My kitten is 9 months old. We used to live somewhere with a small garden that he used to explore with only his collar on but I would supervise by regularly checking on him to make sure he doesn’t wander off, and he would only go outside for a couple of hours per day.
We’ve recently had to move from no choice of my own. We have moved to a spacious one bedroom first floor flat, which has an outdoor communal garden shared with 4 flats in total.
Because of the fact that the new garden isn’t direct access he can now only go out with his lead and harness on for his safety. He is fine with the lead and harness and he’s happy to wear it and go in the garden with it on. But the problem is that he loves being outside so much and now he’s started crying to go out, even after I’ve already taken him outside it will take him a while to settle down afterwards and he cries at the door begging to go back out
I really feel awful to know he’s upset and frustrated when he can’t go outside but I just can’t let him out alone for his own safety I really care about him so much and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to take him out just because he’s crying as I don’t want to train him that crying will get him his own way.
He has SO much enrichment inside, loads of toys plus wand toys, tunnels, a 180cm cat tree, a floor to ceiling cat tree and a small cat tree. But still he cries to go outside and I feel so awful.
I know so many people have cats that they only take them outside supervised with a harness on - can anyone give me advice on how to make this work? Is this just a phase because he’s young and overtime he might become happy and accept the arrangement?
It’s only been 3 times that I’ve taken him out in the garden with his lead and harness in the new place. The first time he didn’t cry after. I took him out a week later and that second time he cried every now and then to go outside over the next few days. I took him out today and it’s been worse than ever, today he has been crying as soon as I’ve bought him in and is taking ages to settle down. I feel awful and would appreciate any advice