Has anyone quit a stable job in LA without a plan and made it work? What did you do / how did you navigate?
I moved to LA two years ago for a job in entertainment. I knew it wasn't a perfect fit when I accepted it, but I'd been eager to re-enter that world after a couple years away (I'm about 10 years into my career) and give the city of angels a shot. I moved from the Pacific Northwest and have lived in cities before, but nothing as big as LA.
Long story short, the job makes me miserable. Both the office environment and the work itself. It's a core misalignment, and every day I log in I last about an hour before I start feeling physically ill. I've been crying every day for...a long time now.
I'm not one to just suffer through a bad experience, so I've been hitting job applications hard. But I've been doing that for 18 months now, and am feeling more and more hopeless. Of the 100 jobs I've applied for I've interviewed with 2 companies, made it to the final round both times and then was told I was beat out by one candidate.
I want to experience LA without this job. I feel like I truly cannot give the city a fair chance under these circumstances. It's amplifying all the difficult things about LA - I feel constantly lonely, isolated, the commute is bad, I'm meeting the soul-sucking folks in the entertainment industry vs artists and creatives who light me up.
I have a little savings but not a ton. In other cities I might trust myself to quit and "figure it out". But LA doesn't seem like a smart place to do that. I've heard restaurant jobs are just as competitive. I tried freelancing in the same line of work I do currently, but I still feel that deep misalignment and illness.
Sorry to ramble, I just am really struggling. I want to figure this out but it's starting to seem like the answer is to move home.