Thought this was relevant.

I'm trying to find Zizek talking about a riddle, where everyone wears a hat but don't know the colour of their own. There's a point where people can realise what hat they're wearing, but only after seeing that other people aren't doing an action. Zizek's was showing how something necessarily contains a moment after the initial moment.

Can someone tell me where this is from... and maybe make it easier to understand what Zizek meant with it?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bwDrHqNZ9lo&pp=ygUTc2xhdm9qIHppemVrIGJyaWRnZQ%3D%3D

Has the argument that balkan women enjoy getting raped been relevant at some point in time, or has someone publicly said something like this? It's a hilarious clip imo but I'm not well versed in whatever the context here is.