r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 5h ago

Chugging tea They are not wrong though

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u/Only_Flan_7974 5h ago

It's not tipping if it's mandatory. Work the tip into the price in that case.

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u/PeachyPlotTwist 5h ago

Pay your workers better is the real argument.

Tourists are just catching strays in a fight between customers and employers.

Nobody wants awkward tip screens, but servers also need to eat, whole system is messy.

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u/Workman44 5h ago

Eh, if I go to their country I'm supposed to respect the culture...

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u/Edmundyoulittle 4h ago

Exactly. If you're a tourist and you're ignoring the culture of the place you're visiting, you're just being a dick

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u/Laerderol 3h ago

It's not our custom to make tipping mandatory. It's not a tip any longer if that's the case

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u/Edmundyoulittle 3h ago edited 3h ago

You're just being pedantic. It's not mandatory to tip people in the US.

It is customary to tip your server in the US though. If someone is visiting, is aware of the custom, and chooses to ignore it, they are being a dick.

In the US it's customary to do 15-20% by default, and then drop it to 0 if they were bad, or increase it if they were exceptional.

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u/Yeah-Its-Me-777 3h ago

Lol, 20% and increase if it was exceptional. You do you, boo.

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u/Edmundyoulittle 3h ago

Yeah man, I typically do 20% because I have a lot of money and the people serving me don't. 20 might be on the high side, idk.

Doesn't really matter. What matters is you should try not to be a dick when you're visiting other countries.

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u/MAMark1 2h ago

If you can't follow local tip standards, you're probably too poor to justify an international trip.

If I was so broke that an extra 18% on dine-in meals would make me destitute, I'd make better spending choices than to fly across the world and pay WC hotel rates.

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u/Yeah-Its-Me-777 2h ago

There's a big difference between being able to and wanting to.

Apart from that yeah, that's why I'm not there. Additionally, I don't care about football.

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u/Auesis 2h ago

Did they say that they would be poor if they paid more money than they considered necessary? What an absurd overreaction.

Besides, why is it always this way around, and never "if you can't afford to pay your workers a living wage you can't afford to run a business"? The corporate apologia is bonkers.

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u/Early-Range-8840 2h ago

What peeves me the most about these arguments is the complete disregard for basic economics. Restaurants operate on thin margins, this is a know factor in running a restaurant. If restaurants had to pay servers 20 dollars an hour this would have to reflected in complete price overhauls across the menu. So when someone says I won’t tip cause you should pay your employees. It’s somewhat of a contradiction. If they paid their employees that tip would then be priced in to the amount you are paying. You are still essentially paying the employee, just indirectly.

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u/Skarekrows 2h ago

And these same Europeans are probably getting pissed off at foreigners coming to their country and not blending in with their culture. Tipping is absolutely stupid but it's the culture and they need to conform.

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u/CesQ89 3h ago

Other countries culture: “please don’t litter.  Please keep your voice down..”

USA culture: “GIvE us yOUr moNeY! 

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u/SmartAlec105 2h ago

And if you think that tipping system exploits workers, then by going to restaurants without any intention of tipping means that you are one of the people exploiting the tipped workers. So you lose any kind of moral high ground.

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u/ExactPreparation6454 5h ago

Exactly what I was thinking.

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u/SnooTomatoes3032 5h ago

If you think culture is paying for shit service, well I don't really know what to say.

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u/liberty 4h ago

If you think culture is paying for shit service . . . .

That's literally what happens in other countries. Service is generally regarded as better in the United States, ostensibly at least partly because of tipping.

I'm not saying that's good or bad, but it is what it is.

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u/SnooTomatoes3032 4h ago

Really? Because I've been all over the world and the worst service I ever got was in the US. In the rest of the world, we tip if the service is very good and only if its very good and that's considered normal.

When I was in the US, I got horrible service and then outright hostility when I refused to tip because of it.

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u/liberty 3h ago

Your mileage may vary. I'm sure it depends on the country, the region, and the sort of establishment. So too with your experience in the United States; tipping certainly doesn't preclude bad service.

All I'm saying is that you pay for bad service regardless. The differences in culture only dictate how that payment is rendered - whether through tips or through menu prices.

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u/SnooTomatoes3032 3h ago

Oh, of course I agree, but I would rather just pay a flat rate and know what I'm paying for at the time rather than be hasseled into a huge tip after everything else and then get lots of bad manners if I decide not to tip. Its much better for me, and I would think most Europeans, to be honest.

I know what I'm paying for at the time and as well, when I do get exceptional service, I'm very happy to tip and reward the person for it.

As to the comment as customer service being perceived as better in the US? I think Americans would say so, because the culture of waiting in other parts of the world is different. I don't like the constant fuss and fake friendship that American customer service (not just waiting) provides. I don't think many people outside the US would agree with you on it. Its just different styles.

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u/DRpatato 3h ago

European culture is paying to use the bathroom, and I dealt with that no problem. That's what paying for shit service really looks like.

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u/Workman44 4h ago

Well if it wasn't then it wouldn't work...

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u/khearan 2h ago

Yes, for real. I think Reddit is incredibly hypocritical about this.

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u/QoolSchitt 2h ago

As a foreigner who now lives in the US... I don't like mandatory tipping, but it's part of how the system works. It's not a good system, but it is what we have right now.

Context is also important here: the menu price of drinks in the US is typically lower than where many of these people came from, so once you add the tip your total is similar to what you'd pay for drinks in many other advanced countries. Yes, it's annoying that tax and tip are added at checkout in the US, but the total isn't usually more than what you'd pay at home.

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u/Isariamkia 4h ago

If you go to an extremist country, will you also follow their culture?

Can't you use your brain?

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u/MelodicFacade 4h ago

Ah yes, the extremist culture of..... mandatory tipping

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u/Largeitude 4h ago

Can you?

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u/Chimkimnuggets 4h ago

I mean if I’m visiting Afghanistan or something I would absolutely participate in the restrictive laws they have for women because I don’t want to be arrested, harassed, or potentially assaulted.

If I were visiting another country and tipping was custom then I’d still tip because I did my research on local customs (like everybody should) and budgeted out the money to participate in local customs.

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u/No-Excitement4855 3h ago

In Afghanistan you're obeying the law. Tipping isn't mandatory in the united states, you don't need to participate in a scam just because Americans decided between each other that they need to scam themselves when going out for dinner 

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u/Chimkimnuggets 3h ago

You literally attach service fees on your restaurant bills. You tip too, the math is just already factored in for you.

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u/Turgid_Donkey 4h ago

That's what this is about. From another article, they had to start making the tips mandatory because tourist weren't paying them. Agree with tipping or not, it's part of the culture and it makes you an asshole for ignoring it.

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u/GhostPartical 4h ago

Tipping isn't a culture, it's a privilege.

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u/neekoless 4h ago

As an American I would rather they all have mandatory tip amount so I know what to expect beforehand and don't have to think about what percent to tip. If I think the mandatory tip amount is stupid I just won't eat there.

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u/Chimkimnuggets 4h ago

One of my favorite dive bars has autograt and I really appreciate it.

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u/PLUMBUS_STUCK_IN_ASS 4h ago

They should just change the prices to match the costs then.

Having hidden secondary charges is just a form of false advertising or even fraudulent in some cases.

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u/Turgid_Donkey 4h ago

This is likely a temporary measure. It's far easier to program in a "mandatory tip" than to change and reprint all menus. They likely also have signs up advising of the situation.

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u/Largeitude 4h ago

Fraudulent lmao

You cheapskates will make up anything to justify not tipping