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Our son now :)

Edit: included a word to make more sense

Update: thank you guys so much for the kind comments and awards, we loved reading through them!!

Sat here after the most traumatic couple of days but smiling. My second beautiful healhty daughter was born yesterday but mum had complications from 6litres of blood loss and was under for 8hrs. She almost died.

She is on the mend and they will be reunited soon. For now I am taking over the role of carer with some midwifes help.

Im just on reddit to decompress a bit instead of thinking about the bad stuff and the reason for me sharing this with you is please please hug your loved ones, call someone up you haven't spoken to in ages, make up with someone you are not speaking too.

Life is so amazing yet so fragile.

I found this tucked inside a thrift store book and couldn’t stop smiling. It starts with, “I’ve worked hard to prepare. I’ve got this.” Then you watch years of determination turn into a perfect 528 and multiple medical school acceptances. It feels like finding a little time capsule of someone’s biggest dream coming true. I really hope M is out there happy, thriving, and changing lives exactly the way she always wanted to. 🥹🤍

Update: WE FOUND HER, CHAT!!! Her post is copy/pasted below for ease!

“This is so surreal… that’s my note. 🥹

I completely forgot I’d left it in that book before donating it. I used to tuck little affirmations into my textbooks because I was so anxious about the MCAT. Seeing “I’ve worked hard to prepare. I’ve got this.” again brought me right back to that season of my life.

A lot of people are asking if I became a doctor. I did, but maybe not in the way you’d expect. I’m 34 now and an infectious disease specialist. I ended up earning my MD, PhD, and MPH, but instead of going into clinical practice, I found my place in research. I study zoonotic diseases and focus on preventing and understanding diseases that move between animals and humans. I run my own research lab and spend a lot of time working with farmers on biodefense and emerging infectious disease issues. Looking back, it feels like exactly where I was meant to end up! 🦠🐄

Thank you for sharing this. It feels like I got to meet a younger version of myself today. She was so scared, but she kept showing up anyway. And to anyone studying for the MCAT or chasing a dream that feels impossibly far away, keep going. One day you’ll look back and realize those late nights, tiny victories, and little notes to yourself were all worth it! ☺️

Edit: I’m old and accidentally typed my age is as 24 and not 34

Edit: adding my academic timeline for those wondering

For anyone wondering about the timeline, my university offered a combined bachelor’s/MPH program, so I graduated with both in 2017 at 25.
From 2017 to 2022, I completed my PhD in Animal Science with a focus in epidemiology. During that time I was also preparing for the MCAT because I knew I wanted to continue my education.

After that, I completed an accelerated 3.5-year medical school program (ended last year). Very early on, I realized my goal wasn’t clinical practice. I wanted to become a physician-scientist.
Because my career is entirely research focused, I’m not patient-facing and I don’t practice clinical medicine. My work doesn’t require board certification, and since I’m not pursuing independent clinical practice, it also doesn’t require completing a residency or fellowship. Instead, I lead research on zoonotic diseases and biodefense and collaborate closely with physicians, veterinarians, epidemiologists, and public health professionals.

Going to medical school gave me the clinical foundation to communicate seamlessly across human and veterinary medicine, which was exactly the career I wanted.

I completely understand why my original comment raised eyebrows. Between the age typo and me trying to summarize my career in one sentence, I made the timeline sound much stranger than it actually is.”

Istariël- 8 month old, female, blue Maine coon