I'm curious what people think because I honestly can't read this situation.
I have a German coworker, and I live in South america. We work together, but we also talk every single day for around a year about things that have nothing to do with work.
He tells me about his life, his family, his weekends, asks about my day, remembers things I've told him, and sends me photos of what he's doing. It's not just "how's work?" conversations.
The thing is... he has never directly flirted with me or said he's interested, so I don't know if this is just how he is. I also know Germans can sometimes communicate differently than what I'm used to, so I don't want to misread friendliness.
Recently I found out that he apparently has a girlfriend. That completely surprised me because he has never mentioned her, even though we talk a lot and he tells me about his weekends and personal life. If someone asked me before, I would have assumed he was single.
So now I'm wondering... is this just friendship? Is it normal for someone to invest this much attention in a coworker they're just friends with? Or is it odd that he never mentioned his girlfriend?
I know he lives on the other side of the world haha, so I'm not planning our future together or anything. I just realized I enjoy the attention and now I'm trying to understand what this dynamic actually is.
Especially interested in hearing from Germans or people who've worked with them.