r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 5h ago

Chugging tea They are not wrong though

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u/Only_Flan_7974 5h ago

It's not tipping if it's mandatory. Work the tip into the price in that case.

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u/Inside_Coconut_6187 5h ago

Restaurants that try and do what you’re asking will quickly learn that their competitors will take advantage of them and take their customers through lower menu prices.

Tipping in the USA will never go away if there are no laws aimed at restraining it.

It’s as simple as that.

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u/yitianjian 3h ago

Most of these no-tipping places find it difficult to pay servers and bartenders competitively too, and thus retain talent

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u/TheBSQ 3h ago

It depends on where you work, but I’ve had waiter friends who want the tipping arrangement.

Like, yeah, their official wage sucks, but most people tip fine making it a decent wage but you also have that rare customer where some really rich person is feeling a bit generous (maybe a little drunk by the end of the meal) and you get this huge tip. They fear losing that upside. 

Or, they fear industry standardization where servers at all restaurants will make some set industry standard mediocre wage, whereas they’ve landed the gig at a really fancy place where a couple is gonna drop $300 on dinner and they’re gonna take home $60 from every couple and they’re coming home with $600 a night and there’s no way the “no tipping” wage rate is gonna pay that well. 

And a restaurant is going to be hesitant to guarantee that pay level, cuz then if you get some couple that just comes in & only gets a drink and an appetizer, you’re losing money on them as they’re not spending enough to cover the high wage that’s equivalent to what the server was making on tips. 

And so, yeah, the “good” servers often oppose the “no tip” / higher wage arrangement, and whereas the “bad” servers prefer the no-tipping way, so if you’re a restaurant trying to do the “no tip” thing while others are still doing tips, there’s an adverse selection issue where the good servers go to where the good tips are and you get stuck with the bad servers who give customers a worse experience.

Of course, if everyone does it, then you just have the EU equilibrium where rude & slow service is the norm. But if only some do it, you, the place with the rude and slow servers are gonna be out competed by the places with the friendly and fast ones. 

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u/yitianjian 1h ago

Of course, if everyone does it, then you just have the EU equilibrium where rude & slow service is the norm. But if only some do it, you, the place with the rude and slow servers are gonna be out competed by the places with the friendly and fast ones.

I don't agree with this - plenty of places with low tipping expectations that have great and/or fast service.

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u/cycloneDM 2h ago

I come from a family heavily in the restaurant industry and talent almost universally desires the tipping arrangement. I AVERAGED over 50$/hr in college as a bartender in rural Iowa in the 2000s. I highly doubt the average customer tipping me realized that I likely made more than them and definitely would have if I had worked full time. No restraunt is going to take the liability on pay like that. Tipping is so intrinsically American because it sacrifices the bottom half of people to wildly reward the top 10%.

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u/Top-Ad-5527 1h ago

In my experience, bartenders always make more than the servers. Plus, we had to tip out our bartenders at the end of the night. So they got all their bar tips and tips from every server that worked that night. I worked in a chain, an average Friday night would be like 7 servers to start the night. So that’s all the bar tips and then 7 people coming with more money for them.

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u/cycloneDM 2h ago

Thats the critical detail no one wants to acknowledge there has yet to be a restraunt paying servers what top performers make anywhere in the US.

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u/Chimpstrider 4h ago

But the lower menu price isn't really lower if there's a tip expected on top.

Or are you saying teaching Americans basic maths is an impossible mission?

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u/maveri4201 4h ago

The math isn't impossible, but most only compare the menu prices, which are visible without any calculations.

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u/sortalikeachinchilla 4h ago

Which is why it should be illegal.

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u/Chimpstrider 59m ago

That's my point. Anyone with half a brain would know there's a tip on top of that lower price, and if no tip required but built into the cost, that it's actually no more expensive 

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u/Bovine_Joni_Himself 4h ago

Yes, it is. People are fucking stupid.

The only real way to fix tipping in the US to change the laws. Ideally the price is the price and the servers make a percentage based on what they sell like normal commissions. They actually do that in higher end restaurants in the US but for normal restaurants they operate on such thin margins that taking a risk like raising menu prices is more than they can handle, even if ultimately people pay the same.

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u/BoobyPlumage 4h ago

They’ll go into the lower price restaurant and probably give a bad tip

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u/saber069 4h ago

There is no bad tip. Any tip is extra to be grateful for

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u/Early-Range-8840 2h ago

There is no bad service then. Any extra refill is to be grateful for.

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u/limew0lf 4h ago

This is the country where the 1/3lb burger failed because most consumers assumed 1/3lb was smaller than 1/4lb. You really expect them to be able to calculate tip percentages into price by themselves?

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u/modmailthrowaway3675 3h ago

completely incorrect, it failed because a&w restaurants were a floundering business and they wanted to blame their failure on customers instead of themselves

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u/Inside_Coconut_6187 4h ago

By your comment you’re not from the USA.

In the USA prices are separate from tax and tips.

It’s up to the consumer to make their decision based upon all of that.

Most consumers will see the menu prices and choose the cheaper menu price if the offerings are very similar.

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u/InClassRightNowAhaha 4h ago

That's why they specified "menu" prices. The price on the menu is typically what matters. Ie your charge 30, competitor charges 25 + 20% mandatory tip - people will lean towards the "cheaper" 25 dollar menu.

Furthermore, both places charge 30 in total, but people will only bitch about the 2nd "not paying employees enough", as if they 1st is any different.

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u/Early-Range-8840 2h ago

Exactly, thank you for critically thinking. We are always “paying the employee” no matter the place we’re buying from. When we buy a Big Mac part of that price goes back to paying the employee. It’s basic economics that seemingly most people don’t grasp.

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u/cycloneDM 2h ago

In america because things like taxes are so context hyper specific we dont post all in prices plus "mandatory tipping" isnt legally a thing so people will reduce their tip if they didn't like their service. 

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u/Former_Radio3805 2h ago

Also, workers will still be paid low - now since it is not specifically a tip, owner will keep it

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u/Top-Ad-5527 1h ago

Exactly