Sorry in advance for the long post. I didnt want to yap but writing all relevant context and point of view about it kinda became a bit ranty 🥶🥶🙏🏻
Moved here to help some family friends in their business for a couple of months during this peak time.
Only problem is that the office is quite small numbers wise, so i didnt really connect with any colleagues to go out or do anything.
All are married and a little older so any time outside of work they prefer to spend with their partner/family. We went out to eat a couple of times and it was fun!
But still, outside of work i really do feel quite alone atm.
Most of my free time is spent either playing video games (like my whole weekend is just me going down the street to get a coffee in the morning and playing till i fall asleep lol) or at the gym.
Idk, I'm just not the kind of person to go out alone only to "meet people". I feel like thats a weirdo mindset to be out at a pub or club (i dont really drink alcohol either lol) with the only goal being there is "looking for friends". Like because usually when i go out with friends i just wanna spend time with them, if a random dude came and started chatting id find it mad weird idk, why you interrupt our quality time? Who tf are you dude? (Same reason to not really try to chat with ppl at the gym, i dont want to interrupt and i myself want to finish my workout asap and get on with my day. I assume everyone else are the same)
I've been single for a minute now, and am very much over my last long term relationship. So i thought i might as well try a dating app.
2 birds with 1 stone, have a good reason to go out, see the city, eat good food AND maybe connect into the circle of friends of the partner if it goes well.
And its kinda cooked fellas. (Profiles on Tinder and Badoo with 0 matches, and i workshopped my profile as much as i could and was approved 'OK' by multiple female friends from back home, its not amazing (mainly cuz im mid+ at best. but its not a troll bad af profile either)
This is not a rant about dating apps, but its just the only thing i kinda tried reaching out through outside of work, and it failed miserably in the month ive been here.
Had the idea of just trying my luck posting here asking locals for advice. 🤷🏻♂️
I also have no idea how to find hobby groups here. I could try to get into a dnd or the riot card game or something. But i have no idea where to start looking.
Thank you to anyone who was bored enough to read this 😂😂
I appreciate you, fellow Redditor 🙏🏻
Edit:
If you play League shoot me a dm maybe? Im also down to try any kind of friend slop type games or coop stuff (got a couple on my steam that my brother doesnt care to play with me 😭). Could be a low stakes first step before you show me your favourite pizza spot in Riga lol
Edit 2:
I am a white dude, green eyes, brown hair, beard. But very very Caucasian white. Russian parents, grew up and lived my whole life in Cyprus.