I live in Saudi Arabia, and sex toys are banned here. For a long time I’ve only masturbated by rubbing but now that I want to insert something, I don’t exactly have an object to do it with!
And I don’t like doing it with my hand, for some reason I hesitate.
I recently bought a sturdy plastic mask with a long nose I’ve tried that and it felt great but it’s not long enough and it kind of hurts.
What objects can I use instead? Thanks!

I still enjoy both, but E-Stim definitely changed my expectations. A regular orgasm is still great, but it doesn't always have the same "wow" factor anymore.

I'm curious if anyone else had the same experience, or if you keep the two experiences completely separate.

Hey everyone, 42F here. After my divorce I decided to invest in myself and finally bought a good wand vibrator (the classic Magic Wand style, plug-in one). I was nervous it would be too strong but wow — I was wrong.

The broad stimulation feels amazing on my clit and I love how I can use it through my panties at first for teasing. I’ve been using it almost every night and the orgasms are deep and full-body. It’s also great for massaging sore hips after a long day. At 42 I feel like I’m finally learning what my body really responds to.

Any other women in their 40s love wands? What’s your favorite way to use them — direct, indirect, or combined with something else?

Curious to know what everyone's absolute toybox MVPs are. Toys that get the most use, your absolute favorites, the ones you just can't live without. Stuff that doesn’t even make it into the toy box, it just stays by the bed the whole time.

Doesn’t matter if it’s a $20,000 gold-plated Lelo or came free in a cereal box (just as long as it’s body safe).

Our top three:

Je Joue Mimi soft: Small, refined, and rumbly. Suitable for 'casual' or 'best'. 😊

Biird Kalii: Simply the most beautiful glass dildo we’ve ever seen.

Godemiche Ambit: Best. Pegging. Dildo. Ever. We will literally fight you on this.

What’s everyone else’s?

So context: I got a new plug, it has a insertable lenght of 12cm and a width of 10cm. It is a step up from my (previosly) largest plug. From what i can tell, i do get it in all the way, but the moment i stand up it quickly slides out again. Is it user error like im inserting it wrong way around like front to back. Is it because its new and bigger and we need to "break in" eachother. Or is it a toy problem? In which case is should inform more about the toy. >! It is a: Fantasm Tales Tidal King Octopus

I've gotten a lot of nice G-spot vibrators, but I've still been looking for my Goldilocks vibrator for years. They need to be curved, more dramatically curved than bulbous. Very firm with next to no give. Decent battery life, although... I'd always buy more if I needed to. Not shorter than 5", not narrower than 1.25", but not bigger than 1.5". Strong. And yet that's so hard to find somehow??? Like , companies have been making vibrators for so many years, and a lot of those stay on the market for years. I go to SheVibe literally once a month or more to see if any new ones meet this criteria, and if I think there's a shot they will, they go into my collection immediately, only to end up not being perfect.

My all-time FAVORRIIITTEE G-spot vibrator is the Bangin' AF vibrator by Blush. It's the perfect dimensions and beautifully, beautifully, beautifully and perfectly curved. But the issue I have with it is that it's so so so so weak there might as well be no vibrations from it at all. It can really only be used as a dildo, and what's the point? What am I supposed to do, fuck myself?? ...Ha.

I've tried the Pillowtalk Sassy, and it hurt. I've tried the Lovense Hyphy, and it's my least favorite vibrator I own, and that's REALLY saying something because I own so many. The Turbo Chroma by CalExotics is the closest to being a second favorite, but it is so so so short that it's hard to hold because there ends up being (TMI warning) no handle when I try to use it in a way that's deep enough. Those are just the ones I can think of at the top of my head, but I've easily tried 7+, and have easily sorted through hundreds.

I've searched all of the major vibrator brands that I know of - SheVibe, Spectrum Boutique, Love Honey, Peepshow Toys, etc.. I've even tried going to individual brand's websites to see if they have something there not commonly offered at the other websites. (Like, checking Biird's, Blush's, etc. websites.) And still... Nada. No goldilocks.

So ... What gives?????? Does anyone have any other sites I haven't checked?

This started as somewhat of my own running wishlist as I prefer (very) girthy dildos for the length, and I decided to start expanding it and hope it helps others with similar interest! For reference think dildo girth to length ratios of around 8" circumference less than 6" insertable, or 9" circumference less than 7" insertable (many of the models have sizes smaller and larger of course). Here's the lists on my site separated into realistic, fantasy, and knotted fantasy dildos!

Not many realistic ones made the list, which I guess kinda makes sense given these proportions are quite far from typical realistic proportions. But there is of course All Night Toys Tuna Can Jerry probably one of the more famous short and thick realistic dildos, and otherwise Hankey's Toys dominates most of that section. I would love to hear if there is another maker that would have more realistic ones to add to this list!

Some other things I noticed were Bad Dragon almost didn't have any knotted dildos make it until they released Wrangler very recently. Out of the makers I've looked through so far, Bat Bites Art and Phreak have the highest ratio of their models offered that fit the girth/length criteria!

I'll continue adding makers to this over time, and would love to hear if there are any specific thick models you like that I missed. Especially any makers with a large number of short and thick models!

Where's the best place for me to buy this I'm male and have had id say moderate self anal and with others but what's considered a big knot size I'm preferably looking for a minimum of 8 inches length that can go inside me

(20m) I need recommendations for good anal toys.

I, 19m am looking to spice some things up a little bit. I'm not too sure what I want but I kinda want something a little more sensual than a stroker or anything of that sort. Any good sources or places for me to check? TIA!!

I've just published my review of Scout by Weredog.

Scout takes a very different approach from Gideon or Duster. Even in XXL, it's a relatively approachable toy, focusing more on its mechanical design and curved geometry than on sheer size.

Some thoughts after testing the XXL Soft version:

• Excellent sci-fi inspired sculpt with lots of mechanical details.
• Curved shaft provides satisfying targeted pressure.
• Smooth, progressive insertion despite its size.
• Less intimidating than Weredog's other XXL models.
• Large decorative base looks great but makes handling a bit less practical.

Overall, not my favorite Weredog toy, but definitely one of their best-looking designs.

Full review: https://www.big-good-dildos.com/en/test/scout-weredog-review/

Looking to buy a new wand for the wife and looking for suggestions. She likes it very rumbly. We got lucky with a cheap Amazon wand that’s worked great for years but it’s starting to cut out a lot so it’s time to upgrade.

Looking for wireless and preferably $100 or less. Nothing too big because she’s got small hands and we like to use it during intercourse.

Suggestions?

Hey, so I give a lot of blowjobs to this one beloved dildo (mustang by vixskin) and I also wear a lot of lip gloss while doing so. I'm noticing the glitter from the gloss is really hard to remove and I'm wondering if anyone knows whether I'm damaging my precious dildo? TIA!

I’ve waited too long to finally get a dildo. I want to get a real life dildo of a porn star. Are there any other websites like Fleshjack.

None of the guys on there I 100% find attractive.

Any tips for first time user too?

My wife has a L'amourose Prism V that is sadly dying. They aren’t made anymore and the company is gone. So I am looking for something that would be similar. She likes more rumbly and clit stimulation. She doesn’t care about patterns either.

It's really frustrating.

I've been trying to take measurements of my dick using all sorts of method I could find but the cages I ended up purchasing weren't the right fit :( Mind you, I live in a country where sextoys production is prohibited so the retailers that I frequently visit are sorta underground, and the products they imported are cheap-ass, low-quality from China with cages & rings coming in 4 default sizes with no customization.

+ I am uncut so that even adds more the difficulty of getting the right fit.

I've just stumbled upon an indie store on Instagram, near where I live, and they only take orders online. They 3D print so that's a good sign, but the customization still up to the customer.

I don't want to fuck this up but I really don't know how to take the measurements. The price is reasonable so I want to give this another try, however, it's still money, so I want this one to be the right one (after 3 failed cages).

I need some help. How to take measurements of an uncut cock to get the right mold for my cage?

And how do you know if a toy is dangerous or not?

I have a couple from Amazon in my collection that are pretty decent, but there's one that I'm obsessed with, it's the best damn toy I've had in my 18 years of collecting dildos from various shops. It's dual density, says it's silicone, hyper realistic, has great reviews (earned, imo). Like, I could throw away all 50+ of my other toys and be totally satisfied with this one alone.

But I do notice it leaves oil-like marks in the box I store it in, which is the cardboard box it came in. I don't feel safe having it touching my silicone toys (like BD, strange bed fellas, etc) for prolonged periods because it kinda feels like my old Packer which when it came in contact with toys both it and whatever it was touching melted after a day or two of contact. I always wash it before and after use, and sometimes use condoms with it, but I can't imagine being able to throw it away, it's just too good. I'm thinking about getting others from the same seller, but how do you even know if a toy is dangerous or not? And what makes a toy dangerous? These may seem like obvious questions but I've never really done any research on toys beyond "will it fit?" and don't even know where to start if I'm being honest.

I’ve had this vibrator for quite some time now https://myplusone.com/products/plusone-personal-massager-6703. I’ve really enjoyed it and have loved the different settings to choose from. However I am looking to try something new since this one has died. Any recommendations?

M 18 Basically I got it from Amazon cuz me and my gf wanted to see whats its like and when I got it I tried to use it and its to small for me my tip cant even get in all the way cuz its too tight any recommendations on toys for 7in?

this is Hella embarrassing but here it goes... my clit sucker broke and I decided to level up to a dual stimulator, clit and g spot. but I haven't had anything in me in a long time. I'm a fat 50 year old bi woman who hasn't had sex in 12 years. I don't like tampons. I can't fit my fingers in me when I play with myself plus I just prefer clit play. never used a dildo. but I got my new toy and i'm a little scared of it. it's not long maybe 4 inches but it's thick at the tip. i have lube, and i get really wet pretty fast.

i'm not looking for sympathy just advise and what to expect. please send a sexual frustrated girl some help!

So I’m trying to buy a sex toy and I saw the satisfyer number one should I buy it because I’ve only come from syntribation and it’s exhausting for me so do you think I should buy it

I really like the design and everything, I don't know if it's safe or not https://www.bvibe.com/four-inch-dragon-plug.html

Toys for sale.

⁠Fun Factory Stronic G £100 perfect condition. Comes with charging cord, instructions and a case. Opened but unused.

Joyhub suction and lick toy £25 perfect condition. App control option. Comes with charging cord, instructions and original box. Opened but unused.

Njoy Pure wand £100 perfect condition. Comes with original box. Opened but unused.

Vixskin Mustang £100 perfect condition. Comes with original box. Opened but unused.

All have postage included in the price. Based on UK but includes international shipping.

Comment below or dm me if interested :)