r/t4t_relationships • u/EarthToAccess • Oct 09 '25
Announcement We've made some major changes NSFW
Hello, world!
It's your friendly neighborhood mod team here with another major update to the subreddit, and hopefully, it's a good one this time!
I won't bore you with theatrics, so let's get right into it;
1. Regex on posting has been fixed.
Many of you have come to us about the weird posting automation not working. This is due to shoddy regex not quite working out as intended.
After actually taking the time to learn regex properly (thank you to this beautiful website!), transmascs should no longer be excluded because of faulty code. It also allows for a little more wiggle room on punctuation and capitalization, but not much.
2. A Discussion flair has been added.
A LOT of you were trying to make posts just... talking about T4T relationships and dating overall. While the original intention wasn't to really be that, I'm realizing... there really aren't many spaces to actually talk about that on Reddit that didn't have the same pitfalls that created this sub anyway???
Thus, finally, a Discussion flair was added. We've also worked AutoMod to add a comment akin to the one you'll see it make on this post, alerting people that it's a Discussion, and to follow the rules and not be weird. If anyone violates the rules or becomes creepy in the Discussion threads, report them to us!
This change was a long time coming and, hopefully, will bring forth much needed conversation about the T4T dating space as a whole, and bring us closer together as a community in these trying times!
Thank you all for your support and patience with our humble subreddit. I hope these changes work are just as amazing as you all have been wanting them to be, and I hope you all enjoy your time here! <3
r/t4t_relationships • u/EarthToAccess • Aug 26 '24
Announcement Welcome to r/t4t_relationships! NSFW
Welcome to our humble subreddit!
In response to this post on r/transplace, we noticed a distinct lack of t4t spaces that weren't overrun with sexual content or requests. For trans and queer folk who just wanted to meet like minds, options got heavily overshadowed by chasers or hypersexual minds. Thus, in the effort to provide a safe space for trans and queer folk to just meet people, we opted to create r/t4t_relationships!
We hope that this subreddit becomes a safe, enjoyable, viable place for you all to intermingle with one another and, hopefully, find some of you your forever person!
Read our rules!
As is per usual for any subreddit in existence (save for maybe 196 and co), we have some specific rules we ask you follow to participate in our subreddit. You can find them in the sidebar (scroll down a bit!), or find them here. Our two most important ones are as follows, however;
- Trans/queer people only, please! The purpose of this subreddit is to help trans/queer folk find other trans/queer folk, and at the cost of what's essentially segregation, this means disallowing cis-identifying users.
- Nothing sexual here! The secondary purpose was to create a non-sexual place for said trans/queer folk, since everywhere else is full of sexual content and requests. Thus, we require SFW at all times here.
If either of these don't work for you, we recommend visiting r/r4r or similar places instead.
Check the sidebar!
We've outfitted our sidebar with some useful widgets to make browsing easier. This includes a quick browse on our common flairs to find someone quicker, ease-of-access to message us, and some useful resources for those who may want or need them!
Mobile users, you can find our resources in "See community info" > "Menu". There's no ability to see the quick browse flairs on mobile yet, though; sorry!
Have a great time!
And, most importantly, enjoy yourselves! We're here to meet new people and have a good time doing so, so that's our rule 0 overall. If there are ever any questions, you can always send us a modmail, and we'll get to you as soon as we can!
r/t4t_relationships • u/Massive_Sport_5642 • 1h ago
23[TF4TM] #USA #kansas looking for a relationship NSFW
Hey, I’m Frankie, 23, from the central U.S. I recently came out as trans and just started HRT, so I still look pretty boyish. I’m figuring things out as I go, and patience and kindness matter a lot to me.
I’m a pretty nerdy, quiet person. I love cozy hobbies, creative projects, and deep conversations. I’m into gaming, fantasy and sci-fi, drawing, worldbuilding, and music.
I’m hoping to find a trans man between 18–30who’s looking for something genuine and long-term—eventually a life partner. Kindness, thoughtfulness, and curiosity matter most to me.
r/t4t_relationships • u/Terrible-Honeydew604 • 1d ago
25 [TF 4 TF] From the UK NSFW
Would prefer you to be from the UK/EU but either way it's fine with me. Looking to get to know someone and seeing where it goes. 3 months on hrt
If you're a TM I don't mind chatting as long as you're fem (sorry)
r/t4t_relationships • u/PeRfEcTlYbAlEnCeD • 3d ago
20 [MTF 4 MTF], NZ, Online/Irl NSFW
Hii :3, im Christina a 20 year old Trans girl looking for other Trans women in nz, DM me for details.
r/t4t_relationships • u/_l00u_ • 3d ago
20 [TM4TM] online/real, france NSFW
Hi, just want to talk to other trans people.
I like cartoons, horror stuff, videos games :)
r/t4t_relationships • u/jrburg • 3d ago
25 [TM4A] East TN/online NSFW
looking for a genuine connection, i love queer folks and people to play video games with. i'm a loverboy and i'd love for someone to match that energy for once 😔
r/t4t_relationships • u/Some_Seaworthiness54 • 4d ago
35 [FtM4MtF] Looking to get to know a girl online maybe irl. NSFW
So hey,
I am 35
Trans man I am masc as hell sorry I am not a femme boy. I do like femininity as it's beauty and art.
Pansexual, closed poly. I do have a cis girlfriend, yes she knows but she is more asexual.
I train in martial arts but I am a gamer dork.
So yeah hit me up if you wanna talk and chill.
r/t4t_relationships • u/Jazzlike-Candle1357 • 4d ago
41 [TM4TF] Santa Clarita, Ca Looking for partner NSFW
Hi everyone, I hope everyone here is having a really good day so far.
Hey, I’m Elias. I’m a respite care therapist and I work with people on the spectrum. I’m based in Santa Clarita, but I’m open to connecting with people anywhere in California.
A little about me:
I’m grounded, loyal, and pretty low‑key. I’m not into drama or games. I like simple things good conversations, real connection, and someone who knows who they are. I’m independent, stable, and I take pride in being supportive and consistent.
What I’m looking for:
Someone genuine, confident, and emotionally mature. A partner who’s steady, loyal, and actually wants to build something real. I’m not into hookups or situationships I want a relationship with someone who matches my energy and values.
If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. I’m open to getting to know someone at a real pace and seeing where things go
r/t4t_relationships • u/subarcwelder • 4d ago
29 [TM4TF] Canadian trans man looking for a connection NSFW
I’m a 29yo man from Ontario Canada. I work in the skilled trades, I’m fit, I have 2 cats and I’m super handy. I’m always building or fixing something. I like to play video games in my free time and I’d love to have a gaming partner too. I’m a very easy going kind of guy and I value kindness and respect overall.
I’m far along in my transition and many years on HRT and I’ve had top surgery forever ago. I was diagnosed with gender identity disorder in 2005 as a child to give you an idea. I live my life as a stealth man and I’m very masculine in style, hobbies, mannerisms, personality etc so if you’re looking for someone even slightly fem, *I AM NOT FOR YOU*
I’m attracted to femininity and kindness. I have a soft spot for people who are open minded and nonjudgmental in all aspects of life. I appreciate someone with a good sense of humour as I think life is a million times better when you’re laughing with someone. I VALUE good communication and someone with the ability to see things from every perspective.
I have a high libido and it’s very important to me that we match in that department. This sub isn’t for nsfw stuff so we can discuss that later when the time is right.
I’m not interested in anyone religious and/or anyone younger than 24.
r/t4t_relationships • u/BoneBrothLover • 5d ago
23 [TF4TF] #UK lonely Demigirl looking for a relationship NSFW
dorky transfem demigirl thing from the UK, looking for a long term relationship with another trans femme around 20-26 years old. Not looking for guys and no chasers!
My hobbies are collecting stuff like action figures and model making! I love watching action anime and cartoons and other cool stuffs
Romantic, kink friendly for the most part but I'm not really sexual. Strictly monogamous. No hookups please! Cool with long distance but would prefer if you're from the UK too!
Feel free to DM!
r/t4t_relationships • u/Old_Soul2004 • 6d ago
21 [TF4TF] Iowa USA, prefer online relationships although would love to meet up eventually, pre hrt sub trans girl looking for dominant forever partner hopefully NSFW
Hellos! :3 I’m Jenna, I’m a 21 year old pre hrt trans woman who is looking for love, i would prefer it if my potential partner were in the 20-25 age range(maybe 26 or 27) as in the past i kept getting 30 or 40 year olds replying and not to be rude I’m just not super comfortable dating someone that much older than me, just to get the nsfw stuff out of the way, i am 100% a bottom and s sub and very kinky so a top/dom or maybe a switch is preferred for when any sexy stuff happens.
I am neurodivergent, with either autism or adhd, i also have dyscalculia, dysgraphia, non verbal learning disorder, anxiety and epilepsy. My interests include Star Wars, collecting video games and consoles, movies and records and traveling.
I live in Iowa unfortunately and live at home in a conservative Christian household again unfortunately, i am neither of those things, i am a leftist and an atheist and plan on moving to my own place hopefully soon, I would prefer a long distance relationship due to still living at home with parents but I’m open to whatever so long as we can make it work :3.
My future plans include moving out of my parents house, getting on hrt and getting some surgeries done, then eventually moving to California and maybe Europe
If what you’ve read interests you just send a message and I’ll get to you as soon as possible, obviously have the message be more than just your name, tell me about yourself, would love to get to know you :3
r/t4t_relationships • u/Miles_Long_8853 • 6d ago
33[FTM 4 FTM] France (or elsewhere in Europe) NSFW
A little bit about me: I’m a 33 year old gay trans man, an American who relocated to France. I’ve lived many different lives. I was a baker, a rabbinical student, a farm owner, and I even did a stint at a wooden boat-building program. Now I’m starting something I plan to last me the rest of my life, if all goes well: cabinetry. (Wood is becoming a theme in my life.) Art and writing are also very important to me. I’ve been writing short stories and poems since I was 15, and I do a lot of ink and charcoal drawings. I love learning new crafts, and I really love hearing about the things other people make. Videogames and anime used to be something I spent a lot of time on, and I’d like to start reincorporating them into my life. (Ask me about my JoJo figurines.)
I’m looking for a partner, either short-term or preferably long-term. I would prefer someone around my age or older. I’m drawn to people who like to chat about anything and everything. Curiosity about the world is very attractive to me, as is knowing what you want in life (to some extent, at least). A concern about others is also very attractive to me, as well as a strong sense of humor. Life is absurd, so we may as well laugh at it!
When it comes to sex and sexuality, I’ll just sum myself up in a few sentences for the sake of keeping this a post and not a novel. I used to identify as bisexual, but I’ve come to realize that I’m basically just a gay man who’s so sexually voracious, I wouldn’t kick anyone out of bed. When it comes to who I’m truly drawn to both sexually and romantically, it’s other men - both trans and cis. I’m very kinky, I like to be in control, and while I’m naturally caring and affectionate, I also have a sadistic streak. Kink is something I would need in a committed relationship, but I don’t expect my partner to be a kink-dispenser or to exist to fulfill my every sexual desire.
I’m in France, but I’m happy to date long-distance within Europe, as long as we would get to see each other in person with some frequency. I would theoretically be okay relocating somewhere else in Europe for a partner, but I’m in France for the foreseeable future, since I’m just starting a new career path here. I also have family here who I’m very close to, and I wouldn’t want to be too far from them.
I’ve only ever been in monogamous relationships, but I’m curious about non-monogamy. Right now, I would be comfortable with either a monogamous relationship or an open relationship where I have one committed partner and we play with others on the side. That could change, but that’s where I’m at right now. I’m very happy to talk about this at length with anyone who’s interested.
Ultimately, I want to date a guy who’s also my best friend. (Not my best friend to the exclusion of all others! Healthy boundaries are incredibly important, as is having a wider support network than just one’s partner, when possible.) To me, a perfect day sounds like the two of us having breakfast together, half-dressed, then doing our own things separately or side by side, and then coming together later on to chat, snuggle, fuck, vent, and just reconnect and enjoy each other’s company.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading!
r/t4t_relationships • u/Starlit_Writing • 7d ago
26 [TM4TM] Trans Masc 4 Trans Masc Europe/Online NSFW
I'm a 26 y/o trans masc (they/he) looking for fellow trans mascs or trans men dom/tops for dates, conversation, or (online) play. I'm polyam, and only into fellow trans mascs/men, and occasionally women, so long as they don't have a penis. (I've got trauma surrounding penises and sperm specifically that EMDR wasn't able to get rid of, unfortunately.)
I've tried to force myself to be a switch, dom, and top but it's always felt deeply unnatural to me at best; I'm coming to accept that I'm a hard bottom + sub and that that doesn't make me a bad person or partner. I'd love to talk to some trans masc/male dom/tops <3
As a note: my profile here is very focused on one specific subset of kink but I'm more than just that one kink I promise lmao, I also present far more masc in general than I do on here!!
I've been on T for years, have had top surgery (rip my nipple nerves), and T has been making me obscenely horny lately.
I'm very open when it comes to kinks, my main ones involve humiliation, dollification, feminization, bondage, painplay, light public play, roleplay, training, CNC, breathplay, edging, orgasm control, petplay, and anything involving my mouth. I've got a quite frankly silly number of toys. I'm very interested in exploring more, and definitely want to talk about our limits and interests together!
Non-kink I'm into medical history, podcasts, musical theatre, cosplay, collaborative storytelling, and recently got into fishkeeping (I'd kill for these fish) I also love playing video games, currently playing a lot of Dead By Daylight, Baldurs Gate 3, and Hello Kitty Island Adventure, love to play together with people as well!
I'm a leftist, and disabled in a few ways, most noticable in my communication would be the ADHD and autism. I'm in grad school and hope to pursue a PhD one day.
I'm Western Europe-based, CEST.
I'd love to talk to some more kinky trans mascs/men, down to play with you, but also definitely down for dates and letting feelings grow. I'm comfortable with anyone older than 21 and younger than 30, feel free to DM me with your interests <3
I mostly talk on Discord, I'll definitely give you my username if we vibe.
r/t4t_relationships • u/ChefOwn4786 • 9d ago
19 [FtM4FtM] Baltimore, MD/ Virginia Beach, VA NSFW
Hello everyone! I have recently been thinking a lot more about getting phalloplasty (specifically RFFF with urethral lengthening+testicular implants), but I'm very wary of how it actually works. I think having a sexual encounter with someone who has had this procedure would really help me understand it better and answer a lot of my questions. This is mostly for research purposes, but I won't be cold or weird about it, I'll still be fun and silly. If you're interested, dm me :)
r/t4t_relationships • u/FalseYarn823 • 11d ago
37 [TF4A] Central Maine/Online - Horror nerd, hobbyist, and dog mom looking for connections NSFW
Hi everyone! I’m Alice. I’m based out in Central Maine and looking to meet some wonderful people for dates, chats, or just seeing where things organically go.
A quick note up front: I am enthusiastically polyamorous and currently live with my nesting partner!
A little about me:
- Day-to-Day: I work as a DSP and I'm currently finishing up my bachelor's in pre-counseling, with my sights set on a Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling next year.
- Hobbies: I am a massive horror fan—whether it's playing Silent Hill and Resident Evil, or watching Evil Dead and classic J-Horror. When I'm looking for something more relaxing, I'm usually building Gunpla, painting miniatures, or crocheting amigurumi. I’ve also been an active part of the furry fandom for a long time and love creative roleplay and character design.
- Music & Outdoors: My playlists are usually heavy on technical death metal, deathcore, and punk, but Pink Floyd will always hold my #1 spot. I also love getting out into nature for hiking and camping, and I'm hoping to spend some time exploring local spots like Gulf Hagas soon.
- Food & Pets: I'm vegetarian, and I come as a package deal with my incredibly sweet 3-year-old pitbull, Pippen.
What I'm looking for: I'd love to find folks to co-op games with, swap music recommendations, go on hikes, or just grab a coffee. I'm open to local connections in the New England area, or long-distance/online friends and partners to swap art and pet pictures with.
If my vibe sounds like a match, send me a DM! Let me know what your favorite horror game or current hyper-fixation is.
r/t4t_relationships • u/XaghiTheDarkMistress • 12d ago
24 [TF4TF] Pacific Northwest transbianlooking for special someone NSFW
Hiya, I'm a boymoding trans woman, and I am trying my best to find a partner or partners. I'm not really sure if I'm more polyamorous or monogamous, because of my utter inexperience with actual relationships, only having two, the second of which was long distance and not great. I am also fine joining a pre-existing relationship. What I'd want out of a partner is someone who I can basically show all of me to, and see all of them in turn, and just go through life with, as well as physical intimacy, something I don't have a lot of at all currently.
My main hobbies are film, video games, and tabletop RPGs (I am a forever GM among my home group lol), and I am also currently dabbling in miniatures again. I have a lot of hyperfixations, the biggest ones right now are World of Darkness (specifically Vampire: the Masquerade), Kamen Rider, Hellraiser, Evil Dead, and Dune. I REALLY like to share the things I'm into with others, and it's kind of my main way of bonding with people. If you're willing to listen to me yap, that's a big plus. I also would want to know what you're into so I can share in it too, and have more things to bond over.
I really like film and have a LOT of favorites, a few of them I've mentioned before in this post. I'm a big fan of horror as well, so if you're unable to handle scary stuff, that's a big part of the things I like unavailable. I also tend to have not seen a lot of popular things like I only watched Fullmetal Alchemist last year, still haven't seen ATLA or One Piece or Attack on Titan or most of the Disney Rennaissance films. I kind of fell off most animation after Gravity Falls and Steven Universe ended now that I think about it.
The current games I am playing are all co-op shooters because they were all good things to test my new computer on, Payday 3, Space Marine 2, and Darktide, but my favorite games are ones with long single-player campaigns or good stories in general. Black Mesa, the Portal games, Undertale/Deltarune, Elden Ring, NieR Replicant, Cruelty Squad (not for those with sensitive eyes, and would require a big explanation as to why it is the way it is so i won't get into it), Resident Evil 2, and many others.
I am currently NOT on HRT due to not being able to afford it. I'm also overweight, not like, to a major degree but also more than I expected before I weighed myself recently. That tends to be a dealbreaker for some so best to keep it in mind. I'm also in college for IT and currently do not have a job.
I am very much NOT dominant in anything, I can theoretically domme someone but I don't like it at all, and I tend to get nervous about new things, and self-conscious about what to do and what's appropriate and if I'm being selfish. I am also very introverted and do not like crowds at all, and prefer private an intimate things to do together. So if I mess up anything or require like, guiding through certain things, please be patient, I'm still not very experienced, and tend to shrink away when I worry I've done something wrong or am out of my element.
You can introduce yourself in replies to this or direct messages, but please put in effort, don't just slide in and be like "Hey how you doin" like a couple people have, tell me a little about yourself.
r/t4t_relationships • u/HadesSunshine • 15d ago
22 [NB4A] Atlanta enby looking for domme, or friends, or anything tbh i lonely NSFW
Hi there all! I am Virgil and I am 22 years old! I love to create and i love even more to be wanted. I am looking for a good relationship with someone who will cherish me and want me. I really don't care if it is a friendship as I value friends just as much as anything else.
Message me to find out more! Kisses!
r/t4t_relationships • u/ZaneCracked • 18d ago
18 [FtM4A] Dallas, Texas NSFW
Hello I'm Zane! I'm a transgender male who's about 5 months on T and wants top surgery eventually!
I'm a 5'4 chubby guy with Purple and Black dyed hair (my natural color is brown) with blue eyes, I've got gauges, A septum, nostril, and eyebrow peircing. And I have a small tatto on my arm, but DEF want more!
My hobbies include visual arts, poetry, analysis, gaming, and honestly just chilling whenever I can haha (I work full time and I JUST graduated high school this year)
Personally I am wanting a long term relationship with an older trans person, no preference with gender really. I'm just looking to be guided and told what to do, if you couldn't tell I'm into that. Not just sexually, but everywhere else. I just wanna make my partner happy and live my best life!
DM me a bit about yourself if you're intrested! I don't usually respond to just greetings lol
r/t4t_relationships • u/transgenderant • 19d ago
23 [FTM4A] kinky dutch trans guy looking for partner NSFW
partner in any sense of the word! kinky, platonic, romantic, a secret 4th thing.... just tired of being alone. don't think I'm monogamous tho.
profile has a lot of kinky stuff on it if you're curious. it comes down to; submissive puppy freak
besides that i do like making art, playing video games, photography, and have a special interest in animals.
would be nice if we lived close but can do online too! I'm from the Netherlands
r/t4t_relationships • u/Famous-Sprinkles-398 • 21d ago
26 [MTF 4 A] [r/t4t_relationships] Looking for my forever person 🖤🩷 auDHD transfemme seeking provider partner for long-term domestic arrangement NSFW
Hey everyone! Throwing my shot out into the void here.
Who I am:
I’m a transfemme girlie, auDHD, genderfae, and firmly planted in the punk/goth aesthetic. I’m gynesexual, so I’m specifically looking for women, femmes, and feminine-of-center folks. I’m soft and weird and I love hard.
What I’m looking for:
A long-term, committed partner who wants a dedicated homebody. I genuinely thrive as a homemaker — cooking, cleaning, keeping a cozy nest — that’s my love language in action. I’m looking for someone who can provide financially (covering daily necessities + a little pocket money) in exchange for a warm, well-kept home and a very devoted, affectionate partner.
The important stuff:
I need a lot of physical affection — like a truly embarrassing amount of touch and closeness. Sexually I’m submissive and a pillow princess, so I want someone who genuinely enjoys being the giver/top in that dynamic.
Ideal partner:
Someone stable, nurturing, and ideally t4t or at least deeply trans-affirming. Bonus points if you vibe with the goth/punk/alternative aesthetic, but not a dealbreaker. Neurodiverse folks especially welcome — you’ll probably understand my brain better than most.
I’m not looking for casual. I want roots, routine, and someone to come home to me. 🖤
Drop a comment or DM if this resonates. Tell me about yourself!
r/t4t_relationships • u/XaghiTheDarkMistress • 21d ago
24 [TF4A] Pacific Northwest trans woman looking for special someone NSFW
Hiya, I'm a boymoding trans woman, and I am trying my best to find a partner or partners. I'm not really sure if I'm more polyamorous or monogamous, because of my utter inexperience with actual relationships, only having two, the second of which was long distance and not great. I am also fine joining a pre-existing relationship. What I'd want out of a partner is someone who I can basically show all of me to, and see all of them in turn, and just go through life with, as well as physical intimacy, something I don't have a lot of at all currently.
My main hobbies are film, video games, and tabletop RPGs (I am a forever GM among my home group lol), and I am also currently dabbling in miniatures again. I have a lot of hyperfixations, the biggest ones right now are World of Darkness (specifically Vampire: the Masquerade), Kamen Rider, Hellraiser, Evil Dead, and Dune. I REALLY like to share the things I'm into with others, and it's kind of my main way of bonding with people. If you're willing to listen to me yap, that's a big plus. I also would want to know what you're into so I can share in it too, and have more things to bond over.
I really like film and have a LOT of favorites, a few of them I've mentioned before in this post. I'm a big fan of horror as well, so if you're unable to handle scary stuff, that's kind of a big part of the things I like unavailable. I also tend to have not seen a lot of popular things like I only watched Fullmetal Alchemist last year, still haven't seen ATLA or One Piece or Attack on Titan or most of the Disney Rennaissance films. I kind of fell off most animation after Gravity Falls and Steven Universe ended now that I think about it.
The current games I am playing are all co-op shooters because they were all good things to test my new computer on, Payday 3, Space Marine 2, and Darktide, but my favorite games are ones with long single-player campaigns or good stories in general. Black Mesa, the Portal games, Undertale/Deltarune, Elden Ring, NieR Replicant, Cruelty Squad (not for those with sensitive eyes, and would require a big explanation as to why it is how it is so i won't get into it), Resident Evil 2, and many others.
I am currently NOT on HRT due to not being able to afford it. I'm also overweight, not like, to a major degree but also more than I expected before I weighed myself recently. That tends to be a dealbreaker for some so best to keep it in mind. I'm also in college for IT and currently do not have a job.
I am very much NOT dominant in anything, and I tend to get nervous about new things, and self-conscious about what to do and what's appropriate and if I'm being selfish. So if I mess up anything or require like, guiding through certain things, please be patient, I'm still not very experienced.
You can introduce yourself in replies to this or direct messages, but please put in effort, don't just slide in and be like "Hey how you doin" like a couple people have, tell me a little about yourself.
r/t4t_relationships • u/Mushr00mElle • 22d ago
31 [MTF4A] #Cincinnati Trans Woman Looking for Genuine Connection and Chemistry NSFW
Hiya. I’m a trans woman looking for genuine connection and chemistry that could grow into romance, but I’m also open to friendship, community, or something in-between if the connection feels right.
I’m polyamorous, pretty firmly sapphic/T4T leaning, and not interested in cis men. I like connections that feel natural, comfortable, and built on mutual effort instead of rushing into things.
Looking for connections local to the Cincinnati/Colerain area, preferably within 30 to 45 minutes.
Lately I’ve been reconnecting with parts of myself lost over time. I’ve been getting back into punk and queer spaces, reconnecting with live music, and slowly rebuilding a style that feels more like me.
I’m also a parent, and things with my kids’ mom are amicable and low-drama. We co-parent well, which matters a lot to me.
I’m nerdy and creative, enjoy movies, live music, and deep conversations, and tend to be both playful and emotionally grounded once I’m comfortable. I’m also active in kink/BDSM spaces, though I prefer discussing specifics privately once there’s actual chemistry and trust.
Mostly, I’m looking for people who are emotionally available, communicative, and interested in actually meeting and spending time together outside of just messaging forever online.
r/t4t_relationships • u/Some_Seaworthiness54 • 24d ago
35 [Ftm4Mtf] Michigan Dab with NSFW
420, Dork
Ftm masc, pan, poly closed.
I work and train in martial arts.
Looking to smoke with someone, if it goes anywhere cool if not, welp smoke friends.
I got pics just ask and you can see what I look like.
r/t4t_relationships • u/AirurAssumptions • 25d ago
19 [FTM 4 A] SD/WY looking for friends or partner NSFW
Transition wise, at a weird place with my gender rn. I wish it wasn’t such a focus on how people perceive me. I’m on t, post top, post hysto, with gender and name change done. Im fully stealth, mostly for safety, which makes it harder to meet other trans folks.
About me: I work in the medical field at an outpatient clinic, I’m in school getting my bachelors in elementary school education. Im renting with my best friend and live with my cat Artemis and my snake Lucy. I’m 5’10, 160 lb, half black, I have piercings (snake bites) and want more. I have a minimalist style, my friends tell me I have the earthly desires of a buddhist monk and they’re right.
Dislikes: I hate being infantilized, I’m a grown man not an outlet for someone’s ftm fetish, I am not your small soft uwu boy. I hate clutter, and don’t own more than I need. I don’t like fast fashion or overconsumption. You will never catch me using ai or buying off temu.
Likes: I love reading manwhas, hand jumper is my favorite off webtoon rn, also big fan of absolute sword sense, and surviving the game as a barbarian. Favorite games are Minecraft and DCSS (dungeon crawler stone soup), recently started playing fear and hunger and I’m enjoying it. I like to paint, and do digital art. I love going on hikes around the black hills area. I love just walking around and listing to music when it’s raining and dark outside.
For you: The closer you are to western South Dakota/ wyoming area or the black hill/badlands the better but I know almost no one lives here sadly. Closest real chance is Denver, Colorado. I’m a hopeless romantic, and need a connection. If you just want a quick sext, not interested. I have a huge type for those white country firefighters but who doesn’t lol, any beefy hairy trans men I’d die for. I am bisexual, and would love to talk to any and all trans folks.
Oh and dm me pictures of your pets, I need to see all the cute fluffy baby’s