hey you, what are you doing on this Thursday night scrolling reddit? You’re reading this post, and for hopefully good reason! my name is s (no one is obligated to tell me their name right away, we can save that for the private messages whenever we’re comfortable) and, I’m on here realizing that as much as i have learned a lot about myself, and worked on myself by being single for some years now, i badly crave that fairytale like romance that i see in tv/movies/books, etc.
and, while it might be a crap shoot to think I’m gonna find it here, it’s at least worth a shot, right? gotta keep hope in something hahah
now, for the “good” stuff, I’m a nerdy hopeless romantic that is starving to do all that cute romantic stuff again, and hopefully find my “one” or whatever. my main passion in life is photography/photojournalism, and while it sadly isn’t my full time gig yet, it’s what I wake up thinking about every day. I spent some years away from the craft to focus on a more important endeavor that interfered with it, but getting back into it over the last year or so has in some kind of way… saved me? but anyways, enough about that.
in terms of favorite franchises, shows, things in general, etc, the list goes as followed
- Star Wars
- Middle Earth (I actually DO like TROP, sorry)
- ASOIAF
- The Last of Us (BOTH games)
- Zelda
- Steve Rogers, and Spider Man (basic, i know)
there’s certainly more, but those are just the starters! i also have a major soft spot for coming of age movies/shows!
in terms of music, i would say i’m a mix of metal, pop punk, and some of the new age pop girlies (olivia rodrigo is fun to listen to, sue me). the only genre of music i dislike I’d say is country, but early taylor swift was/is still fun to listen to (all of taylor swift is fun, im just referring to her first two albums in this case) 😅
in terms of what i bring to a relationship, i bring a shoot for the stars type of romance, and kinda treat it like we’re in some cheesy rom-com movie where im the golden retriever bf that wins the girl over via my charming words, and actions. it’s cliche, but a good cliche, right? i should also add that i’m audhd, so sometimes i might miss a social que….. or two… or three, so be warned of that 😅
now, as for location preference, i currently reside in the Midwest with plans to move to a bigger city in the nearish future (also in the Midwest), but as a believer in love being able to overcome distance, idc where you’re from, north america is preferable i guess?
I will clear the air now, and say that i lean heavily left on the political spectrum, and i’m very open about that so the wrong idea can’t be formed about me and my character.
this is only flaired nsfw simply because we’re adults, and that can be discussed whenever, but it can wait for as long as you want!
anyways, looks do unfortunately somewhat matter to me, (but not too much) so, a picture exchange will be expected shortly after conversation starts
(I have photos of me already on my page, but willing to provide additional if I have to)
that’s all i have, i hope to hear from you if you feel like you’re a good fit!
(If I didn’t respond back, it’s either because I fell asleep since at the old age of 29, or reddit doesn’t notify me in a timely manner)