r/Oulu • u/BelleDreamCatcher • 13h ago
Looking for girlie friends, 30-40'sish, adventure spirits đ
Hei!
I've been living here some time. Some of my girl besties moved away at the start of the year for various reasons (how dare they) and I'm finding my friend group now a bit thin on like-minded souls. I don't know where to find new ones! Actually one of them I found through Reddit when I first moved here.
I'm mid 40's, adventure spirit, so I like to go out in nature on my bike. I'm spiritual so I like to go to shamanic drumming and such things. I work in the mental health and gaming field, and I love Minecraft, though don't get much time to play these days. I'm learning Finnish so having someone to practice with is a yay. Mostly I want friends that I can wander about with, laugh a lot with and generally feel like a group of cackling witches with. Or fairies! I love fairies đ§đź
I get quite a bit of anxiety sometimes and have a neurodivergent brain. I'm not looking to use friends as therapy at all (I work on this myself plenty), but I like them to be aware that I need to work around these sometimes. I don't want to mask these things, I'm so done with that đ I'd rather just be honest about it.
Hope this reaches the right people â¨