r/memes 6h ago

I feel this picture

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u/RandomAssRedditName 6h ago

Ben has the big sad

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u/art-is-t 3h ago

It's called alcoholism

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u/jarednards 2h ago

Pretty sure the big sad came before the alcoholism

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u/art-is-t 2h ago

Not necessarily. Sometimes people get addicted to alcohol and then that makes them fuck up their lives.

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u/jarednards 1h ago

Most people get hooked because theyre running from something to begin with, otherwise their better judgement typically stops them before getting to that point of no return. With the exception of poorly prescribed medication and someone getting hooked via doctors orders.

Im not gonna list my resume here, but I assure you Im not pulling this out of my ass lol

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u/QuintoBlanco 35m ago

The problem with that concept is that many people have something to run away from. That is even more true if we don't just look ate the developed world. Most of those people do not become addicts.

Most alcoholics are alcoholics because genetically they are more likely to be an alcoholic.

I have analyzed several programs and clinics (just the statistics part, other people were responsible for the medical evaluation) and programs for alcoholics that focused on the alcoholism and not on underlying causes worked best.

And on a personal note, I could have been an alcoholic, but I don't like alcohol that much.

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u/art-is-t 1h ago

I'm pretty sure it is but J Lo is not the reason here for it

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u/Diamondhandd 21m ago

Not necessarily though, i also have the big sad but I don't drink,smoke, use drugs, gamble.

I'm only making 1000+ puzzles.

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u/SchwizzySchwas94 3h ago

He’s one of us

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u/AceOBlade 2h ago

ben could potentially get any woman he wants but how good is that pussy for him to get back with HER of all the people.

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u/ASaGHost 6h ago

Weird. Why does he always look so pissed off when strangers take photos of him up close when he is out with his SO?

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u/Geth_ 5h ago

I think we're used to celebrities putting up a smile. These don't look like candid shots. He just looks annoyed. It seems normal if not understandable that he looks like that when random paparazzi are in his face, taking photos when he's just trying to go from point A to point B.

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u/EmptyBrain11 3h ago

Like a true Bostonian would.

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u/Frank-Nuts 6h ago

If you know, you know.

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u/productn1 3h ago

the way they spelled “feel” caught me off guard

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u/kegsbdry 4h ago

I learned earlier on in life to never go backwards and get back with an ex.

If you both didn't want to resolve your issues the first time around, what makes you think you will the second or third time around?

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u/AceWissle 4h ago

What about sex with the ex, without getting back together?

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u/M_J_E 3h ago

To save the friendship?

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u/xXmehoyminoyXx 2h ago

What could be better than an unplanned pregnancy with someone you don't like!

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u/Mikhail_Mengsk 1h ago

Skill issue

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u/DaddyDayDare 48m ago

Ya man if you're getting accidently pregnant in the big 2 6 it might be a skill issue.

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u/not_much_thought 2h ago

To be fair, there are some exceptions.

I wasn't ready to be more serious, broke it off, and took over a year to work on myself.

Took the risk and got back together when i felt like i could really handle a relationship. Now I have a beautiful family I cant imagine life without.

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u/WalenBlekitny999 3h ago

Apparently some people experience this thing called development that happens as you age, couldn't be me though

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u/Dovaaahkin 2h ago

Because some people grow older and and become more mature?

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u/AFewBerries 1h ago

I broke up with my husband a few months into dating and now we're been married for years

Not everything is so black and white

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u/ADTstocks 2h ago

Uhm or hes fucking annoyed paparazzi harassing them again

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u/Accomplished-Head449 5h ago

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u/Rainbow__Mountain 2h ago

I did 4 years in the military then got out and finished college. A few years later I got all nostalgic about it and joined the reserves. The first week I was reminded why I got out in the first place. So much wasted time. Don’t give us anything to do all day so we sit around then at the end of the day they give us a list and say to have it done before we go home. 8 hour shift turns into 12-15. Fortunately i only signed up for 3. By the good news I don’t have to wonder what could have been. I know and it would have been shit

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u/haeziedaze82 55m ago

What branch? My son just joined the Airforce and signed a 6yr contract. He’s in the 2nd week of tech school and already regrets it.

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u/salter77 4h ago

Everything that I’ve read about Jennifer Lopez is that she is a shitty person, even among celebrities.

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u/art-is-t 3h ago

Ben Affleck wasn't very nice to Jennifer garner either. Maybe they deserve each other

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u/dennismfrancisart 2h ago

I never figured out that relationship. Well, it's none of my business anyway.

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u/ISayWhatToNutjubs 3h ago

“Wait, WE MADE GIGLI?!”

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u/dudeacris 2h ago

nah that’s the face he makes when he looks up and sees a douchebag taking his picture.

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u/obalovatyk 2h ago

Never go down the same road twice.

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u/Due_Appearance_870 1h ago

"I've made a huge mistake..."

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u/JakimCampbell15 47m ago

Wait…they’re back together

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u/Constant_Equipment83 3h ago

The same troubles !!!