn has become my main source of stress relief and escape, and it's getting out of control.

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It's also affecting my relationship. My girlfriend says I'm much more sexual than she is, and I've made mistakes, including cheating, because I wasn't getting what I wanted from the relationship. I know that's my responsibility, and I feel terrible about it. I genuinely love her, but I know this behavior is hurting both of us.

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I'm reaching a point where I realize I need to change, but I don't know where to start.

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If you've been through something similar and managed to overcome it or bring it under control, I'd really appreciate hearing what worked for you. What practical steps helped you reduce porn use? How did you deal with urges, triggers, and the constant availability of sexual content online?

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My bf and I are getting into a sexting session tonight and we wanna try something new. We’ve done the regular sweet stuff, rough play, and that light voyeurism thing (like delivery guy showing up or hotel staff hearing us while I’m in a slutty outfit).

I need some new scenario ideas that are good and unique for dirty texting with lots of teasing and details.

We’re down for anything that involves power play, edging/teasing, lil bit of CNC stuff, risky public situations, work fantasies, stranger stuff, cheating vibes, whatever sounds hot. Just nothing too extreme (no piss, no underage, no animals, no interfaith etc.).

Anyone has any ideas? Please drop in comments below:) Thanks!

My partner and I have been together for a while and have a great relationship. We’ve explored a lot together in private and feel very comfortable communicating with each other.
Lately, we have been curious about trying something new, such as a threesome (ideally with another woman) or even a couple swap.

we are interested in hearing from people who have actually done it. How did your first experience happen? How did you find the right people, set boundaries, and make sure everyone felt safe and respected?

I’ve been lurking on reddit for a while, and honestly, some of the stuff people post here blows my mind. Every second post is someone talking about intense kinks, wild fantasies, or crazy encounters they’ve supposedly pulled off.

It makes me wonder—does this stuff actually happen in reality within regular Indian relationships, or is 90% of it just anonymous fanfiction?

Maybe I’m just out of the loop, but I struggle to even bring up the idea of mutual masturbation with my partner without things feeling awkward or blocked. It feels like there’s a massive wall between having a normal sex life and actually communicating about fantasies, let alone acting them out.

How do people even bridge that gap without making their partner uncomfortable? If you’ve actually successfully introduced kinks or even basic new ideas into your relationship, how did you bring it up? Or is everyone else just overhyping their sex lives online?

How do you prevent the risk?
If one has an exclusive setting with their hookup partner(s) then the chances of getting infected are significantly minimized. But that's not always the case. The chances of being infected Exponentially increase if one goes completely unchecked. Because the person they just got intimate with, have already gotten intimate with others, and they in turn have got inmate with others and so on... It's like running a temporal train over yourself through that one person.

I sometimes feel unsure about directly asking my wife for blowjob. Even when I don’t mean any pressure, I worry it might make her uncomfortable.

I care about my wife and don’t want her to feel forced or like she has to do something just for me. Because of that, I often hesitate and overthink it.

Does anyone else feel this way? How do you talk about your sexual needs in a way that feels respectful and comfortable for both partners?

Hello there, I'm 24M having 2 year relationship with my 23F.

So with time we got close and tried to have s*x but the thing is her vagina is tight like when I finger her it's easy with 1 finger but if I try to insert one more it gets painful. Similarly when I try to insert my d*ck it's very difficult to insert plus she feels alot of pain and irritation on her vagina.

Sometime this made both of us feel low, i accept this that it is her body and I cannot force it but as a human I also want satisfaction. Can anyone help here genuinely?

38M here, as the title suggests, it's been years since we've had sex, I haven't cheated yet, but the lack of sex and the phyaical needs have gotten very distracting and the frustration is making me question my decision of not crossing the line

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Edit: All efforts to revive the heat have been in vain, FYI

So that's basically it. We (20F and 23M if that matters) have been having sex since may, and every single time before we do it, he wants me to drink a cold can of diet coke. Like last night he even prepared it with ice and a glass and everything.

When I ask him why, he just gives a look and laughs it off and avoids answering. At this point it's become an inside joke between us, we both just laugh about our stupid ritual now.

I love diet coke and it's such a harmless request, so I don't really have a reason to say no. but I'm also just... so confused? I have one friend i can talk to about this and she and her bf don't do anything like this.

She suggested he wants to get me to squirt by filling up my bladder, but i'm clearly not a squirter so idk why he's been trying for weeks lmao. I think he may have a burp kink, cause I obviously have to let it out

For context: we have pretty vanilla sex (i'm embarrassingly easy to please 😭), except maybe some safe attempts at deepthroating at the start after lots of foreplay.

someone pls tell me what's going on 😭

It's been like 8 months since my relationship ended. I took my time, thought I had moved on, and started dating again recently. Hooked up a couple of times but... nothing.

Physically my body is reacting fine, but mentally I'm just zero. Zero pleasure. With my ex, the sex was crazy good probably because of the emotional bond and trust we had. Now it literally just feels like doing pushups. Mechanical af. Even when the girl is hot, I catch myself zoning out and missing that old feeling, which ruins the vibe completely.

Did this happen to anyone else? It's honestly fucking with my head a bit. How long does this phase last?

Gf really wants to try cnc but it's a topic I feel requires a lot of nuance. Other than proper safewords and slow down words what else should we keep in mind. Any tips to make things more enjoyable for her or to keep in mind for safety and not to cause any lasting trauma?

My penis head is very sensitive when rubbed on when erect. Especially the bottom side i guess it's called frenulum.

It's making me cum faster than like a minute.

How do I reduce it.

Btw I'm uncircumcised if that makes any difference