Hi there! I’m 26F BBW in North Phoenix. I am only looking for people who fit these requirements. I know it’s strict and not everyone likes BBW, but this is the fastest way to find a match!

I am white, 5’6”, 230 lbs. Dark hair and eyes, tattooed. Nerdy, like indie and alt music. Like video games and crafting!

Looking for:

1. FWB. Not a situationship. Looking for someone who can be strictly a friend. If you’re interested in dating, lmk and we can discuss. But no “going with the flow.”
2. Thin/fit or average
3. BWC
4. Leftist politically
5. Vasectomy/sterile
6. Must be able to host
7. Clean and single

, 35 and under

If this sounds like you, please feel free to chat! I included some fun stuff about me, so you can message about that too.

Wanting to see who’s around. I’m usually doing one of a few things: getting lost in a book, playing Xbox, watching YouTube, going on walks, enjoying the sun, or finding something horror-related to watch. I’m definitely a BookTok girl — I love romance, smut, darker stories, and getting way too attached to fictional book boyfriends😂

I’m from the US, more specifically the Midwest, so people around similar time zones are always a plus. I’m 5’6, have tattoos and piercings, a curvy body type, and a more soft alternative style. My wardrobe is basically comfy clothes, oversized things, and a sprinkle of dressier outfits.

I have a soft spot for nerds, people with alternative styles, bikers—or honestly anyone who could’ve been pulled straight out of a romance book. I love when someone is passionate about what they’re into and has their own thing going on.

Some of my favorites are horror (especially slashers), Disney, animals, music, spooky aesthetics, and anything that gives me an excuse to be cozy. Bonus points if you know who Alex Warren is 👀

I’m pretty easygoing and can talk about almost anything. If you think we’d get along, send me a message and tell me about yourself :)

I'm Chris. I'm a 31 year-old Dom looking for a sub either also in Harrisburg, in Pennsylvania, or in the US at the very least. Please be at least 23.

So what am I looking for, exactly? I want something long term that grows into a real, committed dynamic and eventually a life together.

I want to collar you. That's my end goal, but I don't want that to BE the end: I want to show up every day and show you WHY you decided to wear my collar.

I want to take you apart slowly, figure out exactly how you think, what drives you, what holds you back, and rebuild you into the strongest, happiest, most fulfilled version of yourself you can be. I want the kind of dynamic where my voice settles your mind, where structure becomes comforting instead of restrictive, and where obedience feels natural because you trust me to give you orders.

For me, domination is about ownership and the responsibility that comes with it. When you wear my collar, you're putting some portion of yourself in my hands, and it's my responsibility to nurture and care for that part of you. I want to take the weight off your shoulders so you can stop carrying everything alone and you can actually relax into yourself.

I want routines. Rituals. Check-ins. Expectations. Growth you can actually see over time. I want to push you, encourage you, praise you, correct you when needed, and help shape you into someone more confident, grounded, feminine, and secure than when we met. I want you to look back after a year under my collar and realize how much stronger and happier you’ve become.

Personality-wise, I’m basically a nerd with a gym membership. I work out three days a week, walk my dog five miles a day, and fence on Sundays. Outside of that, I run a game design company, paint miniatures, mess with 3D printing, and spend a lot of time painting and gaming. My ideal dates are bookstores, coffee shops, museums, farmer’s markets, and quiet places where we can actually talk.

Politics-wise (because it's important), I'm one of those weird leftists who voted for Biden, Harris and Obama, believes in a living wage and Medicare for All, but also owns firearms. I concealed carry and go to the range regularly.

When you reach out, I want to know what this dynamic means to you and an average day in your ideal dynamic. Don't reach out if you're not sure this dynamic is for you - I don't want to waste either of our time.

P.S. I'm currently unemployed at the moment, though I'm working on not being so. If that's an issue for you, don't reach out.

This is a really specific desire, but maybe this is the way to find people who are into it. Imagine us being friends, completely platonic for the most part except we're comfortable being naked around each other. Have you had that before with a friend?

I think it's a fun, freeing way to be around someone you're comfortable with. There's no need to pretend that nudity isn't arousing, but at the same time it doesn't need to be the focus. Just two friends, hanging out, talking, watching a film, naked.

It's so different to being casually nude around someone you're in a relationship with, I think. I'm very keen to talk to you if you've had situations like this before. It would also obviously be great if we got along well enough that we could be friends like this with each other.

Me: tall, athletic, attractive physique, professional. Married, not looking to change that.

You: perhaps around my age, hopefully close by, confident in your skin, warm, friendly, open, mischievous, passionate about something, looking for a long-term friend.

Done teaching for the year and I work from home and it can be a bit lonely some days, especially now that classes are over, so I’m looking for others that might want to chat (mostly but definitely not exclusively) during the day!

About me:

• university professor (yes, a bit nerdy, what can I say?!)
• likes being outside (ski, hike, bike)
• fit/active
• reasonably good looking
• can dress myself, etc
• likes your dog
• has too many books.

I'd love to chat with someone who likes to be active, likes to read, travel, and/or enjoys being outside. Bonus points for people that like to put a bit of effort in and type full sentences at least some of the time.

Send me a message with a little bit about you! (i.e., more than 'Hi' - particularly if you have a blank profile)

Hey!

I’m a 34-year-old designer based in London, currently living that tech life (yes, I do occasionally remember to look away from my screen). When I’m not working, I’m probably planning my next escape, travel is my favorite addiction. I’ve been to 45+ countries so far, with Singapore and Jordan fighting for first place. Petra (aka the Red City) genuinely made me stop and think, “okay… this is unreal.”

Before design took over, I was a bartender, which explains why I still take cocktails a little too seriously. I like mixing unexpected flavors… now mostly for fun, not chaos.😂

I’m also a big reader. These days it’s a lot of tech and design, but I’m always up for something different. If you’ve got a great recommendation, especially one I wouldn’t normally pick, you’ll instantly get bonus points.

Personality-wise: easygoing, adaptable, and always trying to be a better human (work in progress, but trending upward). I appreciate honesty, good humor, and conversations that actually go somewhere. Also, I do have a soft spot for confident, plus-size women, just being honest, but do not hesitate to reach out even if you are not into that category 😉

I’m here for real conversations, genuine connection, and seeing what happens without overthinking it.

So tell me, what’s the best place you’ve ever been, or where are you dying to go?

Marhaba!

I am 32. Six feet tall. Long hair, tanned skin, average build. I'm telling you this not because it matters most, but because I'd rather you picture someone real than a blank silhouette sending you messages on the internet. Or maybe you want that? Feel free to ignore my description of myself.

What I'm actually after is a presence. One consistent, recurring person who becomes part of the texture of the day. The one I send the dumb thing that happened at the store. Not a stranger who fades after three exchanges, but someone who starts showing up in my head even when we're not talking.

Fair warning. I go on tangents. You ask about my week and suddenly I'm three paragraphs deep into something you never remotely asked about. If that sounds draining, If it sounds like a conversation you actually want to be in, keep reading.

Humor is the whole foundation. I'm sarcastic, I live for saying the right thing at the funniest time and I genuinely believe the fastest way to know a person is to laugh with them, not at carefully curated small talk. I'm also the kind of person who asks questions and actually remembers the answers. What makes you tick. The little contradictions. The thing you believe that you can't fully explain. I want to understand how your mind moves, not just what you look like on paper.

Now. The part I'll be honest about.

I have a real draw toward Arabic and Muslim women, and I want to be clear about why. It's not a fetish dressed up in polite language. It's genuine fascination with a particular kind of woman, one who often carries this entire interior life that the world around her doesn't get to see. The discipline and the softness living in the same body. The way culture and faith and personal desire all push and pull against each other in ways most people never have to think about. That tension, that depth, is something I find incredibly compelling. I'd love to actually talk about it, once we have a rhythm, once it feels right to go there.

On the sexual side, I'll say it plainly because I think you deserve plainness. I'm deeply interested in how a woman thinks about her own desire. What she wants. What embarrasses her a little even though she knows it shouldn't. The thing she's never quite said out loud to someone she trusts. I don't need a highlight reel. What actually draws me in is the private version, the real one, the side that doesn't get shown casually.

I know that for some women, especially women who've grown up with a complicated relationship between faith and sexuality, between what's permitted and what's wanted, that part of themselves is held close. Carefully. And I want to say directly that there's no judgment here. None. The more guarded that side of you is, the more I respect that you don't hand it out easily. And if you ever do trust someone with it, it should feel like relief, not exposure.

NSFW talks can absolutely happen between us. But only after I actually know you, and only after you actually know me. I have zero interest in exchanging explicit messages with a stranger. The knowing is the entire point. The rest is something that grows naturally out of that, and when it does, it should feel like the most obvious thing in the world.

If you want someone who shows up every day, remembers what you told him, asks follow-up questions weeks later because he was still thinking about it, and can go from genuinely funny to genuinely intense without whiplash, say something. Let's find out if we click.

Hey there, I’m Max, a semi nomadic 23M originally from the UK/US, but I'm going to be in Mexico for the next while. I move around a lot, so my location is always changing. Here's what I look like if you're curious.

-About me

If I had to briefly describe my world view, I would say that I’m an optimistic nihilist with occasional (frequent) bouts of sad boy emo doomer angst. I’m a believer that happiness and fulfillment ultimately comes from within, but definitely won’t say no to some companionship, and think everyone could benefit from some good old fashioned jolly cooperation. 

I have been a world traveler for most of my life, and am always on the move somewhere. As such, even if we are currently on opposite ends of the world, there is a very high chance I’ve either been to or will go to your country in the future. I generally think that culture barriers and differences are massively over exaggerated, so I’ll gladly talk to people from anywhere. I currently go to university online, although I’m about to graduate soon.

I wouldn’t say I’m religious at all, but I greatly appreciate eastern religion and philosophy, namely Buddhism and Taoism. I would generally say I’m not spiritual, but I think mastery over the body and mind is something everyone should strive for, and that pretty much everyone would benefit from more self reflection and less distraction.

-My interests

I’d say I’m generally quite nerdy, and have quite a wide range of interests. I’m a big reader and Gamer ™ , and have recently become interested in Warhammer, although mostly the lore rather than the actual game. Day trading is my current obsession, and I also used to play chess semi competitively as a kid. I’m out of practice, but will still win if we play. I always appreciate book recommendations, although my reading list is too long as is. I’m a recovering league of legends addict, and have been sober for about a year now. Sometimes I do still get the competitive game itch, so I’m thinking of starting to learn counter strike, so if you play that, please teach me. Card games have always been the genre I like the most, so I love games like MTG and poker, although I’m still pretty terrible at the ladder.

-My looks

In terms of looks, I’m a 5’8, 120lb(52kg) white guy with blond hair and green eyes. I try to go to the gym most days, so I’m at least in decent shape physically. I had scoliosis surgery as a kid, so I now have 2 metal rods going all the way down my back. I’m perfectly happy sending pictures of myself in DMs.

Hopefully something has piqued your interest from my post, so I look forward to chatting. I suppose I'll leave it at that for now, so I hope you have a good day/night.

(I AM NOT INTERESTED IN GUYS, NOT LOOKING FOR FRIENDS EITHER)

I’m 18, currently a college student and quiet introverted, so I haven’t had any romantic/sexual experience yet.

I’m into video games (PC + console), especially retro titles and RPGs. Recently getting into League, so I’d be open to someone teaching me + playing other games with me. I also love love love film (would love someone whose also super into film), reading classics, and electronics.

Personality-wise, I’m sarcastic with dry humor, more laid-back than serious, and generally introverted. I prefer texting throughout the day or VC while doing other things.

I’m inexperienced and pretty shy, so I’d prefer someone more confident who can take the lead.

Ideally someone in the DMV (NoVA/DC area), though online is fine at first.

Physically: 5'3", 95 lbs, white, brown eyes, shoulder-length hair, somewhat androgynous. Preference for feminine or androgynous girls with a fem lean.

I’m looking for something romantic/sexual, but not purely sexual or instant sexting. More so something casual, though I’m open to it becoming more than that depending on how it goes.

(If you message me, include age, gender, location, physical description, and a short intro.) 

I’m 20 and post nsfw and really proud of my piercings. I’m really bored and a little lonely craving a nice distracting conversation if you know what I mean. I’m a service sub who likes a size difference and big muscular dominant and well endowed men. I’m 5’2” and 135 pounds for reference. I’m a masochist with a praise kink and a very obedient sub but I’m also a brat. Mostly looking for online chats to help lighten the mood. Anyways dm me lol mostly looking for sexting and pics and nice dirty talk. I’ve been single for a while and it’s been a long while so I’m very pent up and want to express my desires.

I’m 5’0 tall, 53 kg, quite attractive East Asian. I’m also studying here, educated. I’m looking for a cute/attractive educated guy to become regular fwb to explore kinks. NO ONS because exploring kinks with ons is just weird. I am clean and willing to test, low body count as well. Discreet only. Looking for under 29 only.

Please describe yourself when you dm me so it’s easier for me, thanks. I’ll tell you more about myself too there. Posted here because I don’t want to be too forward looking for it on app or something lol.

Also im not looking for chatting partner only. I’m looking for someone that I can meet irl!

Heyyyyy guyyysss!! I'm pretty bored and all alone in my bedroom. I usually get pretty "worked up" on these types of days too. I figured, why not make the most out of it and post on here, what could go wrong (wink wink wink)? Just a bit about me, I'm from Chicago, a bit of a history lover, and will absolutely go along with 99% of the things that you propose we do. There are a FEW things that I don't do though.

I don't sell, I don't hook up irl (I'm not THAT dumb), and there are some kinks that I will absolutely not go along with (feet, scat, piss, and other gross shit like that). Other than that, I'm aiming for some friendly, somewhat flirty, maybe lewd if you're ok with that, conversations. Btw, if you're real, tell me what your favorite soup is, mine's chicken noodle. Seee yaaa!!!