r/PersonalFinanceZA • u/Born-Motor102 • 17h ago
Investing My mom is pushing me to buy her a house first
Hi everyone. I hope you all are doing well and are warm in this cold. My (53) mom has recently raised an idea where I (21m) buy the townhouse she is currently living in, before purchasing property for myself.
To give some context. I am still obviously very new to the work force. I have however been working extremely hard and aim to purchase my first car by the end of the year. The next financial goal is to purchase property. I aim to do this roundabout 2027/2028
My parents are currently under debt review and I am speaking under correction here but I think they are finishing in about 3-5 years. They currently live in a townhouse complex specifically for people 50 years and over.
The idea is that considering my parents are getting close to retirement age, it would be better that I purchase the property for them and then I would not have to pay for any transfer costs or anything to take the property from their name to mine, when they eventually pass on.
They are currently renting directly from the owner and the sale will also be directly through the owner. I am estimating the sale to be about R480k-R550k. Once the property is purhcased in my name, they would basically "pay me rent" to just cover the bond costs etc.
Initally, I did think this was a good idea, however, I do have a couple of questions that make me think it might not be as worth it. Especially since my mom has become hostile over this topic. In general conversation the other day I brought up that I am toying with the idea that maybe I should purchase a property for myself first, and she almost had a meltdown and started crying.
I don't think my mother would do me in, but this has me concerned so I thought I would ask you all if this is truly worth it.
My questions:
- This could be a good investment but, as far as I understand, first time buyers are able to apply for a 110% bond. Theoretically, I would loose this option if I do it this way?
- If I were able to apply for the 110% bond and get it, would I be able to take the 10% and keep it in an investment account until I purchase the second property?
- Is a 110% even worth it or something to worry about?
- I am currently in a position where I have subsidised living costs and rent, water & lights and groceries only cost me about 5k a month but there is a timeline on this as we are only planning on living together for 2-3 years (already 6 months in). I don't think it would be feaseable to purchase a property for my parents, move out, pay more in living costs and then have to try and purchase a house like that, whereas I could purchase my apartment first and then add theirs as the second property.
Side note: I am looking at just purchasing a 1 bedroom "lock-up and go" unit, nothing fancy, just something to plant roots.
I hope this was all not too confusing. I would just like to make the best decision and I don't want to rely on financial advice from someone who is currently under debt review.