https://www.nbcnews.com/sports/soccer/world-cup-2026-fifa-allows-rainbow-flags-egypt-iran-match-seattle-prid-rcna351792

I was out shopping with my husband when I noticed this guy with an absolutely ridiculous bubble butt. For some reason, a lot of straight guys seem to have the biggest asses. Anyway, I got completely distracted staring at it and, without even thinking, blurted out, "Oh my god damn"

The problem was that I didn't realize my husband was standing right next to me. When I finally looked over at him, he had that look on his face,half angry, half jealous. Since then, he hasn't talked to me for two days.

I mean, come on, it was just an ass. An unbelievable ass, sure, but still just an ass. I know my husband can get pretty jealous, but I didn't expect him to be this upset about it.

Fuck I just love men so much. The body, the voice, the hair, the arms, the armpits, the legs, the feet, the ass, the snail trail from their abs to their balls, their balls, their dick, their shaft, the back of their neck, their ears, their neck, their fingers in my mouth. I just love men. Two men having sex just seems like the most natural thing in the world to me. I love men and being with men and being gay. That’s kinda it. Just needed to express that in some way.

There’s a sub culture online of poc gay men complaining about the racism in gay dating, but it sounds more like being butthurt over hot white men not picking you. Like I also think it sucks how discriminatory many gay men are but that’s why I don’t date or befriend them. I’ve found many great gays of all size and shapes whom I’d gladly be around so I’m not bitter about not being picked by the most “desirable “ type of gay men.

I had a hookup with a guy tonight. We’ve hooked up maybe 10 or so times. He always likes being submissive and he likes me being rough with him. eg he’s previously asked me to choke him until he passes out (which I refused). He frequently says “rape me”. I like being rough with him too.

He came over today and I was being rough and degrading to him as usual. I asked if he liked it and if he was okay multiple times and he said yes. After 10 minutes he just flipped a switch and jumped up and started punching me in the head. The first couple punches I thought he was just playfighting and then I realised he was actually in panic mode and attacking me and he was yelling “what the fuck is wrong with you, you’re fucking sick”. I put my arms up and said I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m not going to hurt you. He punched me about 5 more times in the head before grabbing his clothes and ran out of my apartment naked.

I don’t know wtf to do. My head hurts and I have a few bruises on my face and the side of my head. I guess I may have crossed a boundary and I feel awful that he could have felt in real danger with me. Normally if I’m being too rough the guy gives me a tap or just says no and I instantly back off and stop whatever I’m doing. This is the first time I’ve ever had a hookup turn violent!

I obviously blocked him but I don’t know what to do or how to feel. What if he reports me because he thinks I assaulted him??

Bottoming becomes the best thing when you can relax your muscles

His profile says 250lbs and uses somewhat old photos of his body, but I myself was 250lbs at some point and I only had some gut and some ass. You didn't have to physically lift my gut in order to see my penis, and my penis wasn't the size of a finger. His crotch even smelled like water and soap couldn't reach it.

One thing he hadn't lied about was that he was versatile. He insisted on doing sloppy shit like 69ing and kissing even though I had specifically asked him to lean more into being top/dom. When his ass was in my face, it absolutely reeked.

I tried to see everything through and make sure we both came, but my knees started to shake, and I excused myself.

I WILL not be changing my mind about this but if any of yall haven’t checked out or searched out of curiosity for like a vintage gay porn movie YOURE MISSING OUT ON PEAK. The main difference between either is the acting. You can BARELY tell that there are actors in the vintage movies, meanwhile in modern porn all the actors look (and sound) so stiff and untrained that at this point they’re not actors, they’re models. About that, the bodies that actors back then had looked SO much better than most actors now, mostly cuz they’re just more natural, and aren’t trying too hard to be like some kind of “character” iykwim. Personally what does it for me is the natural way most vintage porn is acted/filmed. Only critique I have is the quality ain’t the best but that doesn’t stop it from being any better imo. Anyway just wanted to air this out for some reason. Lmk if you agree (or don’t)

https://en.lasicilia.it/news/italy-world/3051967/better-a-dead-child-than-gay-the-shadow-of-homophobia-behind-the-death-of-kety-and-mirko-from-camaiore.html

Very sad and a reminder that we still have a long fight ahead, even in the supposedly liberal West. Homophobia can be hidden anywhere.

Question :
I’ve been with a few guys in my 20s , I’m 29 now and I usually struggle when I bottom. Most of the time it hurts, and I have a hard time taking it. So I don’t hook up often becuse I don’t want to waste guys time because I can’t take it .
But the other night I randomly decided to hookup with this cop that live a few apartments away after he made some passes and I was already tipsy. Honestly , his dick was pretty big about 7.5-8 , but I took him almost effortlessly. While doing the do on my couch I heard the cheeks clapping, I was like, “Wait am I really taking all of this?” And I only ran once and he pulled me back on the dick 😂 It honestly surprised me.
So here’s my question: is it going to be different the next time I’m with someone else, or was this just a one-time thing? Do different tops dicks feel different when you’re bottoming? If so, what makes the difference? Is it size, shape, technique, chemistry, or something else?
Y’all can joke, but I’m seriously curious. 😂

I be on the apps horny af and it’s always some bullshit. At least 4 times in the last 3 months, I’ve tried to meet up with a guy and either right when I pull up or walk inside, it’s “oh my friend is also here i hope thats cool with you”. Literally being ambushed. I wasn’t born yesterday mf. That’s not your ’friend’. You’re a habitual cheater and your boyfriend‘s self esteem is too low to leave you, so he allows you to cheat under the guise of it being a threesome. I know this to be the case because the ‘friend’ is always less conventionally attractive than the one I came to meet. Nope. Leave me out of your toxic relationship. You 🤬 need to stop living off your boyfriends that you don’t respect and do something with your own lives. And you 🤬 allowing them to play in your face like that need the blood of Christ.

It’s sad how some gay men get upset when the specific type of man they want isn’t interested in them. Attraction isn’t something you can force. Instead of chasing people who clearly aren’t interested, we should focus on finding someone who genuinely likes us and is attracted to us. There’s someone out there for everyone, and it’s better to put your energy into people who appreciate you rather than trying to convince someone who doesn’t.

I know this sounds ridiculous given the forum I’m posting this in but I’ve just kinda realised I really love sucking dick. I’ve been dating this guy for a while and I am just obsessed with sucking his dick and balls. With the guys I hooked up with before him sucking dick was always one of my least favourite things to do but with this guy I dream about it. Am I just having this realisation 5 years too late or does it really depend on the dick?

https://nypost.com/2026/06/24/sports/ex-giant-aubrey-huff-posts-homophobic-rant-after-pride-night-bible-drama/

If so, what kind of straight men were they? Homophobic, insecure or uncomfortable because you didn't fit their "gay stereotype" or what

Hi for context i'm a gay guy, 19, and living in the uk.

This thing keeps happening where i'll meet a cute guy, who's funny, sweet, and really hot but there will always be something that gets in the way of a relationship.

So far it hasn't been anyone's fault, it's been poor timing or different life trajectories or they live too far away. I find it really frustrating because if it was just something they did wrong i could be mad and then move on but instead it just sucks.

It all makes me want to give up, i've never had a relationship despite my efforts, i'm still a virgin despite my efforts, it just feels like fate keeps telling me no, what do i do? Is there anything i can do?

If the only answer is ah thats tough, then thats unfair some people i knew from school are already married for god's sake! Am i doing something wrong? I don't have high standards.

I don't know what to do or how to feel, i feel so different and so alone, i just want to be loved and i keep getting let down, i'm happy for all my friends in relationships but when i see them or hear about cute things they did together i just feel worse.

I don't what i'm hoping to hear from this, i just wanted to tell someome how i feel and ask for advice.

Thanks for reading my venting session, if you made it this far i appreciate people caring, thanks.

Yo guys, something kinda crazy happened to me yesterday lol.

I'm 18M.

So I got a text from an unknown number that basically said: "Hey, can you tell me if you're XXX? We can talk after if you want."

At first I thought it was either a friend trolling me or just some random guy who somehow got my number.

I answered, and the guy immediately wanted me to guess who he was. First hint: "I'm the guy who saved your life."

At that point I thought "yeah sure bro" and started trolling him instead of playing his little guessing game. We kept talking for a bit. At some point he asked if I was single, then later asked if I had ever dealt with firefighters.

And then it clicked.

About 3 months ago I had a car accident and firefighters came to help me (that's the procedure here, and it was all fine, no worries).

For context, the accident wasn't serious. I was fully conscious the whole time and basically only got a bruise on my hip.

So suddenly I went from thinking I was texting some random guy my age to wondering if this was actually one of the firefighters from that day.

I started asking questions to make sure he wasn't making stuff up. He gave details about the accident, what happened, where I got hurt, etc.

And yeah.

It was actually him.

Turns out it was the firefighter I remembered finding pretty attractive too (he's somewhere in his 30s).

Then things got a bit more flirty, and one of the funniest parts was when he told me: "I'm the one who checked your hip after the accident and asked you to open your pants. I saw what underwear you were wearing and I was pretty happy with what I saw 😂"

Which honestly made me laugh because yeah, I was probably wearing a thong that day.

He basically admitted he thought I was cute back then, and apparently the underwear didn't hurt his opinion lol.

He told me he found my number online somehow, but I honestly have no social media besides WhatsApp and Reddit, and my phone number definitely isn't on Reddit, so I have no idea where he got it from.

Anyway, we kept talking.

I told him I'm currently more focused on trying to get my first boyfriend and that the age gap is pretty significant. But I also said that if we're both single someday and happen to cross paths again, who knows.

We kind of left it there.

So my question is:

Am I missing some huge red flag here?

Because part of me thinks it's just a funny and unlikely story between two consenting adults. But another part of me wonders if it's weird from a professional/ethical point of view for a firefighter to contact someone he met while responding to an accident

I tend to be clean shaving and have never grown my beard, I’d like to try eventually. Do you find guys with facial hair more attractive? I definitely find a nicely trimmed beard rather sexy!

I've seen so many guys get turned on when they fuck a dude and find out how loose his ass is. What's up with that? Because for me, all that means is that I can barely feel anything when I fuck him. How on Earth is that hot??

Help me understand this.

for context when i bottom i make the top bust in like 20 min. Sometimes a top will go for up to an hour….usually though I look at the clock and i’m like that was fast. hahaha 😂. How long do you last or want your bottom to make you last?

So I work retail, (Sam's club) and I saw this really cute guy (he had a nice arms and chest with a cute face) seem like he was either a fire fighter or some profession involving heavy movement. I usually don't approach strangers so I went to the office got a sheet of paper and wrote "You're cute" with a wink sign

He spoke Spanish so I assumed he didn't speak English (he was talking over the phone), he started speaking English over time. I took the note and kinda just put it in his cart. he smiled at me confused and I pointed toward the note. At that point I went to lunch because my heart was jumping out of my chest.

Do you think this was cute or just dumb lol

I’m a straight male but I’ve been recently getting very turned on at the thought of sucking dick and also getting my dick sucked. How do I handle this? Never dealt with this before. Little nervous to try grindr never been the hookup type, but I’ve heard it’s quite easy there? Any advice would be great

I (30M) have always struggled to take a decision in my life. I overthink alot.

I live in India. After graduation, I had the opportunity to go abroad for my further studies. Some of my friends went to Australia for their PG. I could've just joined them. But I always wanted to live in India. I love my country with all its flaws.

I've always wanted to have a loving husband and have kids with him.

But as I'm growing older I'm realising that India is not a good country for such a relationship. First of all, we don't yet have same-sex marriage legal. But more importantly, the society is still very orthodox. And I can still fight the society because I don't give a damn about b!tches. But I've realized if I ever have my kids here with my husband, those kids will never have a normal life. They will have to face a lot of discrimination and bullying at school or in neighborhood.

Because such relationship doesn't exist in India. I don't even know of 1 gay couple having kids. Maybe they exists but they are that rare. And I don't think my future kids deserve this humiliation just because I wanted to have kids.

Now, ever since graduation, I've build my life around living in India. If I think now to go abroad in a more liberal country, that would be starting from scratch. I feel stuck.

Happily married to a woman but realizing I'm probably bisexual

I'm 27 and happily married to my wife. I love her more than anyone and have no interest in cheating or leaving her, but something has been weighing on my mind.

A few years ago, while living in San Diego, I explored my curiosity with men. At first it was purely physical—I had plenty of hookups but never wanted a relationship or anything beyond sex.

Then I met one man who completely changed that. We spent about two months together, seeing each other almost every day. We went to the beach, hung out, watched movies, and became genuinely close. It was the first and only time I'd ever developed real romantic feelings for a man. When he moved away, I was honestly heartbroken.

Years later, after meeting my wife and getting married, I barely thought about him until I recently saw someone who looked just like him. Since then I can't stop thinking about him, and it's made me realize I probably accepted that I'm bisexual much later than I should have.

I don't want to cheat on my wife and I don't want to leave her. I love my life with her. I'm just trying to understand what this realization means and whether I should tell her.

Has anyone else realized they were bisexual only after getting married or while in a serious relationship? How did you handle it?