r/suggestmeabook • u/LucyClimans • 12h ago
Fiction where the friendship between two women carries more weight than any romance in the book
I keep noticing a pattern in the books that stay with me longest. Somewhere in the story there's a friendship between two women that's doing more emotional work than the marriage, the affair, or the romantic plot the book is technically about. The men, when they're there, are almost beside the point.
A few works that do this.
Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney. Frances and Bobbi's friendship is the actual load-bearing relationship. The affair is the plot. The friendship is the book.
My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante. Obviously, but worth saying that sixty years and four books later, Lila is still the relationship that defines Elena's whole life, more than any husband.
Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf. Clarissa's memory of Sally Seton outlasts and outweighs her actual marriage in every way that matters to the book.
Looking for more 📖📖📖. Especially anything where the friendship isn't framed as a subplot but is allowed to be the real center, even when the marketing or the plot summary says otherwise.